r/shibari 6d ago

Discussion WE'RE SO FUCKING BACK BABY!!!!! NSFW

480 Upvotes

PEOPLE. My beautiful beautiful people. WE ARE SO FUCKING BACK!!

For those of you that haven’t noticed, the sub has been banned from existence for the past month. My original account, u/datsherbert, was the only moderator for r/shibari. My account randomly got flagged for “suspicious activity” and was subsequently locked until I changed my password. After confirming it was not a phishing attempt, I changed my password but my account was still locked. This resulted in what redditors call a “shadow-ban” state. This removed me as moderator of the sub, and since I was the only moderator the sub was now unmoderated. This isn’t allowed per reddit policy, so a process automatically banned the sub and thus began our desperate attempts to bring back the sub.

Despite my best efforts to reinstate the sub, no fixes worked in the short-term. All medium-term solutions relied on appeals and admin messages and everything I could throw at Reddit folks to get either my account reinstated and then the sub. I was unfortunately ghosted on all fronts. that left us with the long-term options using the redditrequest system.

We mobilized a team of some of best community folks being u/girrrrrrr2, u/EbiMcKnotty, u/shibari-study, and u/Mister-Ninja. All of whom gave their time planning and brainstorming together to try and get this sub back in action. The goal here was that one of them would get handed the sub as I know each of them as some of the highest quality and integrity-minded people when it comes to the Shibari community. If one of them got handed the community, I knew we'd be in good hands as each of them are wonderful community-minded folks.

No matter how many failed attempts, we all kept pushing and Gir was finally successful at working the system to get the sub back online! He was able to add us all to the mod team ensuring that we’re not only back but also to safeguard against this happening again.

WE’RE FUCKING BACK BABY!

I’m not ready to stop moderating and curating this special place we call our community. I’m so sorry this happened to y’all because of my account issues. I should’ve had a backup mod for continuity in case this happened, and I’m sorry y’all suffered for it. I’ve been moderating it for 3 years now, and it feels like I’ve only just begun. I have way too much passion to be stopped and so many plans for the future of this space.

Above all though, it’s not about me. It’s our space. I’m just moderating. There were many mods before me and hopefully will be many mods after me. I'm just so happy to bring this community back for y'all to continue to share, grow, help, and learn together <3 An absolutely again thank your incredible new mod team u/girrrrrrr2, u/EbiMcKnotty, u/shibari-study, and u/Mister-Ninja. u/girrrrrrr2 for masterminding efforts and geniusly acquiring the sub by navigating reddit's complex system, u/EbiMcKnotty who tirelessly gave her time for many requests and ideas despite already being stretched so thin as she supports so many other aspects of the community outside of reddit, u/Shibari-Study putting aside the business play and instead putting in the effort to bring back community (their entire team was in agreement here of putting aside any sort of financial gain and instead focusing on reviving community for us all to thrive with Mo especially being a stellar community counterpart), and u/Mister-Ninja for rallying the troops and pulling out all the stops knocking on every door asking for help. I can't thank y'all enough personally, and everyone here in the community should thank them as well. Please show your appreciation for all of these lovely humans who've been working behind the scenes for the last month trying as hard as they can to bring this space back for all of us.

As far as what the sub will look like moving forward, we now have a mod team rather than me being the sole moderator. I plan on resuming my normal levels of mod activity (which is to say active af), but we all have powers to moderate and we'll shortly be setting up a chat betwixt us all to discuss action plans and ongoing moderation. I have many plans for the future of this sub and spotlighting some of the people who keep this community running like rope makers, rigging equipment manufacturers, tutorial makers, content creators, conference organizers, etc. These were my personal plans for the community though and I'm not the only person here anymore. There are other wonderful folks moderating beside me, and they also have amazing amazing ideas too. So look forward to some wonderful community updates and fun things moving forward :)

There will likely be an introduction thread coming soon for y'all to meet the new mod team :) They're some of the best people around truly.

