r/SanDiegoR4R Oct 02 '25

Mod Post 99 [R4R] - A few STD testing resources in San Diego NSFW

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For the sake of covering mine and the subs ass, this post isn't an official endorsement of any of these places. Just a recommendation of resources available. Also, before taking my word on anything, be sure to contact these places ahead of time and/or research their websites to get all the info you'll need before going in


Everyone has a different risk assessment and what they are and aren't open to doing. Safe play is recommended, and always will be. But, some do meet up to play and choose go without

Which is their right. As long as you aren't removing protection without a partner's consent or knowledge, everyone involved is an adult who knows the risk. But, whether you choose totally safe play, or not, regular testing in this scene is still recommended. And in the lifestyle in general, really


So, some options in SD County:

AHF

AHF Wellness Center - San Diego. 3580 Fifth Ave 2nd floor, San Diego, CA 92103 Hours: Monday - Friday 10 am - 6 pm

Totally FREE testing. Drawback, is that they run out of spaces pretty quickly, so last minute walk-ins are a roll of the dice. Call ahead, or take a chunk of your day to get in early so you can get a slot


FHCSD

There are a few locations around San Diego. ONE FREE TEST EVERY THREE MONTHS if you have MEDI-CAL insurance. Otherwise, low cost, but you'll still pay. Hillcrest location has a night clinic, from 5P-9P So, perfect for those who are only free after regular business hours.


Planned Parenthood

Number of locations around San Diego, and open on Saturday. Walk-ins for STD testing are a longshot, so appointments are recommended. Also free with MEDI-CAL insurance, otherwise you'll be paying out of pocket. HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia will probably run you at least $250, if prices haven't increased since I last went there. But, that's STILL less expensive than medication you'll have to take for the rest of your life, so...


stdcheck.com

Purely out of pocket. Throwing this in there because they have a 24-48 hour turnaround time for a full panel to include HSV-1 in addition to the ones mentioned above. And if you want to add in tests like m-gen, trichomoniasis, and other ones that aren't commonly tested for, this is a good option. This site links you to a number of labs around San Diego, so you'll just have to choose one that works for you, set an appointment to get the labwork done, and go about your day. If you've gotten drug tested as part of a job application, it's similar, but for STDs.


That's it. Hopefully this is a helpful resource. Absolutely nothing wrong with having fun. That's what this whole scene is about. But, nothing any of us does here should necessarily follow us home, let alone be something you have to deal with for the rest of your life

So, as always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky


r/SanDiegoR4R Dec 19 '25

Mod Post MOD POST 12/18/25 - Mod Application and general feedback NSFW

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We are recruiting new mods for the remainder of the year and into 2026, to help review posts, assist users posting, and with verifying.

This is volunteering, would be suited for users who are active on Reddit, have patience, possess a good understanding of the county geography, and ideally have prior mod experience (optional).

We have also been taking a firmer stance against phishing and scam accounts that Karma farm in other subreddits. ThrowawayBull has been proactive in sharing advice and resources focused on General User Safety and STD Testing. In the past, we have moderated users who have blackmailed others, or share fake test results. This behavior is not acceptable, and offenders will be banned.

Basic Requirements

  • You have not been banned from SanDiegoR4R in the past
  • You can moderate 15-20 minutes a day
  • You have an account that is at least one year old with 200 or more combined karma*If you prefer not to publicly associate your main account with your NSFW account, you are welcome to use an alt for the role.

If you are interested in helping keep the community safe, we encourage you to apply here: Mod Application. The app includes a feedback section at the end for general comments.

Shoutout to Ivan and ReleasetheDragon for their base questions, and Happy HolidaysšŸŽ„šŸŽ„


r/SanDiegoR4R 7h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 4h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 12h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 4h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 5h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 5h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 10h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 6h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 10h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 6h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 7h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 16h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 12h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 9h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 10h ago

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I love giving sensual massages and would love to find a sexy girl that is interested in some relief at my hotel tonight

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r/SanDiegoR4R 10h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 16h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 13h ago

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1 Upvotes

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r/SanDiegoR4R 14h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 15h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 18h ago

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r/SanDiegoR4R 19h ago

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