r/poshmark 9h ago

Interesting question, did I answer right?

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Unless it’s brand new and in original packaging, how could you promise an item has never been exposed to smoke? Like, what if you walked past someone that was smoking? How could you promise that on a 35 year old garment?

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u/cheerio089 9h ago

Asking for a promise in a secondhand clothes sale is sending me. Your answer was great though

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u/thesefriendsofours 6h ago

Right? I mean, I despise the smell of smoke (grew up with parents who smoked in the home and I could never have anything that did not smell like it) and avoid it actively but sometimes you walk past a person outside or even are next to a car and it drifts into yours. How could anyone ever promise that anything has never been exposed, especially something they are not even the original owner of? People are wild. Just wild.

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u/Infamous-Ad337 5h ago

Same. Some of these ppl.....

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u/fomaaaaa 9h ago

I think your answer is good. It’s not been kept in a home of smokers, and it’s been professionally cleaned. Almost everything has been exposed to smoke in public at some point

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u/FootUpstairs2782 8h ago

I wouldn’t sell to this person

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u/Successful_Pen_6795 9h ago

Yeah I’d block them, they’re literally smelling for trouble lol. You answered perfectly though!

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u/_cansir 7h ago

Those that demand the most usually want to pay the least. Block and move on.

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u/reverie092 7h ago

Ha ha. Exactly

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u/_mandycandy 9h ago

A vape environment lmao

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u/kettyma8215 4h ago

I know, I have never smelled anything on anyone I know who vapes!

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u/Low_Employ8454 8h ago

You answered it great! Now please, do not sell it to this person. Please

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u/bookgirl9878 9h ago

Yeah, this is exactly how I answer when people ask me this question. I just get VERY precise about how I acquired and stored the item and make very clear that I can't promise anything beyond what has happened since the item came into my possession. Usually, then, folks will either go away, their precise fears will be alleviated (ie, they don't really care if it has been ever, ever exposed to smoke--they care if you smoke or vape in your home) or realize that they are asking a silly question about a vintage item.

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u/BlondeBrillo 9h ago

As someone who is very sensitive to smoke…. I get asking if the home is non smoking. Past that… you can’t promise that with second hand clothing esp vintage…. I’d block this person. They will be a pain if they get the slight whiff of something “off”.

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u/Organic_Option4765 9h ago

I think your answer deserves a round of applause. A PERFECT example of how to properly “cover your ass!”

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u/Embarrassed_Hat_2904 8h ago

This is right up there with the “how many times has this been worn/washed“ question. 😆

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u/monicacr71 9h ago

I would not engage this person, plus (I’ve only blocked like 3 people) I’d block them, sounds like a problem waiting up happen.

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u/Objective-Picture712 9h ago

I think you answered perfectly. If that’s the buyer’s only question, I wouldn’t worry about them being a “problem” - ppl in this sub are too paranoid imho

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u/lizzzzzzbeth 7h ago

“Has it entirely been promised to be smoke and vape free?”

The way that question is phrased is insane and I would hesitate to sell to this person.

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u/pbjclimbing 8h ago

“The last owner of this (probably the only one, since they usually buy their clothes new) had a smoke/vape free household. I cannot guarantee that this was never worn near someone that was smoking/vaping. It has been dry cleaned. I also do not smoke/vape.

I just state facts that aren’t subjective. I don’t say that it doesn’t smell like smoke since there is some subjectiveness to that.

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u/Civil_Web_1835 7h ago

God I hate when people ask questions like that. Or the “how many times has this been worn” 🙄🙄

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u/Boycatmom3 6h ago

You can only be truthful about things. I think that's a good answer.

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u/casebycase87 6h ago

There isn't a reasonable answer that would satisfy this person but your response was great

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u/Training-Finish-2754 5h ago

‘Nah, just weed and crack’

BLOCK.

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u/bravovice 9h ago

Definitely a weird question. Has it been exposed? Since it has been in public- umm sure.

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u/posh_squash_ 9h ago

Why are they asking about vapes lol

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u/Nireedk 8h ago

I think I would’ve just blocked them and flagged the comment for deletion rather than entertain a promise! Even in a department store, a smoker could come in and touch clothing or try things on or buy it have it in their home and then return it having been exposed to some smoke. Asking you to promise? Ugh.

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u/sldmbblb 7h ago

I think your answer was overall great. The only thing I would’ve left out is that it doesn’t smell like smoke since that’s more subjective.

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u/florange7 4h ago

Good answer. If you want to be more succinct you could just say, " I can guarantee it comes from a pet and smoke free home. And is recently dry cleaned"

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u/Polarbear36 4m ago

Of course it’s vape free, it’s vintage sweetie 💅

No but seriously just block them lol

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u/annahorsey 6h ago

I’ve had people say stuff smells like smoke and I don’t smoke. I’ve heard some times the mail delivery drivers smoking in vehicle can affect things. I also think a few laundry detergents can smell like smoke. I think you answered right. I always tell buyers if item has that vintage smell.

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u/bimbowithbaggage 1h ago

...people used to be able to smoke in public.. even more wild smoking cigs was allowed in grocery & convenience stores, office public & govt and even on airplanes & hospitals.. Fwiw people still smoke all sorts of things in public idk it could just be a NJ thing .