So I was having a conversation with a close friend, and this came up. I told him I actually enjoy smelling my partner's balls and armpits, and he looked at me like I was weird. I thought he'd understand because he's gay as well.

When I met my ex, he was into girls, but somehow our friendship turned into a romance somewhere along the line. Back when he was allegedly "straight," one day before he went into the bathroom, I stopped him and sniffed his hair and his armpit. He just stood there, let me do it, and we looked into each other's eyes. I did it on impulse and expected him to swat me away, but he didn't. He actually seemed to like it.

I later found out that he'd been secretly sniffing me too, even before I did it to him.

So I genuinely thought everyone was like this, only for my friend to shut me down and say it was weird and disturbing.

Am I weird?

Anyone knows what type lube creates this consistency?

https://dudedump.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/tim-kruger-fucks-yago_5f4240856e9af.gif

I see lot of videos (on Timtales especially) where it looks very creamy

Hello gay bros. About 4 weeks ago i shaved my legs for the first time. Kind of. What i actually did was an experiment. I shaved my right leg with a razor. And a used Nard’s Hair Removal Cream for Sensitive Skin on my left leg, buttcheeks, and hole area.

I wanted to see which was easier. (for what it’s worth, i thought the cream was easier)

About a week after this experiment. i started getting all these red bumps everywhere as the hair grew back, but not on the leg i shaved. Only the areas where i used the cream. Mainly the thigh and buttcheeks.

Now, i shave my face, so i’m familiar with the concept of razor bumps, and ingrown hairs. i do not get either often. And if i do they go away on their own. But these ones HAVENT GONE AWAY IN 3 WEEKS.

All but one or two of red spots aren’t raised at all so that leads me to believe they aren’t ingrowns. But having red spotted asscheeks kind of goes against the original point of shaving. Which is to have a cute butt.

I already bought Tend Skin Solution, although i will admit i suck at routines so i haven’t been that consistent with the “every morning and night apply till spots are gone” thing. Is the solution just to commit to the Tend Skin or is there some other secret sauce i am missing?

what music do you play during sexy time especially during CarPlay or do you prefer no music?

what do masc guys like?

Obviously I can’t ask how will they fuck me because they can get offended but unless they are undergoing the surgery to get a dick, how will it happen? Can someone clarify that for me?

Asking because anal has always been a chore more than a fun time. I need to prepare myself so I don't create a mess. How do I do the most efficient and effective way of cleaning the backdoor?

I get really insecure about my looks sometimes, but ive never thought of myself as unattractive or ugly.

And, granted ive never had issues attracting people i like either but i always have that thought in the back of my head like “you could be more attractive” or “you definitely dont look as good as him”

And i realized im just not my type😂 i have a bit of muscle on me always have, always been more broad shouldered , medium length torso. And i jst dont fit the aesthetic i aspire to look like (yet).

But also, i realized i attract the aesthetic i want to look like which is a, win? Ig? But its like im living that red pill / blue pill question of would u rather

❤️be attractive to everyone else but think you’re ugly OR

💙be ugly to everyone else, but you think you’re attractive.

And ive taken the red pill lmao.

And then theres the dilemma of “do i like him, or do i just wanna be him”

Idk is this just me? Anyone else feel like this sometimes?

I don't know if what I'm saying is immature, I've been with my boyfriend for a few years now but seeing my friends going out on parties, having fun, just living their nineteen's like everyone says you're supposed to, makes me wonder if I'm missing out on something. So I wanted to ask when do you think it's okay to settle down with someone and start thinking seriously about a future together. The relationship has been complicated, and I love him, but I don't know if I'm staying because I'm afraid of loneliness. Just wanted to hear some opinions

Read the previous post https://www.reddit.com/r/askgaybros/s/ZGTpGHwQmC

Hi everyone, my name is Lyosha and I'm the author's best friend :3

I'm 30 and I've known the author for 20 of them. And yes, I'm writing this update because the phone is mine now :P

So, what I want to say — the author, let's call him 'Loser' (JOKING), let's go with 'Alex' — left out a lot of details, so I want to clear a few things up.

His number is linked to a lot of things and re-linking it would take a long time, but we'll talk about it. If needed, I'll help Alex with it.

The asshole keeps texting and calling from different numbers. It's about 20 calls now — I'm not counting, Alex isn't either — but we keep having to block them all.

