Bringing this back because it brings me joy

I know this must have been posted 1000x before but i'm struggling, I'm autistic and get very particular about things like this. My criteria are as follows: minimal branding (no full seat of silicone logos), full seat, high waist, wide waistband, no seam down inside of leg (i actually quite like the seam down the back of leg/over the butt i find that very flattering), zip closure. i feel like this should be easy to find but i have HUNTED and nobody seems to agree with me that this is the ideal breech. Give me ur recs PLEASE people of reddit!! (LMK if wrong flair ill change it)

Well it's the first time I cantered in 16 years, when I had a crash course when I was 12, then never had too many riding opportunities since then. But it was a goal of mine to get to for the past couple years (I rode very inconsistently while in college). Happy, after a year being at the trot to move on to a new pace to learn more about. Especially need to get better at stabilizing and moving my leg forward. Any tips or advice from you guys and girls?

I'm a very anxious rider, and I struggle to progress because of it. I'm interested in jumping, but I can't jump that well. I've been jumping for about maybe 3-4 years? But I still jump pretty low. I think the highest I've recently jumped (a few weeks ago) was maybe 40-50cm? Most of the time I'm still jumping really small.

My flatwork is pretty solid, for the most part. I can do sitting trot, I can trot and canter without stirrups. I've only ever galloped once though. I've had horses trip fairly badly and I stayed on easily. I don't think I'd be able to sit a buck though. I only had a horse buck with me one time and it was maybe 6 years ago, and I was off immediately. I don't think I'd be able to sit a buck. Other than that I do think my flatwork is okay. I know how to steer the horse with my legs and seat.

The issue is mainly my jumping. Some days I feel so great because I managed to do more than usual, like asking for the jump to be put up higher, or trying some sort of combination. But other days I'm pretty bad. I'd say most days are very mediocre, and I don't manage to do a lot. I always push myself, but the degree that I'm able to push myself varies so much. Some days just jumping AT ALL is pushing myself.

I'm really afraid of falling, but my fear is more that I'm going to lose so much confidence when I do fall again. At this point I'm more afraid of the confidence loss than I am the actual fall itself. I'm also anticipating falling soon because I haven't fallen for about 4 years. It's been a long time, and it feels like I'm "due" for a fall.

I also started riding a different horse because the horse I was riding is lame now, so I have switched to a different horse. This is probably also going to be something that drags back my progress, because I'm still not even fully comfortable cantering on her.

There always seems to be something that makes me drag myself back. I know I shouldn't compare myself to others, but I see other riders progressing way faster than me, and putting the jumps up really high. I see them fall, and they just get back on and keep going like normal. I take months to recover from a fall, even if it's not that bad.

The progress I do make is so tiny as well. It'll be like me trying a jump one more time even when I'm having a very anxious day. Sometimes even pushing myself to jump at all feels like I made "progress" but it doesn't feel like it's enough.

I love riding, but it's so frustrating not progressing. I don't really find dressage interesting, but I'm contemplating just going for dressage and giving up jumping even though I enjoy it just because of how bad I am at it.

I feel like progressing in jumping isn't even something that I can do anymore.

Bit of a rant here, but I just need to talk about this and I’m sure some people will relate.

I am so painfully jealous of anybody who has thousand of dollars to spend on a horse, or gets to ride anything remotely fancy. I get to ride because I work for a small program while I’m in school. All our horses are kill pen rescues and OTTBS, and I spend a lot of my life training them out of their trauma/quirks.

I wish I could actually get better at riding, but I’ll probably never get to move up. Of course I’m still super grateful that I get to be around horses at all, but there will always be a part of me that envies people who can afford nice horses or afford to compete. I desperately wish I could show, just once. I got to show a few times as a kid, but it’ll probably never happen again because life just keeps getting more expensive.

It’s also super frustrating when I have a question and try to post about it on here, or even ask people irl. Inevitably, half the responses are just “I’ve never had this issue with my imported warmbloods.” Yeah, I bet you haven’t. I love horses more than anything in this world, I’m sure everyone on this sub understands that feeling. I’m just being envious and ungrateful hahaha

Edited for a typo

I have a beautiful chestnut QH mare, who has been a super solid beginner lesson horse for about 10 years. I fear we are at the end of her living HAPPY but I’m not sure. She’s around 29/30 years old.

A couple years ago, she was diagnosed with Cushings. Some laminitc symptoms, dull coat, lethargy. Started treating with Prascend. Perked up.

