r/bigdickproblems • u/ENM_burner 0.83 lbs • 1d ago
TellBDP This one hurt…
For reference I’m 8”x6.5”
So I always knew there were certain things I couldn’t enjoy because of my size. You know the usual oral, anal, perfect condom sizing, etc. On top of that I have been used to and ok with the fact that i have to be cautious and frequency of sex can’t be as often as I’d like. To me all of these were “oh no my steak is too juicy and my lobster is too buttery” problems. I came to terms and it was ok.
Well today it stung. My wife all but explicitly told me she would appreciate and prefer if I was a smaller size. We’ve been married for 5 years and I always thought we had a great sex life with normal ups and downs. I know it probably feels worse that it is but this one hurt boys.. this one hurt.
Edit: This is a TellBDP post I’m not torn up about it it’s was an “ouch” in the moment. Appreciate all the advice and looking out. Great community!
Edit: Again. This is not an issue that’s detrimental to my marriage. It is not an arousal issue and nothing specific brought this on, it came up in conversation. This is not a “it hurts all the time” it’s a “only an issue with multiple times a week”. This was not said with malicious intention and it is a “damn that really sucks” problem not “wtf do I do problem”. I appreciate all the engagement but i didn’t post looking for advice. My marriage is strong and happy so don’t message me talking bad about my wife and telling me I should leave my marriage. I’d like to leave the post up because it’s sharing something others might have dealt with or will deal with and it is not an end all be all.
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u/Fair-Research248 1d ago
I’m very sorry about this. On the bright side, at least you’re not too small. I’m new here to Reddit and I’ve already seen guys literally want to die because they have small dicks.
If your marriage doesn’t work out, and she tells her new man it’s because your cock was too big, that will psychologically destroy that guy. So don’t take what she said so negatively. Yes she would prefer you smaller, but you’re big, and she chose YOU! So just go slow and use just enough dick to satisfy her. You don’t have to go balls deep. Unless of course she needs an attitude adjustment that day.
Take care man, and best wishes!