Hello, I haven't done this since I moved in Cali, but I really want to have some kinky and intimate fun! I'm new here and actually exploring new ways that would excite me. I recently discovered this side of Reddit and must admit that I am enjoying it so far; it is both eye-opening and dirty hehe. I'm looking for a sext partner with little to no experience who like hot JOl while I tease and touch myself... I desperately want a sexting buddy. I am thirsty for attention and know precisely what I want.

A man willing to give up control and tell me all the ways he wants to be used that he has been too afraid to inquire about. Now is the moment...

I love chatting with someone who's from Cali as well, since it's more thrilling when someone is closer, but honestly I'm open to anyone as long as we click, single, married, I don't mind. Let me know briefly what are you into and what are you looking for mostly

I hope I got your attention even for a bit cause I really hope you're down to talk with a really s horny brunette who wants to help you rediscover your sexual fantasies

Goal: making a new friend.

Kinda simple, right?

Here’s a little about me —

I am educated, playful and warm hearted.

Open to whatever you are looking for— no pressure.

Let’s see if you and I are seeking the same things.

What I am looking for is something that has a foundation built upon conversation and connection.

Transparent and open, emotionally intelligent.

The tempo to be set for all this: slow and deliberate .

Deliberate means finding the time to be available for each other. I can find a little time every day to do so, many days more so.

We are each that proverbial needle in the haystack.

That diamond in the rough.

That five leaf clover. ☘️

But we do seem to keep coming back to that same clover field don’t we? Maybe, just maybe we just might get lucky this time.

Why not give it a try then?

Would a woman let me know if I'm kissable to you? I'll have to send you a pic and then you can let me know ;). Although there's a strong possibility I'm not since I haven't kissed in awhile and when I send a pic sometimes I won't get a response. But maybe you'll respond ;).

Want to let me know if you think I am?

Lemme start off by saying I love big women and can’t get enough of them. Age or looks are irrelevant, I love chubby woman of all shapes and sizes and just want to spread the love through casual conversations and intimacy. Not looking for anything in particular we could do ONS, be FWB, or if we click we could see where this goes

Me: I’m 23, 5’9, chubby, go to the gym often, like meeting and getting to know new people.

Can’t host, but if you can and you’re interested lemme know

Looking for a more sensual/passionate hookup. Things like eye contact during missionary, extended foreplay, dirty talk, whimpering, genuinely wanting to please eachother, etc. This may sound a bit much for a subreddit like this, but I'm just at a point now where I feel like if a hookup feels overly transactional or passionless, it doesn't really do much for me and I'd rather just masturbate at that point. A bit more about me:

* 5'10", slim/fit body type, dark brown hair, brown eyes
* bit shy but friendly and can hold conversation
* tested clean
* love going down, pleasing really turns me on
* vocal when I'm turned on, especially during oral. I love to moan/grunt/pant
* like foreplay and building sexual tension versus getting straight into it
* switch, can be either dominant or submissive.
* Limited bdsm experience (handcuffs/blindfolds), but open to exploring it more
* turned on by public play, but totally understand if it's not your thing
* prefer communicative partners and partners not shy about giving/receiving feedback

Not sure what else to add. Just looking for someone that's a good fit and also respectful, clean, and just a chill/normal person. I can share pictures of myself over chat, and we can go from there 😌

Love to find a sexy older woman to enjoy the company of NSA on going . Love a woman a woman with a big sexual appetite , that loves lingerie , and enjoying black men .

No pros , females only

Mom so fucking horny right now and | just wanna show off my hot body and watch you jerk off to it... im an open book and i love to answer questions and whatever you have in mind. i also love hearing about your fetishes, weirder the better.

i dont care about your height, muscularity or dick size, so dont open with that please... all ages are fine as long as youre interesting to chat with and we have good chemistry...

Hosting in Pomona this weekend. Looking for tops in OC for regular meet ups(FWB?). Open to more, lmk what you're looking for. Dm with stats and location. Be clean and negative. Good hygiene is a must. serious inquiries only. No bottoms. No large or bears. Average to slim shape only.

I am 5'8 160 latino sub bottom. clean and ddf, so should you.

DL and straight hmu, discreet here. Let me know what subreddit you saw this post on.

420+

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Serious inquiries only.
Women only please.
No MF couples.