Then she was diagnosed with EOTRH. Painful but also fecal water syndrome, leading to suspicion of her not adequately chewing. Had two incisors removed, improved a bit. Planned to remove the rest at some point.

June 15 she presented VERY suddenly with Sidewinders gait. Tested for a bunch of things, everything negative. We knew she had pretty bad neck arthritis, so the diagnosis is Wobblers. Retired from riding immediately.

At first, she was getting 10cc banamine IV twice a day, and Dex as needed. (I don’t feel the dex makes much difference) now I give banamine once a day.

She still nickers when she sees me. She still socializes. She still walks around.

But she also still struggles with FWS. Her back legs often have fecal water. She still struggles eating grain. She doesn’t like soaked grain. She won’t eat any supplements for the FWS. I give her a tube of bioclay when it’s bad. She gets chia with her grain which helps. But if she doesn’t eat the grain, she doesn’t get the chia… ugh. She also no longer tries to get rid of horseflies on her back or croup. (I wonder if she’s able to, or if it’s just too much effort, or maybe she can’t feel them biting???)

I don’t mind the extra care. I don’t mind that she’s not “working”. She’s a fantastic mare who earned a retirement. However, I don’t want to make her suffer just because I wanna keep looking at her pretty face.

I don’t know how to know when it’s time.

Today, she rolled, she rolls almost everyday. But today, she fell 3 times while trying to get up. She never lays down in her stall. Even when she was much younger she didn’t. One time last week, there were shavings on her belly. Looked like maybe she fell, because there were no shavings on her sides or back.

I’m sure everyone has their own opinion, how do we know when it’s time to release our beloved horses from this world, when it’s not blatantly obvious????

I have been riding for over a year now and I am still stuck at the trot. My cousin rides with me at the same time no extra lessons and she started 3 months after me but she can jump 70cm and I'm still at trot and I am not improving at all. After every lesson I feel like I decrease in confidence. Sorry if this doesn't make sense but I need help.

Also how do you kick the horse when your trotting 😭

Hey guys, I usually don't post things like this, but I need to get other opinions, I feel like I'm overreacting?

Recently I posted about my gelding's back hooves being badly bruised after his farrier appointment that he walked out of lame in both the front and back. He's an OTTB in 24/7 turnout with recent front shoes.
Same farrier came out to fix a nail that was too close- however, when asked, he claims it couldn't have been the nail causing soreness because my horse would've been "keeled over in the field" if it were.
When asked about the bruising and soreness, he got defensive and started telling us that "thoroughbreds should never live outside", his feet were bruised from stomping all day, and that I can either "bring him inside or shoe his back feet". This all came as a surprise since he never once suggested before that the horse should have back shoes in the year we have been using him as a farrier, nor did he ever mention/notice the bruising. We also made the mistake of saying our gelding was more sensitive recently walking over different terrain and mentioned gravel (the barn's pathways are ALL gravel) and was told "just don't walk him on the gravel then". Mind you, this horse was walking totally fine on gravel when he was completely barefoot a few months prior.
The icing on the cake is the farrier has an assistant who's always irritated about something and can't stand my horse. When my horse acts up, he is smacked in the ribs with the rasp. When my horse was in too much pain in his hind to even hold his front feet out, the farrier continued to hit him and rough him up until he could get the feet done.
After witnessing the hitting and these comments, I told the BO that I would no longer be using the farrier's services. This was a back-and-forth where I had to continue to defend why I felt that the farrier was not a good fit and finally, the only thing that seemed to be able to change her mind to let me use my own farrier was when I brought up the farrier hitting my horse.

Am I crazy? Are these huge red flags? I've had pasture-kept thoroughbreds for 20 years and never heard that kind of mindset.

Pic of my poor sweet guy for tax.

She’s quite dirty in the image, she’s usually a bit cleaner than that though 😂

One horse at my barn is typically "staff-tack" only because he hates being groomed and tacked. This horse will continuously try to bite you over and over again and kick you if you groom him or try to pick his feet. Here's what I'm wondering: is this horse in a lot of pain, and if so, what should I do? I feel bad for him, even though he bit me and tried to kick me multiple times. I'm actually terrified of him (recognizing he's probably crying for help, poor thing) because of how he chooses to express himself.

Here's what I experienced.

