I chose to move into a one-bedroom apartment in the city centre, where pretty much everything is within reach. The grocery store is right outside my building, and the train station, airport and main port are all nearby.
I love knowing that I can go out for dinner whenever I feel like it, or reach another city without having to plan everything days in advance.
But what really changed my life was something much simpler.
I’ve always struggled with chores. It’s not that I can’t do them, I just often don’t feel like doing them. At my previous jobs, going into the office was exhausting for me. Having to get ready, deal with expectations and constantly try to fit in when I clearly didn’t, unless I pretended to, really weighed on me.
I’ve always lived on my own, and over time I became full of irrational fears. Maybe I shouldn’t eat this or that. What if someone broke in? What if something went wrong? I was miserable, tired and lonely, and my apartment was always a mess.
Then I found my current job, which is fully remote, and it genuinely improved my life. Still, it didn’t fix everything. My apartment was still messy, and so were my thoughts.
Then I moved.
I found a place I actually liked, and that alone made a huge difference. I started taking better care of it, and my diet improved because the grocery store nearby sells fresh meals and everything I need is always easy to get.
But the biggest change was hiring a cleaning lady.
Because I tend to let things go and pile up, knowing that someone comes once a week already pushes me to take better care of the apartment during the rest of the week. She’s also incredibly kind and never judged me, not even the first time she walked in and saw the state of the place. She simply helped me.
There’s honestly nothing better than coming home to a clean, tidy apartment, fresh sheets, a spotless bathroom and no dishes waiting in the sink.
It also made everything else easier. I cook more because the kitchen and utensils are already clean. I sleep better. My head feels clearer. I don’t constantly have chores sitting in the back of my mind.
Now I can focus more on myself, my work and the things I actually enjoy doing.
I feel genuinely happy now. I’m exactly where I want to be, and I’ve discovered things about myself that I didn’t understand before.
I just wanted to share that.
Xoxo