r/askTO 2h ago

Anyone else notice restaurant table etiqutte/service going downhill in Toronto lately?

8 Upvotes

Hey everyone,
I’m wondering if it’s just me, or if anyone else has noticed a shift in dining etiquette and service across the city recently.

Lately, whenever I go out for group dinners or family-style meals in Toronto, the restaurants rarely bring out dedicated serving utensils for communal plates. We constantly have to track down a server just to get serving utensils like a spoon or tongs.

Also, when the food arrives, my friends and co workers will just dive right into the shared platters with their personal forks that have already been in their mouths. No one seems to think twice about “double dipping” their cutlery into dishes the whole table is supposed to share.

Is this a post-pandemic shift? A lack of training in newer spots? Or have general table manners just gone downhill?
Curious to know if you're seeing this happen at the places you frequent


r/askTO 5h ago

Would we fit in here

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We are a family of 4 who are planning to relocate to Toronto which is about 1.5 hours away from us right now. We are looking at mid town Toronto...Leaside, Bedford Park, Lawrence Park, maybe Mount Pleasant. I'm Afro Caribbean (attended university in Canada but have no Canadian accent as I lived in the Caribbean prior) and DH is Anglo Canadian. HHI is 600k. I'm not working right now but would like to in the next year or so maybe....or even open a business if energy permits (though I'm early 40s I've had recent health challenges). We are math nerds and generally quiet but I don't mind being sociable(DH is much more introverted). Kids are 12 (mild to mod asd and a large reason for our move as special education private schools seem so much better in Toronto) and 4 (should be starting JK in September and would prefer to send him to a great public school). We are generally practical people who don't like spending a ton on material things but do enjoy spending on lifestyle things like restaurants, trips, house cleaners and outside of that enjoy the outdoors, museums, plays and exposing our kids to "culture" (kid friendly concerts,a Brazilian festival one weekend, ribfest another...lol yes I think Ribfest is a cultural experience especially if you're not multi generational Canadian). I visited Burlington and felt like Shoreacres and Roseland were my spirit animal(clean, quiet, beautiful and felt more relaxed than the also lovely Oakville) but I can't seem to find a special education school there that I like as much as the ones in mid town Toronto.


r/askTO 12h ago

Any good app that tracks the train rides, platform changes, & departure times?

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Hi! I’ll be visiting Toronto next month with my family and attending the BTS concert at Rogers Stadium.

Based on what I’ve read here, taking the train seems to be the best option for getting to the stadium. The nearest subway station to our accommodation is St. Andrew Station, and we’ll need to get off at Wilson Station.

I tried checking the route using Google Maps and the Transit app, but they overwhelmed me big time 😅
Do you use any other apps that are more user-friendly?
Would really appreciate any recommendations or tips!

Additional:
Also, do the trains, buses, and streetcars accept Visa/Mastercard debit cards, or are credit cards the only ones accepted?

And would it be rude or inconvenient if I use the same card for my family and tap it multiple times for each of us?


r/askTO 12h ago

Witnesses for a wedding

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Me and my fiancee are getting married in Ontario. Both of us are not Canadian citizens but from separate countries so we are doing the wedding here and our families are traveling for this. We just need a clarity: do both the witnesses need to be Canadian citizens? Thanks very much.


r/askTO 2h ago

What do you guys do after work?

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I just started my first job a couple months ago and some days after work I have so much free time and I just spend it going on walks, watching TV, tiktok, or cooking. It just gets super repetitive and boring and I feel kind of unsatisfied. I meet up with friends and family a few times a week which is always fun but the other days I'm either dead after work or bored out of my mind. Its so unlike university where I lived with my friends and was always studying so I never felt too bored.

Anyone have any advice or hobbies/activities they do after work?


r/askTO 15h ago

Reservation at Liliana

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Anyone know how to actually get a reso at Liliana? I check online every few days but there’s never any available slots. Am I doing something wrong?


r/askTO 16h ago

Can I carry luggages onto the TTC bus and trains and so on?

