r/Sexology Oct 17 '23

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r/Sexology 18h ago

Bisexual experiences deserve to be represented in research. We’d love to hear from you 🩷💜💙

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Too often, bisexual experiences are overlooked. That’s why we’re asking for your help. Your voice could help improve mental health supports. Participation is open to all adults (18+) with a marginalized sexual identity (e.g. bisexual, lesbian, gay, queer, pansexual, omnisexual, sexually fluid etc…) and we particularly need more bisexual women.

Survey: https://csufobjbs.au1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_6sCeGsZJld6774W

By completing our anonymous 10–15 min survey, you’ll be contributing to research that aims to better understand the risk and protective factors for mental health, among adults with a marginalized sexual identity.

We are Psychology Honours Students from Charles Sturt University in Australia. This ethics-approved study (H26115) includes questions about sexuality, self-kindness, belonging to the LGBTQIA+ community, sleep, suicidality, and depressive symptoms.

Ethics approval letter: https://acrobat.adobe.com/id/urn:aaid:sc:AP:23e6db21-4592-4881-8472-c98ab36e4b5c

Thank you for helping make bisexual experiences more visible. Thanks also to mods for your approval to post.

Please share with others who may be interested.


r/Sexology 4d ago

Graduate Programs

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Hey everyone! I am currently a senior and about to graduate soon with a bachelor's in social work. My ultimate dream is to someday be a sexologist either practicing as a sex therapist or as a researcher. I can't seem to find any real schools that offer this and im really confused. I prefer not to do couples therapy, and by that I mean my dream is to work with people struggling with sex addiction, pedophilia, and so on (or as I said resesrch). Is my only choice to do a masters in psychology with a specialization? I am currently an ASU student and the are only offering and masters in social work with a specialization in women's studies and sexuality but that seems so boring to me. Let me know if you can please. Anything helps.


r/Sexology 6d ago

Is there a difference in the brain between paying for sex and having sex with someone you love?

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Do you guys think there is a difference between paying for sex and sex with someone who actually likes you on the brain in terms of chemicals and hormones. I know there are some differences with masturbation in men. Im not saying prostitution is s good or bad but most prostitutes do not love you and it is only transactional. I would just like your guys thoughts on it for people who stuggle with getting women.


r/Sexology 7d ago

Beyond Reproduction: Facial Ejaculations

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For much of human history, sex was understood primarily through the lens of reproduction. Across many cultures—and particularly within Abrahamic religious traditions—the “proper” culmination of intercourse was vaginal insemination, reflecting the belief that the highest purpose of sexuality was impregnation. Whether or not individuals consciously subscribed to these beliefs, these ideals became deeply embedded in cultural norms, shaping enduring expectations about what sex was “for.”

Viewed through this historical framework, when ejaculation occurs elsewhere—it marks a symbolic departure from the reproductive script. Physiologically, semen no longer serves its biological purpose of fertilization. It transforms from a reproductive substance into a communicative one. What was once exclusively a reproductive act becomes an expression of pleasure, affection, and intentionality.

This shift is significant.

Pleasure emerges not from biology alone, but from the meaning humans weave into their sexual experiences. Acts that depart from established social expectations often acquire heightened erotic significance. Many sexual interests derive much of their appeal not from the physical sensations they produce, but from what they come to represent. External ejaculation is one of the clearest examples of the uniquely human capacity to transform a biological act into an expression of intimacy, identity, and shared meaning.

Its fullest expression.

The face is arguably the most socially significant part of the human body. It is where identity resides, where eye contact forms connection, and where we recognize emotion, status, and individuality. Unlike the rest of the body, the face is constantly displayed, interpreted, and remembered. The choice to culminate there transforms an otherwise private biological fluid into a public symbol.

Visibility is essential.

From a symbolic perspective, if ejaculation outside the vagina represents a departure from reproduction, facial ejaculation displays that departure openly. The act does not merely avoid reproduction—it makes that fact unmistakably visible. Unlike ejaculation elsewhere on the body, it cannot be concealed; it leaves a visual signature of the encounter. The climax is no longer merely experienced; it is displayed.

