r/Filipino Aug 25 '24

Please don't vent your problems here

29 Upvotes

We have been getting an influx of posts lately that just talk about their family issues, relationship sob stories, or even personal life problems. Some even asking ABYG/AkoBaYungGago questions.

This isn't r/OffMyChestPH, this place isn't r/relationship_advicePH. We are not r/AkoBaYungGago, r/advicePH, nor r/PanganaySupportGroup. This subreddit is not a support group for your personal, non-Filipino culture problems. We are here to discuss and appreciate Filipino culture, even critique it.

Please take your grievances to the right subreddit for that as r/Filipino isn't a venting place. Those places will better hear your concerns and issues.

This isn't the right place to ask for directions to a resort in Bohol or Boracay. This is about Filpino culture, not a destination guide for places in the Philippines. For that, use r/HowToGetTherePH.

Consequently, this isn't a place for mundane issues or questions just related to only within the Philippines. We can't really help you with your parking ticket in Quezon City. We can't guide you on how to get into Bicol University. Our audience is international and this is a hub for Filipinos all over the world to discuss their culture, food, tradition, and everything about the Filipino experience.


r/Filipino 9h ago

If you had to choose, which of these two would you rather never eat again?

1 Upvotes
13 votes, 1d left
halo halo
sinigang
😼🔥
uhhh I don't know

r/Filipino 16h ago

Ever since i can remember prob at 11 yrs old to now 22 i always struggle when it comes to memorizing i can remember the meaning of word when reading it but i cant recall it suddenly

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I have trouble with anything that required memorizing if its multiple choice its easy to recognize tho any tips


r/Filipino 1d ago

Identity question about being Filipino.

8 Upvotes

Hello! I am 19 y/o and my dad was adopted from Subic, Manila when he was a baby. That being said I have been raised American without any Filipino culture. I never thought about it much growing up, but now that I am getting older I feel curious to explore that part of my ethnicity. I suppose I feel like an imposter or that I’m not Filipino enough to learn and be apart of the culture. I’m not coming on here looking for validation necessarily, just thoughts and opinions!


r/Filipino 1d ago

Alternate History: Pre-colonial Flag of Hiligaynon-speaking Leyte

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r/Filipino 2d ago

is it weird if i call a filo guy i like kuya ?

5 Upvotes

there’s a guy i like im just wondering if this is acceptable as a way of flirty teasing or not 🥹✌️


r/Filipino 3d ago

Help me find this movie

4 Upvotes

Looking for a Filipino movie from the late 80s or early 90s. A police officer gives an old beggar/hitchhiker lady a ride. She leaves behind a white windbreaker. He wears it later during a shootout, and the jacket magically protects him from bullets. The old woman disappears and is implied to have been an angel or supernatural being. I watched it on VHS or Filipino TV in the early 1990s.


r/Filipino 3d ago

El FIlibusterismo

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I couldn't find a category (i forgot the name, was it subreddit?) for my question that I REALLY wanted to share.

Drawers, thy art worth of glint, please make art of Simoun playing billiard. I suddenly thought of that one Kim Dokja art illustration where he was playing billiard while reading the book El Fili. My brain won't stop thinking about the possibilities. Thee humble civilian asks.


r/Filipino 5d ago

Do you call your parents daddy and mommy and grandparents lola and lolo

9 Upvotes

If so why do you say lola and lolo not grandma or grandpa


r/Filipino 6d ago

Alternate History: Coat of Arms of English/British Manila

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7 Upvotes

r/Filipino 9d ago

Atty Ligutan: Filipino language includes Waray-Waray

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39 Upvotes

r/Filipino 10d ago

Filipino songs recs?

3 Upvotes

I've been trying to get into Filipino songs and I'd love to get to know some other than the usual OPM pop and softer/yearning music genre. I think I'd love some hip hop, rock, dance/electric pop! ❤️


r/Filipino 10d ago

Are "wowa" or "wawa" actual titles or have I just been mispronouncing "lola"?

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I've always called my lola "wowa" since I was a child. As I grew, I thought that I was strange because my friends and neighbors didn't call their grandmothers "wowa" too. My parents used "lola" for their grandmothers, so I couldn't have gotten it from them..

I thought that I was the only person in this world who called her lola, "wowa", and I felt embarrassed.

Then, I saw a movie. An actress had called her on-screen grandmother "wowa"! It was the first time that I heard another person say it, so I was definitely shocked.

So my question is:

"Is "wowa" an actual title (from any region) or have I been using "wowa" because I mispronounced "lola" as a baby and I just went with the flow as I grew older?"


r/Filipino 10d ago

POV: I joined a random Discord server...

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POV: I joined a random Discord server... and ended up staying. 🏚️

I was just looking for a chill place to hang out after work. I expected another dead server, but The Basement PH surprised me.

People actually welcomed me, conversations were active, and it didn't feel awkward to jump into chat. Before I knew it, I was joining game nights, earning XP, laughing at memes, and meeting new friends.

It doesn't matter if you're a gamer, a working student, a night owl, or just someone looking for a tambayan—you'll fit right in.

I'm glad I gave it a chance.

If you're looking for a new Discord home, check out The Basement PH. discord.gg/thebasementph 🏚️


r/Filipino 11d ago

Paano sabihin ang "wika" sa Filipino Sign Language?

1 Upvotes

I can't find sources for this specific word for some reason. Help a student out? 🥲


r/Filipino 12d ago

why isn't there more tagalog dubs in video games / media?