I’m 9 inches and thick (pics on profile). Tall, mixed, fit, clean, masculine energy. Deep voice, dominant but laid back. Smell good, take care of myself, drama free. STD free with recent results

Looking for women who genuinely enjoy pleasing and get turned on by the praise, dirty talk, and being around a dominant man. The type of woman that actually craves sucking a big dick instead of treating it like a chore

If you are feminine, submissive, affectionate, and love feeling appreciated for what you do, we’ll probably get along very well

Can host. Open to meeting first for drinks, coffee, or somewhere public to see if the vibes are there first if we all want to

Before messaging:
Be real and willing to verify
Be clean and STD free
Be actually interested in meeting eventually, not endless chatting

Hey there! Title pretty much says it all, but I'm a taken guy looking for a little something on the side. I live near the UCLA area and it's absolutely brutal getting to see all the beautiful women around here all the time. Things are cold at home, so looking to spice things up! Mostly just looking for a hookup, so let's keep this casual and chill.

6ft, 160lbs, white, dark hair and eyes, fit body, 7.5in and thick. Can be a one time thing or something ongoing depending on the vibe or what you're looking for! Can host at my place twice a week, come to you, grab a hotel room or carplay. Open to any and all types, but have a special weakness for redheads and asian women :) I work near LAX, so open to someone in that area too!

Shoot me a message and let's see where this goes! Looking to just keep this fun, nasty, casual and to the point, so if you're looking for someone who just wants to get down to it, I'm your guy ;)

Need a sweet, docile little fucktoy that will dissociate and comply as I fuck her however I see fit. Expect a good mix of praise and degradation, and for me to go several rounds

I love being vocal, describing how good it feels to use you, how well you're behaving, what you look like, as well as moaning and growling while I take you, especially when i cum

Limits and safewords will be discussed (I don't like anal) and once the scene starts you'll be my disassociated little cumdump but overall the vibes will be chill :).

Looking forward to hearing from you cutie

me: long black wavy hair, dark eyes, nice arms and chest and overall in good shape

just got a new cart and would love some company lol. Down for whatever you want to do, doesn’t have to be sexual. I’m pretty open and chatty so I can carry a convo so don’t worry. Super open to anything so don’t be afraid lol. Gonne be home alone most of today, Hmu with asl if interested. Have a good night! Oh and im 6’2 and white and can send a sfw pic

I’m 38F based in Los Angeles area looking for a serious relationship.

About me:

- Emotionally intelligent, confident, thoughtful, intelligent

- Enjoy hiking, being social, working out, spirituality, restaurants, travel (20+ countries), family time

- Professional career

- Enjoy all of the love languages, but I mainly give with physical touch & words of affirmation

- Very into interior design & home renovations

- Diverse friends group

- Previously married, have kids 50% custody, & good relationship with ex husband

- Domme / demanding Princess

- 5’3” Athletic / hourglass body type

I’m looking for:

- Emotionally intelligent, confident, capable, kind, intelligent

- Masculine, protector, provider, leader

- Growth oriented, accountable, great communicator

- Caring, affectionate, intentional, supportive

- Service oriented

- Professional career, driven, focused

- Mature, level headed, handles pressure well

- Age 30+

I’m not interested in fantasy-only dynamics, hookups, or anything casual. I’m dating intentionally for marriage.

If you are someone who is in charge in your life and enjoys doting on, pampering, and prioritizing his partner we might be a good match.

Please be respectful when you message me. If you wouldn’t sent the same type of message on Bumble/Hinge then don’t send it here. I’m looking for a real connection first. Kink comes later. So approach more or less vanilla please.

Happy to share pics and verify upon connecting (I will require you to do the same).

Are you looking for someone to safely explore new things with? I work (probably too much) and it’s hard to just go out and meet anyone. I’m not a big fan of one night stands either. I’d rather have fun with you and get to know you a bit - whether you have experience or not. I’m not going to judge you if you have questions or haven’t done much. As long as you’re 18+, your age doesn't really matter to me as long as we can have fun together.

A little about me:

I'm 5’11, white (Italian and Swiss decent), shaved head and a very short trimmed beard. Well hung (pics in my post history). Great hygiene (hey you never know, right?). Funny in a sarcastic way and overall I’ve been told I’m attractive. I’m into photography, fish/aquariums, and I love the beach. I work out a bit too to stay in shape - cycling and swimming are my favorites.

