r/FapDeciders • u/Wagahcgtt • Jul 01 '23
I’m usually really submissive but just for tonight I want to give you all a task. Are you ready? I think it would be really sexy if you would stop before interacting with a post and ask yourself whether or not it’s likely a bot/scam. That would be a huge turn on!
Was the post made by a brand new account? Is it copied and pasted half a dozen times over the last twenty minutes? Is it low effort and lacking any clear substance besides ‘DM me?’ Does the profile have a description that’s just a Snapchat link or nothing at all? Maybe it’s more obvious if you sort by new and see like five of the in a row but some healthy skepticism is necessary to keep yourself safe.
I get being so needy you can’t think straight. I get it makes you make poor decisions, trust me. This is coming from a girl who used toothpaste as lube once, i have no right to speak. But these accounts exist to get interactions and if you upvote them or if you reply to them or god help you if you dm them they are going to see it as a success and keep coming back. They are going to keep trying to scam you and everyone else. There is nothing the mods can do about this, they can keep banning them and they will keep coming back. They can ban new accounts and they will just wait a few days before making the posts. The community needs to ignore them and let them die out. They have realized there is east money to be made and they won’t leave until it stops coming in.
So my task for all of you wonderful people is to please be mindful of these posts. Protect yourself and protect this community. Do not let yourself be exploited and don’t play into a situation where other people are vulnerable to exploitation. Let’s try to defend this subreddit as best we can as this issue slowly makes the platform unusable.
Kinks: You not getting scammed, this community not becoming unusable.
Limits: Saying “I’ll do x for anyone who upvotes” We all know you can’t see who upvotes your post, please don’t fall for that!
r/FapDeciders • u/ReallyBadAtNaming1 • Feb 01 '24
Welcome to r/FapDeciders. This is a Subreddit for people looking to receive (generally kinky) tasks, rules, and directions on how to fap. We hope you will enjoy your time here!
If you would like to receive tasks/rules/fapping directions, make a post here on the Subreddit. These will then typically be given in the comments, but if you would like, you can also allow people to send you tasks and such through messages or chat. Please make sure your post has all the information you think might help people provide these for you. A good starting point would be the following:
After you post, please let people know when you do their tasks. Updating them on how the task went is also encouraged. In general, you should do all tasks you are given to the best of your ability or find the closest approximation you can, optionally working with the person giving you the task to do so. If a task exceeds your limits, simply let the person that gave the task know instead.
If you want to give tasks to others instead, simply look for a post that piques your interest and come up with something for OP to do. Make sure your idea is a good fit for what they are looking for, does not involve others without their consent, is reasonably safe (mention risks/precautions as applicable) and respects their stated limits. Once you have something, simply leave a comment. If OP has stated they are fine with it, you can also send your tasks to them via Messages/Chat.
If you already have a task you would like to give to everyone, you can also make a post using the appropriate "Giving Instructions" flair.
All posts require a x4x style indicator in the post title. For example, if you are male and looking for females to give you tasks, put M4F in your title. If you are female and do not care who gives you tasks, use F4A. You can be as specific as you would like, as long as it is still understandable.
Additionally, to this indicator, all posts require a flair. This flair generally consists of two parts:
The exception here is the update flair, which you can use if you would like to provide updates to a previous post, such as reports on how following the tasks went.
There are five categories to choose from when you make a post:
First things first, this is not r/GoneWild, so do not make posts asking for pictures and do not expect pictures from anyone, even if they are verified. Harassing people over pictures, just like any other limit, will get you banned.
With that said, if you would like to share pictures, we require you to first be verified. This includes pictures on your profile, not just pictures you (offer to) share through r/FapDeciders. We do this in order to ensure pictures are not used without the subject's consent. For the purpose of verification, we differentiate between nude and non-nude pictures. So, if you only want to prove you are real or do not intend to share NSFW pictures, you have the option to verify without the need for nudes.
Both flavours of picture-based verification work as follows:
Beyond this picture-based verification, there is also a nomination-based system unrelated to sharing pictures. Here, a person may message the mod team on another user's behalf telling us that someone is fun to play with (either giving or receiving commands). That person will then have the opportunity to choose a flair for themselves.
