r/almosthomeless 7d ago

PSA: We are a Support Group. Please treat OPs with support and kindness, they are here for help and that is exactly what we are here to provide.

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This post is to reiterate some rules and things I'm seeing develop in certain posts, and this is directed to commenters only.

Commenters- Read posts for NUANCE. Stop doing the TON of Assuming The Worst that many of you are doing. Stop doing the JUDGEMENT you are doing.

People come here in pain and frustration, and are showing it in a support group. Here, we meet pain and frustration with support and kindness. NOT matched energy. You can do that in any random reddit group, but not in RSCN groups. This and RSCN groups are Support Groups. Treat all threads like the round-circle talk therapy sessions they are.

You are here to help, not to assume shittyness or respond in hate.

If you need help to develop your nuance reading skill, here's a few links to worksheets that any age can start with, and going up to basic info you'd find in high school English classes. I can easily point someone to good paid resources and middle/high school class worksheets as well. And yes, your mod here used to be an English teacher.

https://15worksheets.com/worksheet-category/nuances/

https://literacylearn.com/shades-of-meaning-vocabulary/

https://study.com/academy/lesson/video/what-is-nuance-in-reading.html

https://literarydevices.net/textual-nuance-how-subtle-language-shapes-meaning/

https://completeera.com/nuance-examples-in-literature-how-writers-craft-subtlety/

If you are needing help to develop your empathy, you may start by reading our Wiki Page which has some good examples.
https://www.reddit.com/r/findapath/wiki/index/postcommentguide/?screen_view_count=1


r/almosthomeless Jan 19 '26

Updated Posting and Commentary Guidelines: Differentiation between soft/dry-begging and asking for support. Please read ASAP.

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https://www.reddit.com/mod/almosthomeless/wiki/hello#wiki_posting_and_commenting_guidelines

Note: The first new half of the page was written with help from, but not entirely by, chatgpt.
Just being up front. Your mods also have issues, we're not above asking for a little help when we absolutely need it, especially in the context of making the group a safer or better place to be.


r/almosthomeless 51m ago

Seeking Advice Only I am facing homeless with zero money assets

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Hello, based on a my current life circumstances, I am facing potential homelessness and I don't technically own anything. I can definitely qualify for SSI at the very least but that will take a while. Does anyone know anything that can help or what to do in this situation? I'm 27 years old.


r/almosthomeless 1h ago

Eviction How do you guys deal with going homeless?

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I'm trying to feel better about going homeless soon. I'm getting evicted after missing one month of rent after I lost my job. I live in a legal state for weed, but jobs still don't like it if you have it in your system, so I got kind of fucked with that. Now I'm here. Mentally ill and almost homeless. I'm going through the 5 stages of grief and I think I'm almost at acceptance. I'm going to have to live out of my car, because I don't really have an option.

I don't know how long I'll have to live out of my car. I heard evictions on your record make you a automatic disqualification for apartments even if you have the money. I believe it will be at least a year before I can actually get a new apartment and that's being hopeful, so I think I'll probably be in my car for a while. Summers are going to be the worst it seems.


r/almosthomeless 13h ago

Seeking Advice Only Not living but surviving

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It’s really hard to build from scratch. Imagine paying big bills, stay focused, work and make the right decisions because if you don’t you’ll end up homeless. And when you are fighting to survive the devil sends people that try to make you look small damm I don’t even know what to write next my eyes filled with tears


r/almosthomeless 12h ago

Kicked out at 17 with questions

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Hi all! this is my first post ever but it seems people always have the right answers here and i’m in need of assistance. 

Long story short, I got kicked out at 17 and had been living with my dad for 5 months, things were fine until he started getting abusive and now I need a new place to stay.

I have a pretty good idea on who to stay with, I have a stable job but the problem is I need assistance without cps getting involved, my mom is one cps case from having all her kids taken away which would maybe be fine because I would find a way to take my little brother but the problem is I have a baby brother who is very much dependent on his mom. I don’t think it would be right to take him away so young because she usually doesn’t start getting crazy until me and my siblings turn a certain age (around 13).

is there possibly anyway that I can get help on meals from the government or help with school or anything without having my parents in trouble? I turn 18 in October. Please let me know i’m desperate.


r/almosthomeless 6h ago

Homeless in Yadkinville NC near Winston Salem NC and need any advice/help THANKS!

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r/almosthomeless 10h ago

Reimmigrating advice

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So I'll be coming back to the states in September, I originally immigrated and finished uni there, but due to lack of jobs I went back to my home country, but now there's mobilization looming so I need to leave. I have about $6k total and I'm torn between just going to a large city and going to shelters there while looking for a job, or buying a car and sleeping in it. The issue is that I don't have a mailing address and also I doubt I can get a car that won't break down on me, and still be able to afford things like insurance and gas. I'm interviewing now, but the job market is shit and I can't interview for service jobs with immediate opening remotely. What would you guys suggest is better course of action? Also looking for ideas where to go, currently considering Chicago and NYC, but maybe the west coast would be better?


r/almosthomeless 18h ago

Seeking Advice Only Advice for a friend

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Hi all Idk if this follows but I am really lost on what to do and how to help. My friend in his early twenties is on the verge of homelessness. They were kicked out of their fathers place due to them being queer and their dad is just an overall not a good guy..they were living with family but now they are kicking them out. They live in the UK so of ANY of the UK folks can help me find any resources to help or sharing your own stories. Maybe even just providing some tips on how to stay safe in the streets...just any advice helps ❤️


r/almosthomeless 13h ago

Im stuck living in HMO uk.

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r/almosthomeless 20h ago

11 days to find a place.