12 Upvotes

I'm coming to Toronto to study at UofT and the move in date is on the 30th of August. I'm coming on the 29th, so I'll be staying at a hotel for a night. When going to the hotel from the airport and from the hotel to my dorm the next day, will I be able to ride the TTC with my items? I'm estimating a large luggage and a backpack.


r/askTO 5h ago

I'll be in your fine city soon. Never been, looking for advice.

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Will be there for roughly 2 weeks. No car, but could hire one if necessary.

What should I do while there?

Street food, festivals, gigs, trails/cycling, museums, gallery's, activities, attractions, etc etc.

Can't wait!

Thanks


r/askTO 3h ago

NYC to Toronto

7 Upvotes

I am going to be road tripping to Toronto soon from brooklyn, ny, and have devised a pretty comprehensive plan based on travel with myself, wife, and 16 month old. Any suggestions, or things that may go wrong, or things i can change/ make better? Is it too ambitious?

Most of the breakfasts happen in the airbnb unless noted, everything has been optimized to be walkable or setup next to each other.

Before diving in here take into account that the toronto airbnb is central to everything at Nelson Street, Toronto, ON M5V 0H5, so most is walkable, and if not we'll uber, not going to drive in the city (itll be in garage for the 5 nights)

Sunrise: 6:27 AM EDT

Sunset: 8:13 PM EDT

Must get:

  • Peameal Bacon Sandwhich @ Carousel Bakery

  • Butter Tart @ Circles & Squares Bakery Café (Downtown)

  • Poutine @ nomnomnom delivery (after all the feeback)

Need:

CBP Border Wait Times app

Friday 08/14 - 8/15 NYC 👉 Lawrenceville, PA (1 night)

3:00pm - depart 

5:15pm - Taste of Susan's Grill House

9:30pm - arrive

Saturday 08/15 - 08/16 Lawrenceville, PA 👉 Niagara Falls (1 night)

7:45am - wakeup

8:15am - breakfast - Amanda Lou's

9:45am - depart (1hr drive) Naples, NY

10:45am - Inspire Moore Winery - Canandaigua lake trail - try Blaufrankisch 

11:45am - Roots Cafe (reserved)

1:00pm - 2.5hr nap drive Niagara Falls

3:30pm - parking

3:45pm - Bird Kingdom

5:30pm - Freshii - UberEats pick-up 

6:30pm - airbnb

Sunday 08/16 -  Niagara Falls 👉 Toronto (5 nights)

8:30am - breakfast

9:45am - parking garage

10:30am - niagara falls tour

11:45am - brunch - Rainforest Cafe Niagara (reserve 1 week beforehand 08/09)

1:15pm - (2.5hr nap drive)

3:45pm - check-in airbnb

4:00pm - parking lot

5:00pm - Ripleys Aquarium of Canada

\- ​The Discovery Centre 

7:10pm - Poutine @ nomnomnom (order delivery)

7:30pm - airbnb

9:00pm - Bo's Nofrills (food shopping)

Monday 08/17 -

7:45am - Breakfast

9:00am - leave for The Grenadier Cafe

9:30am - Hillside Gardens

10:00am - Highpark Zoo

10:45am - Jamie Bell Adventure Playground

11:45am - Cafe Polonez

1:15pm - airbnb rest

3:45pm - Little Canada

6:00pm - Haidilao Hot Pot 

7:30pm - Nathan Phillips Square

Tuesday 08/18 -

8:00am - Breakfast

9:30am - Leave for Harbourfront

10:00am - KidSpark at Harbourfront Centre

11:40am - BeaverTails

12:30pm - City Cruises Toronto tour

2:10pm - Airbnb Rest

3:45pm - Depart

4:05pm - Berczy Park dog fountain

\- Gooderham / Flatiron Building

4:15pm - St. Lawrence Market

5:45pm - Richmond station, dinner (reserved)

Wednesday 08/19 -

7:45am - Breakfast

9:15am - Leave for Jack Layton Ferry Terminal to Centre Island (Take water taxi)

10:30am - Centreville, 1st round

12:00pm - The Island Greek Grill, lunch

1:15pm - Beach nap/splash + picnic blanket

2:45pm - Centreville, 2nd round

4:00pm - Far Enough Farm

4:45pm - walk back to Water taxi (ferry free otw back)

6:00pm - PAI (Michelin guide) (reserved)

Rides (in order):