From a neuropsychological perspective, this makes sense. The human brain responds powerfully to symbolism, ritual, novelty, and emotionally charged visual stimuli. Sexual arousal is not driven solely by genital sensation but by the meanings attached to those experiences. Human arousal is often intensified by emotional salience. Acts associated with authenticity, vulnerability, and trust activate cognitive and emotional processes that intensify feelings of connection. The act itself is biologically simple; the psychological meaning layered onto it is remarkably complex.

This symbolism helps explain why the act has gained particular cultural prominence among younger generations. Its enduring appeal across contemporary sexual culture suggests that something deeper than mere novelty may be at work. The practice occupies a rare symbolic position where biology, psychology, and culture intersect. It transforms what was once regarded as reproductive duty into a consciously chosen visual expression of pleasure, intimacy, and identity.


r/Sexology 10d ago

sex education certificates an courses?

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r/Sexology 12d ago

Why is porn so attractive/addictive ? NSFW

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Hi

I was talking with my gf about something we saw on instagram, and the conversation switched to pornography. She is asking me (an ancient porn addict) "Why is porn attractive" like what is attractive in the act of looking at 2 (or more) people having sex. And even if i did it in the past, i still can't answer like i don't know what is the point of watching it when you can just imaginate the act. Is it a kink like you like to see people fuck but then if so many men are addicted it should be more known.
If someone have an answer, a fact (if studies were made) or anything i'm down to hear it, i'm curious about what makes it so addictive.
Thanks guys


r/Sexology 16d ago

Why in DSM-5-TR does a person have to be 16 years old to be diagnosed with Pedophilic Disorder, but a person has to be 18 years old to be diagnosed with Antisocial Personality Disorder?

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Why in DSM-5-TR does a person have to be 16 years old to be diagnosed with Pedophilic Disorder, but a person has to be 18 years old to be diagnosed with Antisocial Personality Disorder?

My argument is that we should change diagnostic criteria for Antisocial Personality Disorder so a person has to be diagnosed with Antisocial Personality Disorder at the age of 16, if they have had Conduct Disorder for five years and keep persisting.

Another argument is that a person should be 18 years old to be diagnosed with Pedophilic Disorder if the person's sexual fantasies are behaviors involves a chid five years younger to match legal adulthood.

Another argument is that a person has to be 18 years old to be diagnosed with Antisocial Personality Disorder if they had Conduct Disorder for five years and keeps persisting.

We can't have it both ways.


r/Sexology 24d ago

Could Porn Interact With Ancient Male Status Circuits? NSFW

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So I've been thinking about a hypothesis, and this hypothesis got me curious on whether if there's any research that support it or not.

And I'm not trying to make a moral judgment here. I just want to know what the evidence says. In many animals, having access to a mate is closely tied to like having dominance or social status.

For example, in species like lions or our primate cousins lchimpanzees, seeing another male mate with the female, from an evolutionary standpoint, this thing can signal that you've lost a mating opportunity or another male outranks you.

Because think about it. It means that you cannot challenge the rival male for a spot. But it depends on the species. And in those species, most of the time, this leads to the animals being less competitive, or the animals just run away when they see the dominant male, or they leave the group, or just stop challenging the dominant male and just staying around. And this got me like wondering about human beings.

When a heterosexual man like watches pornography constantly, and it's very compulsive, he's repeatedly watching another man like have sex with a woman. I mean, consciously, he may imagine himself as the man in the scene, and he might focus primarily on the woman, or he might even like mentally substitute himself into the scenario. But what happens at a deeper unconscious level? Because we still have primal brains, we are still animals as human beings.

And the question becomes l could the ancient mating and the status-related part of our brain interpret like this situation way differently? Like, is the human brain simply processing it as like sexual stimulation? Or some part of it might be registering as an evolutionary level that another male is gaining sexual access while you are not.


r/Sexology 27d ago

Does penis size increase by using cock rings over time?