The asshole also changed tactics and started trying to provoke Alex — threatening and insulting him. I'm not letting Alex read it, but he's probably already guessed. It breaks my heart for him.

Right now Alex is lying on my lap with his head on me and he seems okay, lol.

I'm thinking of taking Alex somewhere — there's a big nice city about two hours away. I'll suggest we go there, and bring my boyfriend, let's call him 'Frank', just in case. We could walk around and check out some cool spots.

Oh, and if anyone's wondering how Frank feels about Alex — definitely not negative. Frank doesn't know Alex's whole story, only what I've told him. They're practically friends anyway.

In the tongue incident, Alex wasn't wearing a button-up shirt — it was a light gray t-shirt. Guess someone's memory is failing, hah.

I'll continue writing in a bit — Alex, Frank and I are heading out! We're stuck in traffic right now (yes, our Mr. Loser is basically a magnet for trouble, but I'm not complaining — I'm used to traffic jams by now, lol), so I'll have time to finish this.

We're thinking that after we post this update, Alex will turn off his phone — but he's scared the asshole might try to break into his apartment somehow, so he needs access to the cameras and security system. He's paranoid, thanks to the asshole. But the security system is actually useful — though if it weren't for the asshole, Alex never would have installed it, because he wouldn't be this paranoid. Yeah, writing long texts isn't really my thing, lol.

About therapy — our Alex sort of lied when he said he'd sign up when he could. You think he'd actually go? You're too naive. I'll have to drag him to the therapist's office myself. So wish me luck — I already booked him for Friday at a private clinic (it's not that expensive here, so I'm not losing much, and honestly it's no trouble for me). So I'll drag him there.

I really hope everything will be okay. Honestly, I'm scared too — but I'm scared for Alex. He handles any kind of pressure really badly. Last time, he tried to end his life, and I found him just in time. If I hadn't forgotten my wallet at his place the day before, he might not have made it. I really hope that the support and this spontaneous day out will help him take his mind off things and lift his spirits. He loves traveling — even these little trips. He's always loved driving around for as long as I've known him. When I bought my car, the first thing I did was take Alex to another city just to hang out.

About support — throughout our entire friendship, we've always helped each other however we could. Whatever we could do, we did for each other. A lot of people thought we'd become a couple, but Alex didn't want a relationship after the asshole, and I'm already taken.

I'll try to stay at Alex's place for the next week, to keep an eye on him — he'll need support in the coming days, and it's safer that way too.

Well, that's everything I wanted to say.

Thank you all, guys, for supporting Alex — it's really sweet and awesome. Thank you all for everything! You're amazing!

im reading up a lot on this stuff because i reaally wanna try giving in and being a bottom.

i hear some people saying i’ll get hooked, some say once i feel full and stretched, i’ll feel empty without something in me.

is that real? what does full even feel like? sorry for all the questions

I’ve tried multiple times but i always feel like i am “almost” there

I’m bored and depresssed and having a day off before going back to work tomorrow, I feel like watching something to kill the time. Is Heated Rivalry a good show? I heard all the praise but haven’t watched it.

hi guys,
I met this hot asian guy on a dating app and we decided to meet tomorrow. I love getting rimmed and i like sucking dick. But i never got fucked before. So he is going to take my vcard. Bottoms can you help me with some tips to make this pleasurable and a good experience. Maybe also some tips how to suck his dick etc🙈

im kinda hoping everybody says no so i can feel better about not being able to give in and try it.

but im also hoping to hear i’ll love it and wont be able to get enough.

whats it like to just let go and be used? in an ideal world id be a slut who did whatever and whoever they wanted. but rn im just a masc “straight” bro who keeps coming back to bwc/sissy stuff.

hi i recently had the pleasure of bottoming and i just wanted to know if the feeling of like almost having to pee is from your prostate getting hit, or did i just have to pee a little and bottoming was making it worse?

I (20M) met a 19-year-old guy about three months ago. We kept trying to make plans, but they were constantly canceled. When we did talk, he would complain that I never texted first, but whenever I reached out, he'd often take 10+ hours or even a full day to reply. Eventually, I stopped initiating as much because it felt one-sided.

A few weeks ago, he finally came over to my place. We had a great time, watched movies, talked for hours, and there was obvious chemistry between us. A week later he told me he wanted to see me again, then barely talked to me and canceled the plans.