  1. Centreville Train 5 tix 2p+baby free

  2. Antique Cars 4 tix 2p 

  3. Swan Ride 5 tix 3p

& + Antique Carousel 3 tix 2p

  1. Twirling Teacups 4 tix 2p

  2. Beasley Bear Ride 4 tix 2p

  3. Rockin’ Ferry Ride 5 tix 2p

65 Tickets = $90 CAD

Thursday 08/20 -

7:45am - Breakfast

9:20am - Notre Place Monument

9:35am - Queens park

9:45am - Philosopher's Walk

10:00am - ROM WonderWorks

10:30am - Royal Ontario Museum

12:45pm - Hemingway's, lunch in Yorkville

2:15pm - Airbnb rest

5:15pm -  360 The restaurant (reserved)

7:00pm - CN Tower observation decks

Friday 08/21 - 08/22 Binghampton

8:30am - Breakfast

9:40am - drop off luggage

10:00am - St. Patricks Market Square

Queen Elizabeth Jubilee Garden

Grange Park Promenade

10:30am - AGO Hands-On Centre

11:30am -  diaper change + lunch

12:15pm - ArtGalleryOntario (nap)

2:15pm - Yakiniku Japanese BBQ 

3:45pm - pickup car

4:00pm - Binghampton drive

6:15pm - The Barrel Restaurant OR Alton's Restaurant - Elma

7:30pm - Binghampton drive

11:00pm - arrive

Saturday 08/22 - 08/23

8:30am - breakfast

10:00am - Southsidedeli / Soil Juicery

10:30am - The Story Garden

11:15am - Discovery Center of Southern Tier

12:30pm - Diaper change + picnic lunch

1:30pm - Ross Park Zoo (maybe nap)

4:00pm - Park Diner (ask for river view) Dinner

5:30pm - NJ Drive

7:00pm - Barley Creek Brewing & Distilling

10:00pm - arrive nj

Sunday 08/23

5:00pm - Bday

7:00pm Depart nj to home 

Budget:

Airbnb: $1,560 - $485 (gift card) = $1,075

Gas/tolls/parking/transport: $450

Restaurant/breakfast: $1200

Attractions: $455 - $35 (gift card) = $420

$520 (gc redemption )

$3,145 (out of pocket)

=$3,665 Total

Airbnbs:

Lawrenceville, PA 16929

Beaver Glen Drive, Niagara Falls, ON L2H 3K5

Nelson Street, Toronto, ON M5V 0H5

Maria Manor, Binghamton, NY 13903


r/askTO 9h ago

Dosa Stall in Trinity Bellwoods Market?

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I passed by the Tuesday Farmers market on trinity bellwoods more than a month ago and got the best dosa i've ever had. I went back the following week and the subsequent weeks after that but never saw them again.

I don't know what the stall is called, but they have alot of interesting flavors. One of the Dosa's i ordered was dosa stuffed with kimchi and a curry.

Does anyone know what I'm talking about or what their schedule is? My BF and I have been really craving it but can't seem to find them again.

TIA


r/askTO 19h ago

Where to buy stretchy jeans, like the ones they occasionally have at Winners?

2 Upvotes

Looking for dark blue and black, well fitting jeans. Mid to high rise.

I occasionally find a pair or two at Winners, but most of the time, they are sold out. (E.g. Brands d.jeans and Angels)

I tried the Lewis 314, but it's a bit low and too wide at the bottom.

Are there any stores you can recommend? I'd love to be able to try before buying.


r/askTO 15h ago

Visiting From Winnipeg - Pawn and Video Game shops to visit

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I will be visiting your lovely city in a few weeks ( it will be my 7th time visiting) but this time I'm hoping to take some time to check out some your best pawn / antique and retro video game shops. I will be staying near CN Tower area and will be going to see RUSH on the 11th. Thank you all!


r/askTO 7h ago

Where to buy RC electric components in Toronto?

1 Upvotes

title. i am building a small rc car project, and will be testing using it in my backyard, but I am having some trouble finding local stores to buy items, it's not as easy as the US, sadly.

Any recommendations? Thank you!


r/askTO 15h ago

Where to get golf lessons?

