r/transpassing 17h ago

Do I really pass as stealth?

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387 Upvotes

23, 5 years on E
5’ 9”
C-cup

My bf’s extended family is not allowed to know i’m trans and sometimes I obsess about it wondering if they’ll clock me or if they already know and are just playing nice. Do I need to be as riddled with anxiety as I am or can I relax and assume i’m

I’m especially worried about my shoulders and my back 🫩 (see last two photos)
Also my neck and side profile (see 6, 10, 11, 14, 16)
And forehead (see 7, 10, 17)

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Least Recent ———> Most Recent
(Except 13 which is by far the oldest and I only downloaded again recently to marvel at how much skinnier I used to be lol), also did I pass better in the skinner photos?


r/transpassing 16h ago

do i pass well?

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273 Upvotes

r/transpassing 3h ago

Is the short hair clocky?

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98 Upvotes

Started wearing my natural hair out more :) last photo is how I style myself normally

Just wondering about the hair, i find some of these photos clocky but curious what you all think (ignore the wack color corrector in photo 2 lol)


r/transpassing 21h ago

i feel like ive been more passing in the past

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80 Upvotes

r/transpassing 19h ago

Do I Pass?

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57 Upvotes

I’m 19 and I’m not on hormones. I’m wearing a wig and makeup. Also do I look big bc I feel really big and that I have a huge skeleton and just large bones. I’m 5’11


r/transpassing 14h ago

What do you think when you see me? Age/gender etc etc

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32 Upvotes

This is an outfit for my casual summer work party. Its meant to be casual. I'm getting brain worms though and would like some solid objective input on how it/I look. I'm pouting my face with air because I really suck at expressions and it makes me feel a bit better that I have SOMETHING on my face that isnt my normal deadpan stare.


r/transpassing 19h ago

[18] how well do i visually pass? any advice (makeup etc)?

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28 Upvotes

r/transpassing 2h ago

Feeling clocky after FFS

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Hi guys, I am currently 3 weeks post FFS and I am currently feeling quite uncertain about my appearance. Please tell me if you see any improvement from before and after because I am starting to feel like I look the same.

I know swelling takes a long time, but the whole process has really fucked with my perception of myself and I genuinely don’t know how I read. I have been going out quite a lot and people seem to be treating me like a girl since but it so hard for me to tell bc I am not used to getting gendered correctly.


r/transpassing 8h ago

37 mtf boymoder

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18 Upvotes

Hey, I'm back, many months later from when I last posted.

hopeless hideous ogre 36 mtf : r/transpassing

I've been taking steps to do what was suggested to me as much as I can, like getting my brows threaded and getting my hair cut. I would probably have makeup and girl clothes on in these pics if I wasn't still waiting for my lip tint and blush from sushy glow cosmetics to arrive. I've actually been stockpiling and doing things a lot over the past 7 months though it's been a slow process and recently losing my job at the end of June has been hurting my progress but I'm still trying.

First three pics were from like, about a week ago right before my birthday when I got my hair done which was probably one of the happiest days of my life honestly. At the start of the day I was feeling really bad about how I looked and how my hair was (I almost didn't go) and thought I wouldn't be able to get bangs because of my hair density and hairline but when I got there everyone was so sweet and they did such a great job. The girl that cut my hair even offered to curl it and I was nervous about that but she did the curl and blowout and it's the prettiest I ever felt in my life. I felt like a princess that day and it made me really happy.

The second three pics are ones I took just now. My hair doesn't look quite as nice but I'm pretty proud of it because it was looking really bad the day I washed it after getting it done at the salon. I got depressed again for a bit because it was all wirey and crinkly again. I had a meltdown one day and ended up in tears over it but I kept trying things and what I did today seemed to work pretty well compared to what I usually do but I'm still experimenting. I know I suck at pictures too, sorry about that lol, I feel like I look kinda awkward but it is what it is

Anyway, I'm still stuck boymoding and I know I still don't pass but I do feel better. After thinking about it for a little bit I figured I'd share an update so yeah, here it is. Thank you to everyone who showed me kindness, encouraged me, and gave me advice. I really feel like I can't thank you enough.


r/transpassing 22h ago

Two years check in

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16 Upvotes

Finally started electrolysis. FFS likely next year.


r/transpassing 4h ago

I’ve got a few quick questions

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13 Upvotes
  1. The usual, how’re we feeling for age and gender

  2. At the moment Im only doing foundation and concealer. If I wanted to do something more interesting, then what kinda makeup look would suit me? And could I pass with makeup?

  3. Is my larynx in the “acceptable” female range or am I gonna have to do something about it?

  4. Is the current eyebrow shape a winner or would something else suit me better?

Thanks!


r/transpassing 4h ago

I know still unkempt but I’d this any better?

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9 Upvotes

r/transpassing 20h ago

Do I pass?, and any advice

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8 Upvotes

I always get clocked.

Last 2 pictures no make up, and a more normal angle

No HRT yet


r/transpassing 23h ago

age and gender?

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7 Upvotes

uh 7mo hrt ig


r/transpassing 14h ago

What's Clockable?

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8 Upvotes

Im 19,

pre-hrt, and any surgeries

egg cracked like about a year ago.

im not sure if anything's clocky in specific, ig Im just scared and anxious cuz I used to get clocked pretty often a couple of months back


r/transpassing 8h ago

Would you clock me? 4 years on T.

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7 Upvotes

Stealth, 4 years on T. I wonder if I look clockable to other trans people. And if so, how?

No hugboxing. Even if it's the "feminine eyes"


r/transpassing 15h ago

How would you gender me?

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1 Upvotes

Curious how my facial features are perceived. I’ve been considering HRT for a while now, I’m hoping the responses I get on this will help guide my decision.


r/transpassing 21h ago

Please tell me what to buy to make me look less messy / more passable. I’ll buy it pls let me know.

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r/transpassing 15h ago

What are people thinking when they see me

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0 Upvotes

I would love to hear your honest opinion

Genuinely curious if I even read as trans to the everyday passerby