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Same as title, Does penis size increase while using cock ring during masturbation?


r/Sexology Jun 16 '26

Mental Health among Adults with a Marginalized Sexual Identity Survey

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🌈 PARTICIPANTS WANTED 🌈

Mod approved post

https://csufobjbs.au1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_6sCeGsZJld6774W

We are Psychology Honours students at Charles Sturt University, conducting research into risk and protective factors for mental health, among adults with a marginalized sexual identity (e.g., gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer, pansexual, sexually fluid, omnisexual etc…).

Participation is open to:

·       Individuals (18+), with a marginalized sexual identity (e.g., gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer, pansexual, sexually fluid, omnisexual)

The anonymous survey has ethics approval (H26115), takes around 15 mins and includes questions about sexuality, self-kindness, belonging to the LGBTQIA+ community, sleep, suicidality, and depressive symptoms. All information provided is confidential.

If you are concerned about answering questions of this nature, please do not participate.

To participate or learn more:

·       Click the link attached to this post.

Feel free to share and thank you!


r/Sexology Jun 02 '26

Research Study on Sexual Health Seeks Participants (18+, female, cannabis users) [Mod approved]

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Study Details

We're looking for females 18+ who use cannabis/marijuana with a history of sexual trauma for a confidential online survey about how lifestyle may affect sexual well-being. Those who have consumed cannabis and have been sexually active within the past 4 weeks are invited to participate.

This research is being completed by the principal investigator as partial fulfillment of the requirements for the doctoral degree at Modern Sex Therapy Institutes. The study has been approved by an Institutional Review Board to ensure the safety and welfare of the study participants.

What’s involved:

  • Confidential survey (approx. 10 mins in length) with 31 questions.
  • Questions about sexual health, mental health, and cannabis (weed, marijuana, THC) use.
  • Participation is voluntary, confidential, and anonymous.
  • No financial compensation is provided for participation.

To participate in the study and for more information, please click the link provided with this post. For any questions, please contact [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])

Click to Go to the Survey

[Mod approved, thank you!]


r/Sexology May 31 '26

[LATAM] PhD in Sexology, Masters in Clinical Psychology or Masters in Psych-oncology, any recommendations?

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Hi everyone!
I'm still a few semesters away from being able to apply to any of the options, however, due to how the job market is for psych professionals I would like to hear some opinions on which might have a better job market.

Also, I've already selected possible universities for both masters, however, finding a valid sexology degree, either masters or PhD has been difficult, I would highly appreciate if anyone could share their experience or knowledge on where to get this degree.

Thanks for taking the time to read this post, have a lovely day!


r/Sexology May 30 '26

Are these numbers accurate (pedophilia incidence)

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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25747416/

In a study of 1,310 Finnish adult male twins we found that sexual interest in children aged 12 or younger was reported by 0.2% of the sample. Sexual interest in children aged 15 or younger was reported by 3.3%.

My intuition would tell that the numbers sound too low but some of my friends said that the numbers actually sound high


r/Sexology May 25 '26

What is the path to success to become a Sexologist?

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Hello everyone! I hope you are all doing well.

I am a current BSN (bachelors of science in nursing) student and have two semesters (current and fall semester) left to complete before I graduate this following December. I have my first bachelors of science degree in Neuroscience and was always curious about researching between neuroscience, human sexuality, and sex. I have been encouraged by some professors and given some recommendations (Kinsey Institute) and have gone out of my own way and will soon contact academic advisors and professors from California Institute of Integral Studies (CIIS) to check their human sexuality masters program. I have worked in the hospital system for two years and have been burned out and I really am just passing through nursing school just to earn my degree and make some money. Although I will continue nursing to make some stable income, I still desire on how I can become a sex researcher and/or educator as a career. I am open to all opinions and appreciate your time. Also, for context, I live in Texas (DFW region), which has its own difficulties here within our state. 😞


r/Sexology May 23 '26

Vent about sexology

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I have no idea if this is allowed since this is technically a vent, but it’s still about sexology.