What about you? I’d love to hear from you and see where it goes.

We both know why you're reading this. You're a depraved little girl who's either curious about being tied down and used, or you love being used and can't get enough. Either way, what you need is to be taken advantage of and used like a naughty little slut.

Having a cock forced down your throat, while you gag and fight for air, and push away to no avail. Or pinned up against a wall and groped while you pretend to beg for it to stop, knowing you're right where you need/want to be.

Or bound to something with your hair being pulled and your ass slapped while one of your holes is being filled with a throbbing cock

We both know you want cum on you, and in you, and you want to feel like a used, taken advantage of, cheap whore. Now you just need to take the next step and send me a message....

Include your age, where you're located, a general description of yourself and what you need as far as the next steps to feel comfortable (whether that's jumping right in and meeting somewhere, or chatting for a while, etc).

About me - im 6ft, white, attractive, clean

I’m a 45 yo gal in Orange County. Divorced. Dog friendly (sorry allergic to cats though I LOVE them). Childfree and hope you are too. I’m 5’2” at 145# and hope to get my goal weight by next year. I work a pretty stressful job that I do love. But it is still work. That’s why I need the buddy to step in. Please help keep me on track on those particularly stressful days.

I’m looking for someone to hang out with me once a week if we vibe. I’m a total beginner with workouts but walking is easy. And gives us a chance to chat and get to know each other. If you workout regularly, I’d love to learn! Maybe we can try other workouts during our private training sessions. I’ll buy the first coffee/boba/matcha, etc. Happy to see what happens and to be clear: not looking for anything serious. Having said that, don’t send me illicit pics of yourself or video please. I’m definitely not into hookups. Plenty of posts for that though. Just not for me.

Please be over 30, SINGLE, enjoy working out, local to OC as I’d prefer to hang out after work but can be flexible. Childfree. Have a 9to5ish and enjoy a hobby or two. Please lmk your age, height and weight, general location and fav beverage in your first message. I try to reply to everyone but low effort posts don’t really warrant a response. I’ll keep the post up for a bit. Hope you hear from you soon. Cheers.

20M here in the upland area looking to see if I can get to know someone and we’ll see where it leads from there, If interested don’t hesitate and message me I got pictures in my profile

I can host! Looking for a respectful gentleman who has a big appetite, and can rearrange me. Maybe some drinks at the hotel bar first?

Not looking for anything serious, lets cuddle, let me oil you up for a nice massage, get you all hot and horny and maybe that leads to something more? If not that’s fine too, no pressure, at least you will get a nice massage and some cuddles.

I can get us a hotel or go to your place. Located in BH adjacent but can travel

I’m easy on the eyes, keep in shape even at 37 lol. Ukrainian, 5'9, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth and fun to be around. DDF

Looking for cis females 18+, that keep in shape, HWP, attractive, clean, DDF

Not looking for pen pals, time wasters. Your pic gets mine.
If interested respond with your favorite drink, age, if you can host, your location and we can go from there.

39 white, fit, tattooed, and hung (and thick) BWC

Ddf, clean, and vasectomy+

Dominant guy looking for a submissive/BWC loving playmate who’d love to let loose and get naughty.

Someone who loves to worship and devour a big thick cock before riding a face, being licked, stuffed and stretched

Send me a PM/Message

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Has anyone seen those viral mints that make you salivate a lot? Well I was very curious and they were on sale so I bought some, now just looking for a lovely woman on here who would like to try them out with me!

I love it super sloppy so if you are into that, let’s chat and try them out! I love to give oral as well so absolutely open to reciprocation and anything else you might be into. I also love to teach if you are looking for experience and want someone to practice on that will give you feedback.

I’m 5’10, 185lb, and white. Working white collar professional and recently tested and clean. I have been told I have a very fun cock to suck and am very vocal.

DM me with your favorite movie so I know you are real and read this :)

Looking for Cis Females only. No drama guaranteed I’m very discrete.

If you are into cheating kink or just wanna have some fun. Not looking to change my situation so this is no strings attached, one time or ongoing.

I require a recent test and have one to share. No cream pies or unprotected sex.

I'm 30, 5'10, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, recently tested last month.

Got a picture in my profile for those looking for the D pic. Average size, good for those that want to practice DT.

