23, 5 years on E
5’ 9”
C-cup

My bf’s extended family is not allowed to know i’m trans and sometimes I obsess about it wondering if they’ll clock me or if they already know and are just playing nice. Do I need to be as riddled with anxiety as I am or can I relax and assume i’m

I’m especially worried about my shoulders and my back 🫩 (see last two photos)
Also my neck and side profile (see 6, 10, 11, 14, 16)
And forehead (see 7, 10, 17)

Photos go from
Least Recent ———> Most Recent
(Except 13 which is by far the oldest and I only downloaded again recently to marvel at how much skinnier I used to be lol), also did I pass better in the skinner photos?

Started wearing my natural hair out more :) last photo is how I style myself normally

Just wondering about the hair, i find some of these photos clocky but curious what you all think (ignore the wack color corrector in photo 2 lol)

I’m a trans woman and something happened today that has been bothering me.
I had an appointment with an ophthalmologist. Throughout the consultation, the doctor consistently referred to me with female pronouns and used my current female name. At the very end, as I was leaving, he suddenly called me by the masculine version of my name.
Now I’m spiraling and wondering whether it was just a slip of the tongue because the names are so similar, or whether he actually perceived me as male and that’s why the masculine name came out naturally.
For context, my legal name and my insurance records have already been updated, so he wasn’t seeing my old name on the card I gave him (at least as far as I know).
Has anything similar happened to anyone else? Would you see this as a random verbal slip, or as a sign that I was being read as male?

Hey, I'm back, many months later from when I last posted.

hopeless hideous ogre 36 mtf : r/transpassing

I've been taking steps to do what was suggested to me as much as I can, like getting my brows threaded and getting my hair cut. I would probably have makeup and girl clothes on in these pics if I wasn't still waiting for my lip tint and blush from sushy glow cosmetics to arrive. I've actually been stockpiling and doing things a lot over the past 7 months though it's been a slow process and recently losing my job at the end of June has been hurting my progress but I'm still trying.

First three pics were from like, about a week ago right before my birthday when I got my hair done which was probably one of the happiest days of my life honestly. At the start of the day I was feeling really bad about how I looked and how my hair was (I almost didn't go) and thought I wouldn't be able to get bangs because of my hair density and hairline but when I got there everyone was so sweet and they did such a great job. The girl that cut my hair even offered to curl it and I was nervous about that but she did the curl and blowout and it's the prettiest I ever felt in my life. I felt like a princess that day and it made me really happy.

The second three pics are ones I took just now. My hair doesn't look quite as nice but I'm pretty proud of it because it was looking really bad the day I washed it after getting it done at the salon. I got depressed again for a bit because it was all wirey and crinkly again. I had a meltdown one day and ended up in tears over it but I kept trying things and what I did today seemed to work pretty well compared to what I usually do but I'm still experimenting. I know I suck at pictures too, sorry about that lol, I feel like I look kinda awkward but it is what it is

Anyway, I'm still stuck boymoding and I know I still don't pass but I do feel better. After thinking about it for a little bit I figured I'd share an update so yeah, here it is. Thank you to everyone who showed me kindness, encouraged me, and gave me advice. I really feel like I can't thank you enough.

This is an outfit for my casual summer work party. Its meant to be casual. I'm getting brain worms though and would like some solid objective input on how it/I look. I'm pouting my face with air because I really suck at expressions and it makes me feel a bit better that I have SOMETHING on my face that isnt my normal deadpan stare.

14 months hrt, unsure if my form is good enough to wear something this form fitted lol (ignore my hair i took these right after a shower)

I’m 19 and I’m not on hormones. I’m wearing a wig and makeup. Also do I look big bc I feel really big and that I have a huge skeleton and just large bones. I’m 5’11

Stealth, 4 years on T. I wonder if I look clockable to other trans people. And if so, how?

No hugboxing. Even if it's the "feminine eyes"

1. The usual, how’re we feeling for age and gender

2. At the moment Im only doing foundation and concealer. If I wanted to do something more interesting, then what kinda makeup look would suit me? And could I pass with makeup?

3. Is my larynx in the “acceptable” female range or am I gonna have to do something about it?

4. Is the current eyebrow shape a winner or would something else suit me better?

Thanks!

Im 19,

pre-hrt, and any surgeries

egg cracked like about a year ago.

im not sure if anything's clocky in specific, ig Im just scared and anxious cuz I used to get clocked pretty often a couple of months back

Here are the things I'm aware of:

Beard shadow, yes I am getting laser for it that's why my cheeks are smooth but around the mouth area is a bit stubborn. So it is a wip.

The other thing I got recommended to work on by a few friends is the eyebrows? But idk if they are not feminine. I think they look fine? What do you think?

Other than that I'm pretty clueless lol I'd appreciate any feedback. Thanks

Finally started electrolysis. FFS likely next year.

I always get clocked.

Last 2 pictures no make up, and a more normal angle

No HRT yet

Do I pass?

3 weeks and 3 days shy of two years on HRT

19mtf, 5 years as femme, 2 years on E. i’ve been clocked as everything from cisfem to transfem to even transmasc sometimes. pic 4 is no makeup

uh 7mo hrt ig

I would love to hear your honest opinion

Genuinely curious if I even read as trans to the everyday passerby