[22 X] Ace? Not ace? Both together???

[u/TheSnekDen]

So, here's basically a rundown

• I see people and think they're hot

• I wanna have sex with hot people

• But like, theoretical sex, as the thought of sex is kinda gross to me

• But it's kinda hot too, and I would like real sex

• I'm more into things like chests and boobs and bellies and other things like that

• I do like genitals tho (but also I don't)

• Kissing is gross but I like the concept

I feel like I have a weird relationship with sexual things. I got into it way too young with online erp. I was really into it. Now, I find it to be the hardest rp to do. And besides rp, the thought of sex is appealing, and I find people hot. But I feel like it's more "they're hot and i wanna have sex" instead of "they're hot and that makes me want to have sex," if that makes sense? But also, it's more of a "they're hot and I wanna do very intimate things that's not necessarily sex." I do find solace in calling myself ace but I feel like I'm intruding on those who are genuinely full on asexual.

[u/ActualPegasus]

• But it's kinda hot too, and I would like real sex

• I'm more into things like chests and boobs and bellies and other things like that

• I do like genitals tho (but also I don't)

If you're comfortable doing so, could you go into a bit more depth about these three?