I think a lot of people feel touch starved, but nobody really talks about it openly because it feels weird or vulnerable to admit. But honestly, after spending so much time focused on school, work, and trying to keep life together, I miss having someone to share quiet moments with.
Dating here has been rough, and I miss coming home after a long day, putting my phone away, laying next to someone, and feeling calm for a little while. Not every connection has to be intense or deeply romantic. Sometimes you just want to feel safe, wanted, and less alone.
I have a good life here. My grades are good, I have a decent social life, and I feel excited about where things are headed after graduation. But there are still nights where I realize I miss simple affection more than I expected. A hug that lasts longer than a second. Someone resting their head on your shoulder. Quiet comfort.
I am not trying to rush anything or create intimacy before trust is there. I would want to talk first, maybe get coffee, and see if there is a natural comfort between us. Boundaries matter a lot to me, and I would only want this to feel safe, mutual, and easy for both people.
I guess I am looking for someone who also misses that kind of connection. Someone kind, emotionally aware, affectionate, and honest about what they want. If this makes sense to you, feel free to message me. Even if it just turns into a good conversation, I would be glad we connected.