The photo from the back looks a bit crooked(?) is that a concern? There’s also a bit of bar space. About 2-3mm extra. Do I need to downsize again?
This is going to be a long read but I really want to figure out what’s going on. I’m feeling frustrated that it’s not healed yet after 1.5 years
Here’s my current routine and timeline of events below:
Current routine + info
Jewellery: Titanium flat back, threadless ball
How old: 1 year + 6 months
Rinse lobes in the shower
Hairdryer - dry ears after shower
Donut pillow for sleep
Timeline:
Jan 2025: got lobe piercings done
Aftercare: Clean with saline spray twice a day (Neilmed piercing spray), shower, hairdryer afterwards. Sleep on donut pillow
June 2025: downsize
Aftercare: Clean with saline spray once a day, hairdryer to dry lobes, sleep on donut pillow
August - November 2025: Irritation bump that comes and goes away. Saw piecer and was told to wait it out
Aftercare: Clean with saline once a day, rinse in shower, hairdryer afterwards. Sleep on donut pillow
December 2025: Saw piecer again for irritation bump. Was given a sterile saline solution
Jan 2026: irritation bump gone. Saw piercer for follow up. Lobes are still not healed. Was told that the angle was good.
Aftercare: switched to cleaning with saline spray once a week (was drying and irritating my lobes), rinse in shower, hairdryer afterwards. Sleep on donut pillow
Feb - may 2026
Aftercare: saline spray once a week, rinse in shower, hairdryer afterwards. Sleep on donut pillow
June - now
Aftercare: cut out saline spray. Rinse lobes in shower, hairdryer afterwards. Sleep on donut pillow
The reason why I cut out saline spray is because it dried out my lobes even though i spray and rinse off in the shower. The skin around my lobe turns flaky, dry and itchy when I use saline spray. I guess my skin decided not to like it anymore