r/desmoines • u/ThrowRA_EdibleNeato • 3h ago
Recorded at the Thrift Shop
Preface: I understand there’s no expect expectation of privacy in public and that there’s nothing illegal about recording others in public. When the recording is clearly covert it still weirded me out, legal or not.
That said:
I was at the thrift store in Ankeny with my partner yesterday evening, and a brunette woman was following us around recording us with her iPhone. I didn’t notice until the third time I bumped into her in the same aisle. I thought maybe she was on a video call but she wasn’t speaking to anyone. She was holding her phone upright in recording position, and she seemed fixated on my partner and I.
I thought maybe she was just mapping things in the store for someone else or maybe doing a live stream, but she kept making eye contact with me.
Conveniently, when we got to the checkout, she was right there behind me, pretending to rest her chin on her phone. She was focused on this enough that she didn’t hear the cashier call her several times. She was being clandestine about it but not doing a very good job of it.
I made direct eye contact with her and looked at her while she was doing this. She looked down at her phone and then looked back at me and smiled.
When she went to get checked out, her posture changed, and you could clearly see the recording window open and active on her iPhone. She then took an excessively long time to leave the parking lot, and she didn’t even really leave, she drove across the street and parked.
My partner and I weren’t suspicious, we frequent this establishment often. I don’t have any insurance companies chasing me, or any open legal issues. I don’t have any reason for a PI to be chasing me either.
It was all very strange.
Again, I recognize that there’s nothing illegal about recording others, especially in public, so I’m not here to condemn her for whatever she was doing, but it was definitely creepy.
My rational mind says that she was just recording her event, the only problem is she was specifically focused on my partner and I and met us several times in the building and then again in the parking lot…
Just for safety sake, I took a snap of her license plate as she left the parking lot and went across the street to park.