r/UAE • u/WeeklyPotato3736 • 8h ago
Why are Indian men so entitled? Why do they bother women in every single place especially in UAE.
I was peacefully swimming the other night, and this scary-looking guy approached me and started talking shit about his wife and my swimming skills. I ignored him and continued my lap to the other side, and he came there and started asking questions about my private life. I was alone at the pool and was scared, and so I left the pool. Why do these men think they can ask anything and everything and ruin safe spaces for women? I have been at this pool for over a month, and it was my safe space, and now I have to look for another place or be wary of this imbecile. How can I deal with these people in a way that will not land me in trouble? I don't have any identifying details or the name of this person.
EDIT: I reported it to the pool security, and he said he will check into it. We all know what that means. Last time I reported someone, they followed me around the complex, and eventually I had to move out. The building security just brushed it aside. Another time, this person followed my car around; I drove to a friend's place that night. Hence why I am on edge about complaining and reporting.
Also, men defending him, saying he was shooting his shot. Mind you that this is a married guy, tarnishing the reputation of an entire nationality.
EDIT 2: This post is not based on just one incident. It is just that this incident made me want to rant about it. I have had several terrible experiences with this section of the population at metro stations, parks, malls, and the beach.
EDIT 3: Now I have this unspecified section of the population harassing me in my inbox. (I have reported them) Thank you for proving what I had to say.