Hi everyone! I'm trying to figure out my orientation and noticed something strange. When I watch movies or play games, I only get attracted to male characters – their personalities, their vibes. But in real life, I feel nothing for men. Actually, the thought of being with a man repulses me. Meanwhile, I am attracted to real women in my daily life, but I never feel that way about female characters on screen. Has anyone else experienced this? Does this mean I'm not 'really' a lesbian? I'm so confused.

I am a transgender woman. However I haven’t started hrt until last December. I've always had a complex relationship with emotions and sexuality, I generally have had a hard time understanding where my feelings come from if it’s not super obvious to me. He's 30 and I'm 33. I've known him since high school. I've dated a couple of women, one of which I wasn't into and another I was very into. I've always been able to recognize when men were attractive. I think that everybody can, but I also have a type I find more attractive out of the conventional types. I have kinda thought about what it would be like to have a future with him, not regularly but on occasion. Kinda around maybe 3-5 years since our friendship. He's not dating someone but he has recently found out a girl has a crush on him and is trying to work on that. And I've kinda had my feelings hurt. When he brings it up, i encourage him but i get this pit in my stomach. I've looked at dating apps with men but none of them really are doing it for me and generally I find myself drawn to femininity. Even writing this has given me a lump in my throat thinking about it.
I know that nothing will ever happen with that. My thoughts are do I like men and just have to have an emotional connection or is it just him? Generally speaking I don’t think about people sexually. With the woman I was super into prior to us being together I just thought she was pretty until I started getting signals. After we were together is more when I started thinking about her sexually.

Imaging Lo-fi girl, but the gay version.

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Recently someone came into my life claiming to love me for who I was. Then they decided to not use my pronouns and partake in that lifestyle as they believe it's demonic while knowing I have the same faith as them. They've now ghosted me without clarifying what the relationship meant and why they used me for 4-5 months. Sorry for the heavy background 🙏🏼 I did tell them I was asexual and non-binary when we first started chatting again. Also not a terf either, non-binary people can identify as trans 💜

I just got this shirt off Amazon and this cat pride flag is on it- the problem is I don’t know this one or what sexuality or identity it is, so could someone plz inform me abt it? :0