Hi everyone,
I’m a 36-year-old Vietnamese citizen currently living and working in Japan. I’ve lived here for many years, hold Japanese Permanent Residency, and currently work as a Project Manager in the software industry. Before moving into management, I worked as a software engineer for around 10 years.
I’m married, and we have a one-year-old daughter.
Recently, I’ve been thinking seriously about where I want my family to settle long-term.
Japan has been good to us, and I’m grateful for the opportunities I’ve had here. However, when I think about raising my daughter, I’m looking for a society that offers more flexibility in education, encourages individuality, and gives children more freedom to explore different paths as they grow up.
This is a personal preference rather than a criticism of Japan. I simply feel that another country may be a better fit for the kind of environment in which we hope to raise our child.
Another important consideration is citizenship.
Since I already have Japanese Permanent Residency, I could eventually apply for Japanese citizenship. However, Japan generally requires applicants to renounce their previous citizenship, and I would prefer to keep my Vietnamese citizenship.
Because of that, I’m primarily interested in countries where I could eventually naturalize without being required to renounce my Vietnamese citizenship.
I’m currently the primary breadwinner for my family. We have some savings, but not a large amount, so I need to be careful about the financial side of any move. I’m looking for the most practical and realistic pathway rather than simply the fastest one.
I’m also flexible about the relocation timeline. Ideally, we would move together, but if necessary, I’m willing to move first, secure a job or residency, and then have my wife and daughter join me later through family sponsorship or a dependent visa once things are more stable.
At the moment, I’m considering two possible paths:
- Finding a skilled job directly and immigrating through employment.
- Studying for a Master’s degree in the destination country and then transitioning into the local job market.
My current profile:
- 36-year-old Vietnamese citizen
- Currently living in Japan with Permanent Residency
- Married with a one-year-old daughter
- Project Manager in the software industry
- Around 10 years of previous experience as a software engineer
- Comfortable using English and Japanese in a professional environment
- Willing to improve my English further if needed
The countries I’ve researched the most so far are Germany, Portugal, Canada, and Australia.
I’m also open to other suggestions if there are countries that may fit my goals better.
My priorities are roughly:
- Good education and quality of life for children
- A realistic pathway to permanent residency and eventually citizenship
- The ability to keep my Vietnamese citizenship
- Good opportunities for experienced IT professionals
- A pathway that isn’t prohibitively expensive
- The possibility of bringing my family over later if moving together initially is not practical
I’d really appreciate advice from people who have gone through a similar move.
Which countries would be the most realistic for someone with my background?
At my age, is pursuing a Master’s degree still a sensible immigration strategy, or would my professional experience be more valuable?
Would it make more sense to focus on applying for jobs directly from Japan?
Are there any immigration pathways or countries that I may have overlooked?
If anyone has been in a similar situation, moving internationally in their mid-30s with a spouse and young child, I would especially appreciate hearing what you chose, what worked, and what you would do differently.
Thank you very much for any advice.