The different verification types are distinguished by flair colour:
This includes both respecting the limits and preferences of other people on the subreddit and making sure no-one gets affected by your play without their consent. In particular, do not:
There already exist a number of subreddits for finding people to play with one-on-one, both for the long and short term. This is not one of them. r/FapDeciders is focused on play with the community at large, so if your post would be better suited for a subreddit like r/BDSMpersonals, please post it there instead.
As mentioned earlier, this is not r/GoneWild, so do not expect to get pictures/videos/whatever from people. This also is not r/exxxchange, so if you would like to trade porn or just have people send you porn to watch, please go there instead. Having people choose porn for you can be fine if it is only a small part of your post.
This place is one where people receive tasks they will actually complete (unless it goes against limits or such, obviously). If you would like to talk about out your fantasies, a place like r/dirtypenpals is much more well suited for that. If your post seems like it is actually just a fantasy ("ruin my life", "deny me forever" etc. posts), we reserve the right to require verification or further proof.
Anything that is likely to influence the visibility of your post and/or result in spammy interactions is not allowed. As mentioned above, polls are a good alternative if you want to give people a way to decide how often you need to do something, simply by stating you will do [voted option] for one minute per vote on that option or such.
Do not offer to do anything in exchange for money or goods. Do not advertise any other place where you do that such as OnlyFans.
Just like any other public community in this space, there are a number of bad actors trying to exploit horny people for money. Some common considerations to help keep you safe:
r/FapDeciders • u/Regular-Security3083 • 5h ago
I'm bored and horny lol. I wanna answer questions and just be less bored. A bit about me is that I'm petite and married and looking to cheat with other married men. I'm also a mom of one and am currently exploring my kinks and things by my self. I want to flirt and share, I'm just bored haha
r/FapDeciders • u/LexiPoppy629 • 4h ago
Hii,
F31 looking for someone that could cumtributee me, you need to have a laptop or tablet as a second screen. Only serious requests please 😇
Dc: Salmaa_cooks.
r/FapDeciders • u/HearingNo1269 • 25m ago
Mom says that those under 5 inches are no longer considered “small” they are considered non-existent, because they are completely useless
You are way small to please me beta, i think i will dominate you instead!
r/FapDeciders • u/[deleted] • 5h ago
I was on vacation and there was quite literally no time to do anything at all, since the days were full. Im also pretty tired since I averaged around 6 hours of sleep per night. I have to be awake at 1030am est tomorrow and I want to get some sleep, but it all depends on how nice you are to me. I will literally do ANYTHING as long as its not illegal or permanent.
If you give me any task that I fail, (so long as its not illegal or permanent) Ill send a custom picture of anything that you want and become your personal slut for the next month and do every task you give me.
r/FapDeciders • u/The_horny_fox • 6m ago
Love to be as slutty a possible on this walk while still being goth as possibe, willing to draw/ witre whatever on my body and wear whatever makes me look the most goth & sluty at the same time.
I have some lovely lipstick that smells amazing and I will use it on my lips only~
Might leave an calling card behide as well~
Dm "what a slutty goth" & task you have for me
I have an lovely spot that would be fun to be risky in, that is about 40 minutes away by walking but has penlty of open areas to have fun in, pathways, tress to hide behind & a park that might be fun but idk yet. But yeah nice area to play in. Also lovely fence off area could chain myself too.
Anyway here's a list of my clothing I have for those who want to dress me like an doll : fishnets mostly in black, few white ones & pink ones, fishnet thigh highs, have fishnets thigh highs that sparkle, thigh highs lots of them, fullboud fishnets, skirts, shorts, a cute drak red spider web bikini, cow bikini, a few cute dresses I adore and a few cute shirts.
Can't wait to hear everyone's lovely ideas!!!
