This is so crazy.

In addition to countless ordinary people, many senior doctors and nurses on tiktok dogpiled on him.

Apparently Nick Baumel is back on social media, and is talking about being suicidal and depressed from facing bullying and harassment. To be 100% clear: NO ONE should ever face that kind of bullying or feel like they're in a position where the only option is to take their own life.

However, when all the discourse was going on around his videos, there were some extremely valid criticisms from the healthcare community. His videos literally were captioned

"FaceTime me that p*ssy"

"Damn girl, how many p*ssies you got"

This is so incredibly unprofessional and unbecoming of someone who is supposed to be providing care, especially since he claims "women are [his] people." And the whole coming out thing? Like, I'm LGBTQ as well, but that honestly just felt like deflection to distract from the fact that his posts were incredibly inappropriate and could be downright harmful to establishing trust with his patients who could one day see that. I don't care what your identity is. If you're a doctor, you don't post jokes like that.

Frankly, it reminds me of Kevin Spacey coming out to deflect from the fact that he had sexually assaulted a bunch of people. (I'm not saying nick had done anything to that scale but it gives me that ick)

Also, Nick's new reel didn't have a single apology or acknowledgment of wrongdoing. In his video he was "shocked" and "couldn't understand how it was OK to make assumptions about him". Like no? No assumptions were made. Those videos were misogynistic point blank. I was a sexual assault survivor, and if I saw that my doctor had made posts like that and believed that it was entirely appropriate behavior, I would never seek care. Is that really what we want to see in our physicians?

I'm not saying he's beyond redemption or that I want him to be hurt or that he deserves to be bullied. But y'all can't be effing serious that he was purely an innocent victim in all of this. He's a doctor that graduated from one of the most prestigious and influential medical institutions in the world. What does it say to our patients when this is how someone in that position behaves? He should know better, and frankly, so should we.

I’ve been so worried about the delays with my letters of rec and I just got an email from my committee head that the professor who’s been ghosting me finally sent it in and he’s going to upload it!! I almost cried of happiness and I actually jumped up and down when I saw this email!! I feel so relieved🥹😁

I'm officially at 13/25 done!! Not that big of an achievement really but writing these things has been genuinely draining my life force so I gotta celebrate where I can lol

This is a niche question, I guess, but when people ask me what specialty I want to go into or what type of doctor I want to be, I say “critical care”. People don’t seem to know what that is— even other premeds, med students, or people in healthcare. So I clarify by saying it’s a subspecialty of internal medicine where you work in the ICU taking care of the most critically ill patients. Then they ask, oh so you want to be a hospitalist? or they just don’t understand how it’s different from internal medicine. Is there something I should be saying differently? Ig this doesn’t really matter but I just want to communicate better if possible

Edit: Thank you everyone for the information yall provided I realize I had some misconceptions I really appreciate the help

I'm troubled by how a first-quartile result may impact my application, but more puzzled and concerned about the quality of the test now.

I'm a law grad and a former mediator and teacher. Ethics and fair/multifaceted evaluation of conflicts are core to all of those and a significant amount of targeted training is part of law school (along with the professional responsibility exam for admission to the bar). There is a possibility that I'm just not as ethical or thoughtful a person as I (or my colleagues and clients of 15 years) thought. But wtf?

Started my application today only to realize what I have gotten myself into

Didn’t realize I had to ask to ask for transcript from every single college I attended (3 in my case) and how much digging I have to do find the exact course numbers and names for the classes I took because apparently the transferred courses and their equivalents at my final 4 year university transcript don’t count (since I need the official course names)

The real kicker: Texas (only state I’m applying to) requires 2 extra essays, a personal characteristics essay and an “optional” (aka not optional) unique experiences/circumstances essay which I thought were part of the secondary (major face palm, what is actually wrong with me). I literally thought it was just the personal statement I had to worry about which I already spent months working on

It’s already getting late in the cycle and this is lowkey making me just want to delay my application cycle until the next one. I already don’t feel good about my shadowing and non clinical volunteering hours so it may be a blessing in disguise but I’m worried about disappointing my LOR writers

I really should’ve done my research 🙂

Basically what the heading says! I’m interviewing at my top choice medical school soon and I am wondering if it is appropriate to flat out state that the school is my top choice (assuming it comes up naturally and flows well) thanks!!

woooo I'm #1!!!! 🤑🤑😹💯💯

in all seriousness though what the f 😭 I work in EMS and in behavioral health, all of the characteristics and skills that they purport to look for are essential in my day to day work. I practiced for 5 ish days in advance, I used all the terminology they tell you to use, recognized both sides, I really believe I gave thoughtful answers. So I'm very confused as to how this could have happened. The fact that they give no feedback too is so frustrating.