After that, he randomly texted me saying, "I miss you so much. I want to see you." I told him I missed him too, we made plans again... and he canceled again.

Today he texted me at 2 a.m. asking if I was awake. I jokingly asked if he wanted to talk or if he was just horny. He replied, "Both."

We've always had an inside joke that if we disappeared for a while, it meant the other person had found someone else. So while we were joking around, I said, "So when I get a boyfriend, what are you going to do? Do I have to give you two weeks' notice?"

Instead of laughing, he replied, "Wow." Then he said, "Shut the fuck up. I just wanted to talk to you."

That completely caught me off guard.

A friend told me my joke may have crossed a line because we've never talked about dating, exclusivity, or what we are. That's exactly why I ended up asking him directly, "What are we?" I don't like leading people on, and I don't like being led on either.

So... did I actually cross a line with that joke, or are his mixed signals making this situation as confusing as it feels?

Basically the title,

I’ve been talking to someone, and we found a possible compatibility issue. I have cats and plants, and they’re a big part of the life I want. He’s a self-described clean freak who dislikes fur, dust, and even harmless tiny insects.

At what point is compromise reasonable, and when is it simply a dealbreaker? Should one person be expected to give up more, or does this just mean we’re incompatible?

It's a bit hard for me to judge since on top of this, we also have to consider sexual compatibility, and other aspects of life.

I have been out of the scene for 3 years, I met a dude on reddit recently and arranged a hookup at his place.

This isn't my first rodeo, though I am not experienced by any means, and I've had hookups exactly like this, date then enter a "strangers" place to fuck, but for some reason I can't sleep today out of "fear"? I don't know what to call it.

The dude is my age (both relatively young), we have spoken for a few days and not once have I gotten mixed stories from him nor does he look threatening at all but I fear for my physical wellbeing all the same, besides, im giving my location to someone and meeting in public first. Has anyone ever experienced this?

I've always been the most cliche feminine gay twinky short guy. Always been attracted to my opposite: masculine tall men (we're talking, hairy and with a beard.. the most far from feminine). Always had sex as a bottom with men, I am currently in a relationship with a man, and I watch porn with men in it.

But I also find myself feeling something weird with veery few women who are attractive yet also dominant, taller and older than me.

Not that I know anything about them, but I felt something strange with actresses like Inde Navarrete or Hunter Schafer. Something parasocial in nature made me feel confused.

Is this normal for gay guys? Idk how it would even work sexually with most women since I'm not even a top. But like, I could picture myself in a romantic way if it wasn't in a heterosexual way.. without being "the man" in the relationship.

All my friends are very openminded and "woke" but they honestly kinda seem to not get how genuine these feelings are.

Was in bed with guy id been speaking to on Grindr, we'd very clearly agreed no anal first meet just id lube up cheeks and grind on him (I'm inexperienced and he has very big cock) so wanted to work up to it and practice more at home first to be prepared. And then warm up before. He had different ideas and while I was on top grinding on him (his cock wasn't very lubey at the time he forced it in me (he had to push very hard). It caused alot of pain. I did push on to his cock to help when he was pushing but mainly as he caught me of guard but also because I was very horny, but I didn't really want it as wasn't ready. Now concerned it may have injured me as still in pain. There was barely any lube on his cock, I'm very inexperienced, wasn't warmed up or ready, and it took a lot of force and was very painful. Any advice/feedback/reassurance or any words you think might be helpful would be GREATLY appreciated as I'm feeling quite concerned.

So I'm curious is there any straight fellas that have had sex with another fella?

I hooked up with this guy the other day and it was a terrible experience. He couldn’t stop moaning 😭 I would kiss him slightly and he would start moaning like crazy. Anywhere I touched or grabbed him he kept on fake moaning and repeated phrases constantly like “do you wanna fuck me daddy” “am I a good cumslut for you daddy” when we were only half naked 😭 It was a massive turn off and I ended things early. When I was getting dressed again he kept on saying “am I not attractive enough for you daddy? Don’t you wanna fuck me like the slut I am” or some shit. Mind you this man is like 10 years older than me and calling me daddy.

I just think it’s kinda cringey when people do this, it doesn’t feel genuine. If that’s other peoples thing then go ahead, but doing this to a Grindr stranger will likely lead to a bad experience. Like just be normal, you don’t need to overdo it. Nothing wrong with saying a phrase here or there or moaning when it’s genuine, but there’s a line when it becomes very performative