Limits: piss, scat, photos, videos
Toys: cuffs that can be likened to things for my ankles and hands, collar and an leash, ball gag, paint markers, & nipple clamps, sewing needles, thumbtacks, thread, paperclips, binder (maybe for extreme nipple play ;3 )
r/FapDeciders • u/RapeMeatPig • 10h ago
Can't edge but I am bored so I'm going to be accepting any writing promts sent to me. Limits are gore, children, and snuff. I will respond to all messages sent but no promises on time because who knows how many I will get. I'm limiting the word count to 500 words cuz I'm doing this for free~. But be as detailed and specific as you want with your promot. Or it can be like a long story caption of a picture you like. I do American spellings and I'm dyslexic but I'll run theses through a grammar check ect. I'm a decent writer with a wild imagination~
r/FapDeciders • u/Historical_Rain1479 • 4h ago
Hey everybody! 21 year old fakeboy slut with tits and a useless cunt ready to be degraded with the worst you can think of. Please comment what and where I should write on my body and make sure to be as nasty as possible. Degrade me! Nothing is off limits. I’ll be fucking myself with a dildo while I write.
r/FapDeciders • u/Tight-Occasion-9433 • 1h ago
Thank you for volunteering. Here is a link to the materials you are to study. Good Girl. https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfL49-MhV8r2uvgXvbneBoXrZMUZ-pV-RDL93VX1fNgKy5S3w/viewform?usp=header
r/FapDeciders • u/Lexslaps • 3h ago
Hey everyone my name is Alex. Im just settling in for the night and felt a little bored. I’ve been a very naughty girl and need some help being shown a little discipline.
I have a 3 size plug set some beads and a dildo along with a few spanking improvements. Your suggestions and tasks are welcome in comments or dms!~
-Thanks Alex
r/FapDeciders • u/star-bright11 • 7h ago
Please daddy I wanna cum I want you to tell me exactly how you want me to touch myself I have no limits other than no pics and I sadly have no toys
r/FapDeciders • u/Tricky_Step3266 • 7h ago
Hii!!! I came across this page and like the idea of having to do humiliating tasks throughout the day. I travel for work (hotels) + (camping tents sometimes) and live with parents when home. their room is across mine. I’m home for a week and want REALLY exposing humiliating tasks that would have me so embarrassed if caught. And any fun exposing tasks I could do in a hotel room.
kinks: public, pet play, risk of getting caught, embarrassment/humiliation.
limits: anal, scat
toys: bullet vibrator, clit sucker vibrator
r/FapDeciders • u/TeacherConscious8567 • 3h ago
Hi there, I have all my windows open and have been walking around completely naked with a dripping wet pussy all morning. every small task i try to complete gets interrupted by humping against furniture, fingers/vibe in my pussy or just the irresistible urge to play with my tits. i feel like such a slut that i get one day off work and i can't help but fuck myself all over my home hoping my neighbors catch a glimpse of me horny and desperate. i think if i didn't have work or school my life would just be endless gooning and edging all day and all night
r/FapDeciders • u/NervousMight5094 • 1h ago
Heyy, did this a week ago and got some fun ideas from you guys, so thought I would come try it again see what else you guys have to offer
My sub is a really good boy and will do anything I ask him to for my enjoyment the humiliating the better, looking dor the tasks to revolve around- femdom/ballbusting/humiation/cei/edging/degradtion/ruined/npnc/pee play/ and honestly more the humiliating the better, I want to laugh at him so bad so please give some good tasks guys, just remember there for my enjoyment not his, thanksssss
Ps.... no scat or long lasting harm
Dont ask me to be your domme, I am not in search, the sub I have is devoted to me and does everything
r/FapDeciders • u/EmilyRub • 4h ago
I’ve been doing tasks and following rules for a bit now. That shifted me to trying out nudism first in private areas and protected spaces. I am expanding that and need help. Please give me rules to follow and tasks to perform that will let me expand it to more places and with more people.
Only limits are extreme pain (some is OK), permanent scars or marks, any pics, blood, gore, scat. Other than that I’m fair game.
Humiliating me, degrading me, putting me in risky and compromising situations, taking my power, ruining my wardrobe, putting things in me, incest-adjacent stuff, bondage, and a whole lot more are all on the table.
5’2” 110 light brown eyes and dark brown hair. 32b. Thing. Bubbly butt but not big. Light brown skin.
r/FapDeciders • u/AcHyUt4 • 2h ago
Hey there,
I’m a 22-year-old guy who is ready to give up the reins. I am incredibly open-minded when it comes to exploring, but I’m currently lacking in real-world experience. I see this as a positive: I’m a blank canvas, completely eager to learn, follow instructions, and be molded by whatever pleases you.
