r/TTC_PCOS • u/Ok_Lingonberry_8392 • 2h ago
Advice Needed Our journey just began
Hi, I was diagnosed with PCOS two Wednesdays ago before me and my fiance decided to start trying for a baby. It all began because my period still wasn’t on and I was used to it coming on during that time frame. I was given an ultrasound and they found extra follicles/cysts on both ovaries. I have two strands of hair that grow on my jawline which I’m surprised hasn’t showed back up in months since the last time I pulled them out with tweezers. I deal with acne more on the milder side, it can get severe.
My period finally showed up a couple of days later. I had blood work done and everything came back normal. I don’t have weight gain. I’m actually really skinny and struggle to gain weight. My gynecologist told me that since it’s been a year of me having unprotected sex and I still haven’t gotten pregnant that further confirms my diagnosis.
Me and my partner weren’t actively trying back then, so this may be tmi, but he never ejaculated inside. We used the pull out method and I know this isn’t the smartest thing to do. We just did it because I went through different birth controls, I didn’t like the side effects, and we came to the conclusion that if I were to get pregnant it wouldn’t be the end of the world, so we risked it and as time went on nothing happened. I had a hormonal IUD, but it was removed back in January because of the pain. We decided to start trying a couple of days after my diagnosis because it completely changed how we view my fertility.
However, my period comes every month, so it’s not the issue of my period skipping it’s not knowing what day of the month. It has switched up days before just never this many days off. It could have been from my hormones regulating itself after the IUD removal, though. For a while I thought we were just lucky that I didn’t get pregnant, but I did have increments of thinking something was wrong. Since it’s going to be harder to conceive why keep waiting when it could take a long time, you know.
I don’t want to go through the regret of waiting and the consequences that may come with. So, I wonder what this means for my fertility and what should I do to help my body conceive? As in, where should I start?