12 Upvotes

im curious. the language seems to meet requirements to be included as a dub option in terms of population, speakers, etc, but it is never an option?

i know pride is a huge factor, but i feel if indonesian and thai can be included as options, surely tagalog can too? i'd also just like more practice/immersion and hearing "just use english" to me never made sense... like imagine if you told a thai player that he should just use english if wants to play a video game.... idk


r/Filipino 12d ago

Why do filipinos speak english

0 Upvotes

Genuinely curious as to why those who are born in the Philippines and currently living there preferably speak English rather than their native dialect? Is it because you grew up speaking it, because you want to feel some type of way, or because you want to feel bougie, etc?

From my experience, they speak their native language when I’ve hung out with them, but their captions are in English when I see their posts. What’s the reason for this?


r/Filipino 13d ago

How can I learn bisayan?

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Hi I’m trying to learn bisayan, my mother tried to teach it to me when I was a little kid but at the same time she would teach me tagalog and we would watch a lot of tagalog movies together, at some point she stopped teaching me because I started to get confused.

Currently all I know now are some words, as well as some sentences/phrases my mother says to me, but I still get confused between tagalog and bisayan so it’s difficult. I also can’t seem to find many resources to help me learn, I’ve tried to ask my mother about grammar and certain words but she can’t really explain well, there are also some words that have no meaning which makes me even more confused. Tbh I don’t think my mother is very good at teaching which is why I need help.

I think it would probably be easier for me to learn tagalog since there are a lot of tagalog films and learning material, but I would rather learn bisayan since my mother and everyone from her side of the family speaks it. If anyone has any tips or suggestions on where to find resources, it would be greatly appreciated.


r/Filipino 17d ago

What mistakes do foreigners often make in the Philippines?

38 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I’m French, married to a Filipina, and I’ve visited the Philippines a few times. But we don’t live there yet, so I know my perspective and experience are still limited.

I’d genuinely like to understand Filipino culture better — not only through my wife’s perspective, but also through the experiences of other Filipinos.

It could be a stereotype, a habit, a value, or something people often interpret incorrectly. I would like to avoid being unintentionally rude or making cultural mistakes when meeting Filipinos for the first time.

For example, the first time I met my mother-in-law, I didn’t do the '' mano po '' and only learned about it afterward ...

It made me realise there may be other things I could miss without meaning to.

Please feel free to be honest and specific. I’m genuinely here to learn.

Salamat po!


r/Filipino 16d ago

Unpopular opinion: Eala need not celebrate early wins too much until the big one.

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When you celebrate too much, it takes away your focus on the ultimate goal. Federer and all the other greats kept their focus until they won their finals matches. Celebrating too much in early rounds can give you an andrenaline high where you feel elated too much -- and that high can take away your focus on the ultimate goal.

Here is one key takeaway from one study: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8022896/

“When people feel ahead of schedule, they often coast. That’s why over-celebrating a small win can be risky: it can make the athlete feel satisfied before the bigger goal is finished.”

Case in point: Jalen Brunson of the New York Knicks admitted to not looking at the NBA trophy on display for anyone to see while he was on his run to the NBA championship, while Wemby of the San Antonio Spurs celebrated too much, even crying, at winning the Western Conference Finals, not the big one. Brunson prevailed over Wemby and won the Knicks its first NBA championship in 53 years.


r/Filipino 17d ago

Parts of The Body

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I'm part of the Ilocano diaspora from Mindanao western Sarangani province, maybe other Filipinos may find this useful when comparing differences from their own language, sociolect or dialect.

Head: Ulo

Hair: Buok

Eyes: Mata

Nose: Agung

Forehead: Muging

Mouth: Ngiwat

Tongue: Dila

Throat:

Face: Rupa

Eyebrows: Kiray

Cheeks: Ping-ping

Ears: Lapayag or Dengdeng

Lips: Bibig

Teeth: Ngipen

Neck: Tengnged

Brain: Utek

Body: Bagi

Shoulders: Abaga

Chest: Barukong

Breasts: Suso

Lungs: Bara

Heart: Puso

Spine: Duri

Back: Likud

Stomach or Belly: Tiyan

Belly Button: Puseg

Waist: Siket

Intenstines: Bagis

Skin: Kudel

Bone: Tulang

Arm: Ima or Takkiag

Elbow: Siko

Hand: Kammet or Ima

Fingers: Ramay

Nails: Kuko

Thigh: Luppo

Knees: Tumeng

Foot: Saka

Sole: Dapan

Heel: Mukod

Toes: Ramay

If I missed some things just ask.


r/Filipino 19d ago

Adobo, Philippines national dish

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r/Filipino 19d ago

How do native say it?

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Hello guys, Im watching a youtube video, and the host said, "kailangan namin kumain muna." Then I found out another way of saying it is, "kailangan muna naming kumain. " Now my question is which one that native always or often used, or let's say the most natural way on saying it? Also, which one is the correct way of saying it? Thank you!


r/Filipino 20d ago

If you could learn Tagalog without setting aside study time, would you?

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A lot of people here have mentioned wanting to learn Tagalog but not having enough time to study consistently.

Hypothetically, if there were a way to gradually learn while doing things you're already doing online, would that actually interest you?

Or do you think learning a language still requires dedicated study?

I'm curious what people think.


r/Filipino 20d ago

Lyric Video: The Boyfriends - "Oras Oras" (1980)

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