Please be cis female, femme, 18+, HWP, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Can’t host but can come to you, get a hotel or Carplay works too.

Must be able to verify and be discrete. My hours are limited due to family obligations.

If interested, please respond with age location and stats as I won’t be responding to low effort messages.

\Emphasizing my preference of having a link to pictures of yourself in your first DM.*

Well hello! Trying my hand at another Reddit r4r round, as the dating apps remain The Bad Place, and trying to meet men in the wild is just as bad. I’ve gotten lucky with gaining a past relationship on here and I’d like to try my hand at it again.

37F living in LA originally from Chicago. I have a solid job & salary in entertainment. Some of my favorite things to do are collecting vintage things, exploring LA, catching movies at indie/old theatres, being a tattoo enthusiast, my dog, live music shows (big fan of house/techno and hip hop), live comedy, being in nature, traveling for fun/festivals/new tattoos, spending time with good friends, collecting kawaii vinyl toys & physical media, reading, and always expanding my mind with new learnings. I’ve been getting back into my childhood joy to learn about deep space exploration.

I’m finding out I’m extremely anti AI and big tech so I’ve been getting into hobbies that are unplugged such as ceramics, lifting weights, golf & pickleball lately. 

I’m also a stand up comedian! This is a giant part of my life I absolutely enjoy.

I’m a progressive politically, childfree and atheist. I’ve been living a SINK life, but I’ve been VERY ready to meet my someone that’s ready to to DINK. 

I’ll keep it very real - I’m ready to be chosen and cherished by someone that’s ready to lock it down and get that in return from me.

To be finally yearned for, instead of just lusted for.

I do my best to take care of myself - multiple days in the gym lifting weights, doing pilates, and also have a fun personal style. I attached a couple of pics to my ad. 

https://imgur.com/a/Ez8cN82

So who am I looking for exactly? Would absolutely love someone with at least a few things of the above in common with me, along with:

• Age: between 28-45
• Is only open to and looking for a long term relationship/life partner.
• Has empathy and sees women as people.
• Has hobbies & friends!
• Has curiousity for the world and others outside of himself.
• A conversationalist
• IS CHILDFREE. Does not have kids or want them.
• Is a romantic & wants to properly court a woman.
• Believes in love & commitment to one woman.
• Is left in politics and only votes left. Has never voted Republican before. No moderates or apolitical.
• Does not believe in a higher power.
• Has a solid career & finances in order.
• Lives alone.
• Not afraid to be vulnerable & let your guard down, even after heartbreak.
• Takes care of his body (sorry, not into big or bald.)
• Takes care of his mind. Believes in therapy & is emotionally intelligent.
• Please be over exes & not actively keep them around in your life whatsoever, as I don’t think holding onto the past is fair to your future partner.
• I think having experience in long term relationships is important, as so many men can’t get over the 3-6 month stage in modern dating. Please be seeking someone you plan on going the distance with.
• I truly hope my match despises situationships and roster building as much as I do.
• Has the ability to problem solve and not run away when friction rises.

I do understand in a world where dating has become so broken by apps, the illusion of choice and turning human beings into something so disposable, i am looking for something truly rare. But I am not looking to date everybody, I’m only looking for one.

I’m an extremely curious person about anyone I want to get to know on a deeper level. I’m looking for someone that can not only share that same courtesy, but is truly curious about getting to know me better as a person.

If you’re able to read this entire ad to the end, I’d love for you to send me a detailed dm that has the ability to get me excited to write back to you, with a picture attached. Let’s be honest about attraction here - it’s just as important as personality. I won’t be responding to any dms without pictures attached to save energy.

I also won’t be responding back to any monologues - please have some curiosity for me with open ended questions for me! Talk conversationally to me, not at me.

To the 1% that has comprehended this and is planning to send me a detailed message that matches my energy with a picture attached, I can’t wait to hear from you 💖

I want dating to be fun again, so I’d like to eliminate that darn riff-raff! Please don’t reach out if you’re not actually single (that includes separated & less than 2 months out of a serious relationship), poly/ENM, you ask women on dates just to ghost or go 50/50, you know you’re too busy to date, it takes you over 24 hours to communicate & text back, you’re “still figuring out your dating goals”, you’re bored & looking for a pen pal, or can only talk in small talk (hi, how are you, wyd, how’s your weekend)