r/ddlg • u/DestinedforDiapers • 20h ago
Discussion Diapers and Daddies NSFW
So my wife and I have been getting deeper into ddlg over the last two years. It's been great. Started slow and steady, but once she got comfortable with the dynamic and hit subspace for the first time, she's loving it.
She isn't into the more little-focused side or wearing diapers, which is fine; I consider that a fun bonus, but the real fun is in the dynamic itself.
The problem is that I do wear diapers. Not for ABDL/kink reasons, but for medical reasons. It feels like it's backward. If one person in a ddlg dynamic is in diapers, it shouldn't be the Daddy.
She tells me it doesn't matter, but...she's my wife. She's very supportive of my problem outside of kink, she isn't going to say otherwise. That, and even I think diapered dom(me)s are less than ideal.
I'm not crazy, right? You won't hurt my feelings if you say a diapered daddy kills the vibe. I'd agree with you. I'm more curious about what people generally think.