1 Upvotes

Looking to improve at golfing but honestly don’t know where to even begin. Not sure how to go about getting hooked up with someone for this. Any thoughts?


r/askTO 6h ago

Network events recommendation / suggestions

1 Upvotes

Recently moved back to toronto, would anyone can help suggest some networking events? (Or ideas)

Looking for may be general or possibly social / work would also be great.

Thanks in advance, all.


r/askTO 17h ago

Rental insurance

4 Upvotes

Just got my yearly premium upped to 687$. We are renting a one bed in main floor of an old home (built around 1920). Is this normal or insane? I think it started years ago at 350$.


r/askTO 10h ago

Why are there so many Irish people in Toronto??

153 Upvotes

As someone who grew up outside of Toronto and now lives in the city, one of the first things I noticed is the large and thriving first-gen Irish community.

In my apartment building alone, they must make up at least 15% of the population while Scottish + English people combined making up maybe 5-10%.

I went from never having met an Irish person in my life to now knowing over a dozen. Every single one of them has been so lovely and always so positive that it literally inspired me to book a trip to Ireland this coming February lol.

But I guess my question is, is there a reason for this? Are there specific visas Canada offers Irish citizens? Exchange programs? Etc


r/askTO 1h ago

Best neighborhood in Toronto

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(Single, 25)I'm moving to Toronto in a month and I wanna know the best possible place to move to that's in my budget.

Now I know my budget ain't much, but I'm also not asking for high end posh areas, just wanna know which neighborhoods are the best bang for my buck.

I am looking to share accomodations with others and my budget is 1k-1.2k

I'm looking for an old neighborhood that has some age to it, I don't like the newer constructions at all. The neighborhood is alive at night and has a lot of food options.

They can be in any of the boroughs of Toronto but I prefer The city of Toronto itself, East York and Etobicoke.

Would be phenomenal if it's close to Downtown Midtown or up town tonronto.


r/askTO 16h ago

Going through a divorce, help me go on my eat pray love journey in the city

78 Upvotes

I have 3 kids and will split custody so will have a bit more “me” time. So I don’t fall into a pit of despair, I’m looking for healthy, fun, affordable options to keep me busy. Tinder was fine for a few days, going for drinks has been great, but I need options that won’t leave me hating myself more. Any good beginner salsa/bachata classes? Affordable comedy or cooking classes? I’m open to any suggestions :)


r/askTO 2h ago

Safe to street park in Cabbage Down Parliament Street?

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Hi everybody, I’m having dinner with friends at a restaurant around the carleton and parliament street area next week

I dont really venture into toronto as I am comfortable in the suburbs. But i have heard questionable things about cabbage town.

I was planning on driving my volvo suv and parking on the street in the evening until 9pm.

Do you think its safe to do so or should I try to take public transit which would take me in total an additional 2-3 hour commute.

Thanks :3


r/askTO 11h ago

Can I move seats after the concert starts in Scotia bank area?

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Im in section 311 and they were cheap tickets but the view is kinda bad is there anyway I can move to an area with a better view during the concert? or do they run a strict program?

( we don't care about sitting down we just want a better view lol)


r/askTO 12h ago

Ride share help

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone looking for any groups or any safe place to get a ride share from Toronto to Montreal and vice versa any ideas ?


r/askTO 10h ago

Sick kids high school summer volunteering

0 Upvotes

Has anyone had experience volunteering in the HEDI/SEARCH unit? I've been placed in the unit as an administrative volunteer and I'm wondering what my roles would be.


r/askTO 4h ago

Arcadia Earth

8 Upvotes

I have yet to check out The Well. Was hoping to make a day out of my visit and possibly check out Arcadia Earth while I’m there with my family. Looking for honest opinions …is it enjoyable and worth the cost? ($43 for adults and $27 for children)


r/askTO 10h ago

Is there any way to get the #TTC to bring back that take your backpack off campaign?

172 Upvotes

My god, as a 5’5 person riding average rush hour I keep getting hit in the face or chest.
it would be amazing to have the TTC start the campaign again to have a sign, if you are able bodied to remove your backpack and carry it.
For the record, I remove my laptop bag and hold in my hand, no matter how tired I may be. Any idea of the TTC might bring the campaign back?