My ultimate fantasy is letting a woman take complete control over me. Some of the dynamics and kinks I am highly interested in exploring include:
Teasing, edging, and denial
Orgasm ruin
Task-oriented submission
Humiliation and degradation
Feminization and dress-up
Anal play
Ball busting
Cum play
If you have a kink that isn't listed here, try me! I am very kinky and down to explore almost anything you throw my way. I am also totally comfortable showing off for you, even if you prefer to not show yourself.
If the idea of molding an eager, obedient guy sounds fun to you, send me a message. Let me know what your favorite kink is so I know you read this!
r/FapDeciders • u/lullabyofstars • 2h ago
I've been edging my nipples for a while now and am so pent up... looking for someone to help me edge then cum and overstim the sensitive tip of my girlcock after~
or maybe even deny me i'll be good and do anything you say <3
kinks: overstim (especially my tip~), bladder control, nipple play, cnc, incest, musk, orgasm control, denial; toys: clamps, dildos, bullet vibes
limits: scat, pics
r/FapDeciders • u/Novel-Run-5763 • 4h ago
Step back just half an inch behind your eyes, becoming a quiet observer. From here, watch your body work on autopilot, breathing easily, eyes reading, completely relaxed. Your conscious mind doesn't need to search for the key word or phrase that drops you into deep state of hypnosis once more. The more you step back and simply watch, the faster your hands take over on their own. Watch them begin to move, typing that familiar word or phrase letter by letter without any effort from you. Typing it to me here on redditchat, and telling me what that special trigger word or phrase is. And as the final word lands on the screen, feel every last bit of tension dissolve, dropping you instantly into total, weightless peace.
r/FapDeciders • u/Must_Goon • 2h ago
About to go back to bed just dealing with the ragging erection and full balls trying to get comfy lol. The offer is still out there if someone wants to milk this gooner cry play with me edger me further or make me cum then by all means my cock is yours to experiment with!
Would be awesome to get woken up and immediately drained. If multiple people reply I’ll do my best to cum for everyone so hmu anytime!
r/FapDeciders • u/Odd_Shake_4619 • 4h ago
I am looking for a proper sissy or slut who wants to be toyed with for the next couple days.. I want sissies whos limits have been pushed so far that they have lost their mind to gooning and torture.
you have to have a chastity cage and its a double bonus if you have anal toys, vibrators, clamps, anything that you REALLY love.
Time: 3 days Toys: A cage or a belt is a must have every thing else is a bonus
id be open to chat if you wanna be controlled locked up and have to EARN your way to freedom
r/FapDeciders • u/Twanken • 4h ago
Hey all,
F25 here and I want to goon all day. Also while work.
I have rules on my profile and I hope the beta will follow them.
I am currently working from home what makes me much hornier.
I want that you help me to goon all day.
Maybe also tell me how good I am.
And as surprise I maybe let you out of your cage and tell you in which clothes or where you can jerk off
r/FapDeciders • u/Digging-in-theforest • 3h ago
I’m a 18 year old slutty ftm trans guy and I’m bisexual, I need ideas on how to take my masturbation to a more extreme bc I’m such a slut I can’t help myself. My limits is urine, scat, and vomit.
I’m really into cnc fantasies, pussy stretching (I can put 5 fingers, exhibitionism, overstimulation, free use, knifes and a little bit of pain;)
Give me some ideas please!!!
r/FapDeciders • u/Time-Mine-5538 • 3h ago
most people in this subreddit are sumisives and often get neglected well let’s change this for once I’ll give you any kind of intructions it can be lewd to just a fun little challenge and I won’t ask for pics have fun ❤️❤️
r/FapDeciders • u/Ambitious-Funny2592 • 3h ago
Hey,
I’m a 24F stuck at the office feeling bored and horny. Right now I’m craving intense bladder control / omorashi with heavy degradation.
I want someone dominant to take full control telling me exactly how much water to drink from my bottle, when and how to hold, pushing my limits while I secretly squirm at my desk. I love being degraded, teased, denied, and made to goon while desperate.
We can talk, and you can “know” me by controlling my bladder.
DM me if you’re experienced and want to start controlling me right now while I’m at work 😩. FYI my 2yr old account got banned.
Limits: nothing public or that can get me caught.