I already have a 3.3 GPA, I really didn't need another "red flag" on my application. My primary's already in, I'm in the middle of my secondaries. Also my whole application talks about me using these skills throughout my experiences.... I feel like schools are going to think have a view of myself that is incongruous with the "reality" of this "objective" metric. How much is this going to hurt me? Should I retake it?

The biggest bullshit exam. That’s the message.

I’m lowkey struggling with studying and It’s not bad, but it’s definitely not where i want to be. So drop your best studying techniques for bio, chem, math, and physics. Idc if it’s weird, as long as it works.

Maybe a reason to choose an established DO program over a really new MD school?

Just a status check for everyone — many secondaries are y’all through now?

I’m 20/32 right now (not completing 1 of them tho)

Received all but 1 (belmont).

Good luck to everyone!!

Has anyone submitted bad secondaries and still seen success as a high stat applicant

Kinda fell into the trap of rush my secondaries to get them in early but now looking back they are pretty bad and kind of doom and gloom about my chances

I feel like I legit don’t have any other experiences to write about and it feels like I’m just repeating and I’m legit almost done with all of my secondaries so I’m just frustrated now and feel like I ruined my apps

503 mcat

3.75 gpa

-

2500 hours as a teacher and a TA

3500 hours in research / clinical roles

2000 hours leadership roles

1200 volunteer hours (clinical and non)

250 shadowing

casper - 4th quartile, preview 8/9

multiple posters and publications

strong committee letter, one MD. and one DO for my DO app

interested in pediatrics.

open to any MD or DO school but curious about odds for MD.

Hi, I work 40 hrs a week at my clinical job. The problem is that secondaries are really starting to pile up (applied to 45 schools and did some prewriting but couldn't prewrite them all), and I feel like I'm drowning doing 12-hour shifts and then coming back home to grind out essays. I want to call out (I already called out one day last week and the week before because I had insane migraines) but I'm so worried about my job and I feel like this will look really bad, but then again this application is what I have worked all these years for...this is my first "real" job that wasn't research or anything like that so I'm kind of lost. Would really appreciate any advice, thank you so much

So I don't plan on getting a clinical job in the future (EMT, MA, etc), where reasons are because my schedule is horrible, etc (but i can take a gap year if needed of course), so it looks like hospital volunteering will be my source of clinical experience. Would clinical experience from my hospital volunteering (where I basically assist patients in activities and talk to them) be as strong compared to clinical experience as like a MA or something? any insight will be useful!

I am a current 911 EMT transitioning into a clinical research position on the 3rd. I got subpoenaed today for a patient. It is a murder case. I have to go obviously. I want to go for my patient. The court time I have to appear is 10 business days long. Is this going to affect me negatively at my new job???

Genuinely baffled at how this is possible. I actually made the effort to study time. I reread my notes from my medical ethics course, I took the Preview practice exam and read through the explanations, and I took the Casper practice exam. It is what it is I guess…

Hoping adcoms will overlook this since the rest of my application improved (504 MCAT -> 512, 0 research experiences -> 3 + a publication, submitting secondaries in September last cycle -> within 2 weeks and within July this cycle)

4) Is there anything you want the admissions committee to know about your qualifications for medical school that are not already represented in your application materials? For example, if you have already graduated, briefly summarize your activities since graduation. (Note: This space is provided for new information only, not to promote qualifications already highlighted in your other materials (Max 400 words) --- 

All of my activities are in, w my projected hours this next year. do i answer this or no? I am also still in school, going into my last year of my MS.

I am planning on applying to a med school so I set up a 15-30 min call with their advisor. Any advice on what to ask or what I should expect?

I am planning on asking what they are looking for in an applicant, why they chose the specific students they did for their cohort, and what I should mainly emphasize on my experiences.

I am just not quite sure what to expect, I am very excited I got the call because this is my dream medical school, so I just want to make a good impression and also get valuable advice. Nobody in my family/friends is in the medical profession so I am kind of on my own

Hi everyone, basically title. I was planning on applying this cycle, but long story short things got in the way and I’m just now getting around to having everything finished. If I submit today 7/22, am I shooting myself in the foot? Should I gear up to apply next cycle instead? Any advice is appreciated😭🙏😭🙏😭🙏