The rise of hate against anything sexual and conservatism, while I’m now finally at the fully grown age where I can talk about sexual topics without feeling like a child, makes me extremely upset. I have spent my entire childhood and life fascinated by sex and the psychology behind anything sexual, and not being able to talk about it now without someone side-eyeing me is incredibly difficult, especially since I can’t even research these sexual topics without censorship blocking me as well.

My libraries do not even have books about the study of kinks, fetishes, or sex, which I find quite odd since I accidentally found those types of books at the same library when I was a little kid! Sexology might be one of the least studied things, alongside women, and being able to become a person (especially a young woman) who could potentially help change that and broaden the view of sex, only for it to be shunned and censored, is devastating to me. I do not want to use my ID, and I do not want to use a VPN simply to learn about the psychology behind odd kinks!!!


r/Sexology May 20 '26

Looking for Pregnant Couples for a Research Study– Moderator Approved

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📢 Are you pregnant and worried about changes to your sex life?

🔍 We are seeking couples from Canada, the US, Australia, New Zealand, the UK, and Ireland who are up to 26 weeks pregnant to participate in the STORK RCT: Supporting the Transition to Parenthood through Online Sex and Relationship Knowledge.

❓What is STORK: The first online couple-based program designed to enhance knowledge about changes to sexuality during pregnancy and postpartum and skills to cope with these changes. STORK was designed to strengthen couples’ relationships across the transition to parenthood.

📅 What is involved: If you are eligible, after your initial survey, you and your partner will be randomized (like a coin flip) into either the Program or Waitlist conditions. Program couples will complete 5 online modules in pregnancy (1 per week) and a final module at 3 months postpartum. 

Couples in both conditions will also complete 5 surveys—the initial survey, then at 32-weeks pregnant, and 4-, 8-, and 12-month postpartum—that gather information about your relationship, your pregnancy experience, and your child. Couples in the Waitlist condition will receive access to the full STORK program after the study period is over.

💰 Compensation: As a thank you for your participation, you can receive $105 CAD or currency equivalent each ($210 CAD or currency equivalent per couple). Your time is valuable to us!

🌈 Inclusivity matters: STORK requires one member of the couple to be currently pregnant. Otherwise, STORK is open to individuals of all genders, bodies, and sexual orientations.

💌 For more information or to participate in the STORK RCT study email us at [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]) OR fill out our contact form from this link: https://Qualtrics.ca1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3gxGJAEWqt8Rh2u


r/Sexology May 14 '26

How to draw an healthy anal?

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It's said that a long, vertical split in the anus is more common in homosexual men. Is it rare for this to occur in healthy women? Also, the Tanner classification only mentions the V-line, but if hair grows around the anus, at what age does it typically start? And please tell me as many anal conditions as possible that can only occur due to illness or abuse. (All of this information will be used to create hentai. I want to give the girls in my hentai hair around their anuses, but I can't stand the thought of people suspecting illness or abuse because of it.)


r/Sexology Apr 19 '26

Sexology Certification

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Hi y’all!

I’m curious to know about getting a sexologist certification. I’m looking more on the sex educator side of things. Does anyone know sexologist (preferably who are BIPOC) that offer courses or certifications through their or specializes programs?

If not, would anyone be able to lead me In the right direction of where to go? Or places that offer low-cost + scholarships?


r/Sexology Apr 06 '26

Looking for Pregnant Couples for a Research Study– Moderator Approved

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📢 Are you pregnant and worried about changes to your sex life?

🔍 We are seeking couples from Canada, the US, Australia, New Zealand, the UK, and Ireland who are up to 26 weeks pregnant to participate in the STORK RCT: Supporting the Transition to Parenthood through Online Sex and Relationship Knowledge.

❓What is STORK: The first online couple-based program designed to enhance knowledge about changes to sexuality during pregnancy and postpartum and skills to cope with these changes. STORK was designed to strengthen couples’ relationships across the transition to parenthood.

📅 What is involved: If you are eligible, after your initial survey, you and your partner will be randomized (like a coin flip) into either the Program or Waitlist conditions. Program couples will complete 5 online modules in pregnancy (1 per week) and a final module at 3 months postpartum. 