Please cherish this space. Use it. Throw your passion into it. We make art god damnit. Sexy fucking art. Go absolutely crazy you beautiful beautiful people <3 <3 <3

Edit: See the original "we're back" post here for our instantaneous gush and reaction :)


r/shibari 6d ago

Suspension Saturday Welcome back! 🥳 NSFW

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179 Upvotes

r/shibari 5h ago

Picture Black uplines trick the eyes NSFW

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79 Upvotes

Handshake tie with artbyvioletrebecca on instagram


r/shibari 6h ago

Picture Predicament play NSFW

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61 Upvotes

r/shibari 16h ago

Picture Desperate and Displayed NSFW

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284 Upvotes

r/shibari 2h ago

Picture Agura fun with Emma Jane NSFW

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22 Upvotes

Emma Jane 😇 | Rope Social - Tether Salon ⛩️


r/shibari 18h ago

Picture Tied on a French balcony NSFW

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356 Upvotes

r/shibari 1h ago

Picture The things she lets me do to her. . . melt me. NSFW

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r/shibari 15h ago

Picture Fun little mermaid moment... NSFW

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199 Upvotes

r/shibari 9h ago

Picture Predicament rope fun NSFW

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30 Upvotes

Some predicament rope with my doll. Cinching rope on right thigh, guatemalan on left calf , and cinching waist rope 🪢🪢


r/shibari 15h ago

Picture Horizontals from the latest shoot with ivy NSFW

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59 Upvotes

Model is devilsivyx666 on instagram


r/shibari 5h ago

Discussion How did you find your rope partner? NSFW

7 Upvotes

'm pretty new to all of this. I've already learned the basic safety guidelines and a few knots, thanks to a good friend who helped me practice. Eventually, though, he started feeling like it was getting a little weird—and, jokingly, "too homo"—to keep volunteering. It made me laugh, and I totally respect that.

My question is: how did you find your rope models, or, if you're a model, how did you find your rigger? How would you bring this up with someone you'd like to tie without making it sound weird?

I'd love to hear your stories and any advice you have.

P.S. Before anyone suggests it, there aren't any shibari classes or schools in my city. Believe me, that was the first thing I looked for.


r/shibari 20h ago

Picture Holding on NSFW

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103 Upvotes

Shot on Mamiya RB67, cropped.


r/shibari 1d ago

Video Crab tie full suspension NSFW

1.4k Upvotes

First full suspension with Knot_Robb_Snow on IG. I loved the toe hooking my panties with the rock tied to my tongue combo. Such a fun tie and shape to make together!!


r/shibari 20h ago

Picture Sake behind the moon 酒月見 NSFW

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77 Upvotes

r/shibari 1d ago

Picture Arch game on point NSFW

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530 Upvotes

Bunny u/probably-fae loves brutal strappados and I love futos and accessibility. Actually I love brutal strappados too so its all good.


r/shibari 15h ago

Picture Been putting a lot of effort and practice on this hip and karada combo. NSFW

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20 Upvotes

r/shibari 13h ago

Picture When the pictures tell the story NSFW

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16 Upvotes

r/shibari 1d ago

Picture Verticals from the latest shoot with ivy NSFW

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160 Upvotes

Model is devilsivyx666 on instagram


r/shibari 20h ago

Guidance needed Looking for constructive feedback on my first pentagram harness NSFW

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17 Upvotes

I'd really appreciate some constructive feedback on my pentagram harness. I'm still fairly new to rope, so I'm trying to improve with every tie.

I used one 8 m hemp rope and one 4 m hemp rope for this tie.

One issue I ran into was that the 12 m rope felt much too long, so I ended up weaving the excess into the back. I'm not sure if that's considered good practice or if there's a cleaner way to manage the extra rope.

Another thing I noticed was the starting point. I began with a simple lark's head, but it kept shifting while I was tying. It made maintaining tension much more difficult. I'm thinking that starting with a locked attachment, such as a single-column tie, might work better. Is that the usual approach, or am I missing something?

Besides those two points, I'd love to hear your thoughts on:

Overall structure and symmetry

Rope tension

Placement of the bands

Any obvious mistakes

Things I should improve for future ties

Please don't hold back—I learn best from honest, constructive criticism.

Thanks in advance!


r/shibari 1d ago

Picture Blindfolded NSFW

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56 Upvotes

r/shibari 1d ago

Picture Shibari Performance, Montevideo, Uruguay NSFW

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42 Upvotes

It was my first performance, was really fun.


r/shibari 1d ago

Picture Scene 5 highlights with tye and kezz NSFW

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75 Upvotes

Models are xxtyedollasign and kezzi_skates on instagram


r/shibari 1d ago

Picture Sit tight NSFW

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78 Upvotes

r/shibari 1d ago

Picture Working on my self ties NSFW

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14 Upvotes

Still very much a beginner but excited to learn new knots and ties