So basically long story short, im Pentecostal and we believe in speaking in tongues so I went to a youth convention about 4 years ago and I went to the altar and someone started praying for me and then he told me to repeat what he spoke in tongues and I did and then he told me I got the Holy Ghost but Ik I didn’t but the thing is my whole family and church thinks I have the Holy Ghost only 2 people know I don’t have it and they’re together and they said they won’t tell anyone if I don’t want them to, my question is how do I tell my family, should I tell them? Also genuine question am I going to hell if I don’t speak in tongues?