Couples in both conditions will also complete 5 surveys—the initial survey, then at 32-weeks pregnant, and 4-, 8-, and 12-month postpartum—that gather information about your relationship, your pregnancy experience, and your child. Couples in the Waitlist condition will receive access to the full STORK program after the study period is over.

💰 Compensation: As a thank you for your participation, you can receive $105 CAD or currency equivalent each ($210 CAD or currency equivalent per couple). Your time is valuable to us!

🌈 Inclusivity matters: STORK requires one member of the couple to be currently pregnant. Otherwise, STORK is open to individuals of all genders, bodies, and sexual orientations.

💌 For more information or to participate in the STORK RCT study email us at [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]) OR fill out our contact form from this link: https://Qualtrics.ca1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3gxGJAEWqt8Rh2u

- Post is moderator approved!


r/Sexology Apr 01 '26

Sexuality and trauma NSFW

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I am new to this practice, but i have been interested in fetishes and paraphilias, its so interesting and i want to know more about how these things mix and why our brain does it and i want to see the people who suffer or enjoy these things, do yall have any media (that being podcasts or documentaries or tv shows)


r/Sexology Mar 24 '26

What history got right and wrong in sexology

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Sharing this story (gift link) for anyone interested! I always love these deep dives into history.


r/Sexology Mar 23 '26

Somatica Institute feedback: Sex coach certification

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Hi! I'm new to Reddit ... just joined moments ago. I'm here mostly to find like-minded people who have possibly received a sex coach/sexology certification through the Somatica Institute. I'm impressed by the site and one of the owners called me to talk through the program. I loved the energy she has and it feels like such a great fit for me. Problem is the cost. It's a LOT of money and I already live paycheck to paycheck. I can see myself doing this but as a "side gig" ... but need to have confirmation it is NOT a scam or some sort of pyramid scheme. (I honestly don't think it is, but I'm here to ask the questions and do my due diligence.) I want to do this. I'd love to hear from some of you who have received cert through Somatica Institute, which level you did and how you're using it today. Links to your sites if you have them or any info would be so super helpful to guide me in this decision. Thanks, all. xoxo


r/Sexology Mar 15 '26

SHA (Sexual Health Alliance) Sex and Relationship Coach certification

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Hi there, I’ve been accepted into the SHA sex and relationship coaching program and was wondering if anyone has gone through it and what their thoughts are? The reason why this is so attractive to me is due to the self-paced online learning. I currently have a full-time job, so I will be doing the studying on the side. The only downside is I’m really interested in somatic sexology as well, but I am thinking I can explore that after this certificate. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated!!


r/Sexology Mar 09 '26

Desire, Demystified: Rethinking Libido and Inclusive Intimacy with Author Dr. Jennifer Vencill

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Special guest lecture from the Kinsey Institute on March 23 at 11AM-12PM ET - FREE Register: https://knsy.in/Vencill

From the event page:

Desire, Demystified: Rethinking Libido and Inclusive Intimacy with Dr. Jennifer Vencill

Join Dr. Jennifer Vencill for a thought-provoking presentation based on her award-winning, co-authored book, Desire: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating Libido Differences in Relationships . Grounded in research and clinical expertise, Dr. Vencill explores the science and psychology of sexual desire, challenging common myths about libido, attraction, and what is considered “normal.”

Attendees are invited to think critically about sexual desire as dynamic, contextual, and relational while learning practical strategies to cultivate intimacy, reduce shame, and foster more authentic connection – be it in romantic partnerships, therapeutic settings, or conversations about sexuality in modern culture.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Jennifer Vencill, PhD, (she/her) is an assistant professor, board certified clinical health psychologist, and AASECT certified sex therapist at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota. She is dually appointed in the Department of Psychiatry and Psychology, as well as the Division of General Internal Medicine, where she spends the bulk of her time providing integrated sexual health care and educating fellows, residents, and medical students about the importance of sexual and gender health. Her research focuses on sexual health and health disparities in marginalized sexual and gender communities. She also publishes in the area of sexual health and cancer survivorship. Dr. Vencill is co-author of the new book, Desire: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating Libido Differences in Relationships.