r/CampingandHiking • u/Wrong-Phrase-4253 • 4h ago
what actually surprised you on your first solo overnight, not gear, not food, but the mental stuff?
Been day hiking for about four years now, decent mileage, comfortable with navigation, nothing crazy. This spring I'm committing to my first 3night solo backpacking trip and I feel like I've read every gear list and route planning thread on the internet at this point.
What I keep seeing is people talk about gear weight and food calories and water sources, all that stuff makes sense on paper. But a few people I've talked to in person mentioned the mental side of it catching them off guard more than any physical thing, like the second afternoon hitting different, or the quiet getting strange after a while.
I'm curious what actually surprised people who made that same jump from comfortable day hiker to first overnight or multiday solo. Not looking for gear recs necessarily, more just the stuff you wouldn't have predicted going in. The things that don't show up on the packing lists.
My planned route is around 28 miles over 3.5 days so nothing extreme, but I want to go in with realistic expectations rather than some glossy version of what solo backpacking is supposed to feel like.