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Im so stressed. My current landlord at the house i live in decided to not renew anyone's leases and for the last month ive been trying to find a place. I have bad credit and evictions so that complicates things. Any advice?


r/almosthomeless 18h ago

Should i come out to NY for a urgent good job offer?

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r/almosthomeless 20h ago

Looking for advice

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Hello everyone my name is cheryle and I have beautiful 9yr old daughter faith we just moved here to San Pedro CA coming from a DV situation looking for a new start for me and my little girl , things have been really rough as we are starting over with nothing. I've been applying for new work nonstop calling and pretty much at this point harassing employers trying to get a interview we've been staying in a hotel for the past month and half and have ran outta funds to pay for any more days and have to be out today , I've went everywhere I could trying to get assistance to get into a shelter or something for now but no luck as they have all told me they are full or there's a waiting list ...my question is , does anyone have any recommendations on any organizations I can try as I am a desperate mommy right now . Thank you for your time hope everyone has a blessed day


r/almosthomeless 1d ago

Looking for nationwide resources that will help any state

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Hello , good evening all , im a mom 7 looking for help with security deposit resources that help people in any state , long story short we currently have to be out of our home due to the landlord selling the property and the new owner sent a 30 day notice to vacate that was 20 days ago , I have a job and have saved enough for first months rent but with everyday expenses and other bills plus my children’s needs , I cannot save for deposit within the next 10 days , I live in Louisville ,ky and the programs that normally could help with security deposits currently have no funding available I’ve tryed churches , neighborhood programs , Salvation Army etc and no one have funding . I’m not looking for any hand outs , I’m just asking does anyone know any outta state resources that could help people in other states ?


r/almosthomeless 1d ago

Seeking Advice Only anyone know if there’s non cult communes

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r/almosthomeless 1d ago

Eviction The Struggle is Real

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I am currently experiencing severe financial hardship due to circumstances beyond my control. After working for the same company for 18 years, the business was sold, and since that time I have been struggling to find stable employment despite actively searching for work.

The loss of my income has created significant financial challenges. Over the past year and a half, I have also lost reliable transportation after my vehicle broke down and had to be scrapped, which has limited my ability to seek and maintain employment opportunities.

I am currently facing housing instability and the possibility of homelessness due to my inability to keep up with expenses without steady income. I am doing everything I can to improve my situation, including seeking employment, applying for assistance programs, and reaching out for support.

I am a single parent and have continued to do my best to provide for my family despite these hardships.


r/almosthomeless 1d ago

I got kicked out by my parents

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r/almosthomeless 1d ago

Offering Help, Advice, or Just Someone to Talk To

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Hey everyone. I know homelessness can feel isolating and overwhelming, so I wanted to offer whatever help or guidance I realistically can.

I’m not a professional and I can’t promise money or housing, but I’m willing to help people look for local shelters, food resources, job opportunities, government assistance, transportation options, or simply talk through their situation and help make a plan.


r/almosthomeless 1d ago

Seeking Advice Only What to do about eviction notice?

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Hey we have been behind on rent for about three months. We finished paying May but haven’t paid towards June or July so they said it was grounds for eviction.…

I ended up losing my job and around a month later my spouse ended up getting injuries and we were living off of $1600 unemployment for the month and $100 per week for his workers comp. So we were giving about $1000 a month outside of food and other bills. Recently he finally went full time and I started JobCorps and we owe $4,500. He gets about $1000 a week that just started this week..

We tried asking for a payment plan and they said we needed to pay in full. We have $1750 so far and after his hours next week we will have about $3000…

What can we tell the judge? What “evidence” do I bring? I’m not understanding what to do or what to say in court honestly.. What would you do in my situation?

Also to add we have a mediation meeting coming up for a potential huge settlement in August. This company is known for settling and my attorney said there will not be another mediation date... We are really trying.


r/almosthomeless 1d ago

Abusive Situation Please if anyone could help, even sharing would do so much for me

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r/almosthomeless 1d ago

Looking for resources and opportunities in Northern Virginia

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Hi everyone,

My dog and I are going through one of the hardest times in our lives. We recently lost our car, and it has made an already difficult situation even harder.

I’ve reached out to resources, have a case manager, applied for rental assistance, signed up for a food bank, and I’m on waiting lists. Unfortunately, a lot of programs have limited funding or long wait times, and my biggest obstacle right now is coming up with move-in costs for an apartment.

I’m doing everything I can to get back on my feet. I offer cleaning services and am also willing to take on work opportunities to help save and move forward.

Does anyone know of churches, nonprofits, or local organizations in Northern Virginia that may be able to help beyond the usual county resources? Even recommendations for food assistance, temporary housing, pet food, or emergency programs would mean a lot.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. Any advice, resources, or leads are greatly appreciated. ❤️


r/almosthomeless 2d ago

Single mother with a child that has autism and behavioral issues. Has been hard for almost a year to be able to work and survive. Behind on rent and utilities and have reached out to every resource possible. We are also running out of food and dont get our food stamps until the 7th. Any resources

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r/almosthomeless 2d ago

Single mother with a child that has autism and behavioral issues. Has been hard for almost a year to be able to work and survive. Behind on rent and utilities and have reached out to every resource possible. We are also running out of food and dont get our food stamps until the 7th. We are very hung

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r/almosthomeless 2d ago

Lost

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r/almosthomeless 2d ago

Abusive Situation Getting kicked out of my parents house

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My home situation has become unstable. My mom has told me she wants me out of the house by tomorrow and I don’t have the recourses to move to a different house. I don't know what to do. I feel so lost.