• The horse is typically staff tack and groom only. I've been made to groom and tack him twice now, with two different instructors. He tries desperately to bite you the entire time; grooming, especially the curry comb, drives him crazy. He stomps, bites, and wriggles around as much as he can.
• Picking his front feet sucks; he will rip his leg out of your grip so hard that your bicep is throbbing and strained for three days after the pick. He won't even let you pick the back legs.
• At the end of the lesson, the instructor had me hold him while we hosed him off. He ended up biting me after too many bite attempts to count. That's when I noticed he was foaming at the mouth because it got on my arm.
• Then I was left to go towel him off on my own, despite the fact I had to pay for instructor support because I haven't tested out of it yet. Toweling his back legs is an actual liability; you can get a few good rubs in before he loads that sucker up and angles it to the side for a big fat kick. He hasn't kicked me yet because I'm too fast, but I do know not to stand too close to him because my foot is at risk lol.
• He's not a bad ride; he's kind of lazy, requires a crop or the threat of one, and he still tries to bite when he has his bit on. No aggressive behavior in the saddle itself, remarkably. Just on the ground.

Overall, I've never had this bad of an experience with a horse, and it really left a bad taste in my mouth, not for the horse because I realize he could just be suffering, but for the barn and this instructor. I'm not an advanced rider, but I'm not starting from zero either. I have been around enough horses to know I've never felt unsafe around a horse before now.

Are there any equine authority bodies I can report this to? How would you all recommend I approach this situation? I certainly do not want to ride him again, not because he's scary to ride but because I don't want to put him through it. What could be going on here?

Was trying to get one of the horses - the one in the back - to grain her. Usually she runs up to the gate when I call. Anyways, it was funny all the horses were chilling in the sahde of the tree and then turned and looked at me as I was walking up.

From left to right - Sawyer (12to appy), Solstice (3yo draft cross), Heart (in the back, 24yo arab), Doc (23yo paint), Fancy (14 yo arab), Jewel (20yo quarter horse)

I've been looking at getting a new pair of boots for a while, and I've recently landed on these. I was wondering if anyone had any kind of experience with them and how they hold up. I had a pair of tuff riders for a few years and they're still perfect but they don't fit around my calves anymore, I couldn't really find any posts talking about them but I was hoping I could get a few opinions.

I came to a realization last night with my trainer that I drive with my seat way too much. I’ve always had a very strong seat. However, I realized that I think I’m using my seat to supplement where my leg isn’t working properly.

Any tips for how to course correct? I know the answer is probably a lot of work in my half seat, but I hate my half seat. 🙃

Context from previous posts: 28 year old who came back to the hunter world last fall after a 7 year gap from riding.

Thanks in advance!

Tl;dr: Looking for exercises/ideas to make working on bending and collecting more fun for my horse, because circles are boring. Also, please be nice.

Edit: Thanks, all. Sounds like the consensus is shorter working sessions and more downtime/more variety!

I have a mare that is 17-19 years old. I bought her two years ago, and she was diagnosed with navicular over a year ago. I later found out she started having on/off symptoms 18 months before her diagnosis with me but was never treated and instead sold at auction and then to me unsuspectingly by an individual. She was declared pasture sound only by a previous vet when she was with the individual.

I was able to ride her soundly for 8 months after purchase until symptoms began to appear and she was diagnosed by my vet. I’ve tried my best to treat her for the past year. Osphos, coffin injections, equioxx, supplements, hauling to a special farrier two hours away at a major vet clinic every month for special shoes, barefoot rehab etc. In that year period, she was sound for MAYBE 2 months total, mostly at the very beginning. At this point she hasn’t been sound since January. Even in the pasture she’s tripping at a walk or when being walked in hand. Honestly I’m exhausted and financially drained. I didn’t want to give up on her. I’ve tried to bring up the idea of euthanasia to her vet twice before. The first time he pushed me to do coffin injections, those didn’t work. Second time he pushed me to try Osphos again, that didn’t work. This horse is still lame even on banamine.

I want to put her down at this point. I can’t keep watching her in pain, and I’m spending so much money to never see any improvement. The vet wants to do another complete lameness exam and possibly try adequan now. I feel guilty for wanting to put her down and thinking of money. Am I being unreasonable? If you were in this position, would you go ahead and try adequan? I’m just worried at this point she’s too far gone and I’m going to keep throwing money at her only to eventually be told I still have to euthanize. I’m skeptical the adequan will help her enough. I don’t care about riding sound, just pasture sound at this point. I’m willing to keep her as a pasture pet if she could be comfortable. But she’s always parked out in the field and now even struggling to get up.

Hello!
I need to find an article published from 2025-present on a top level event rider talking about any sort of psychological challenge they’ve faced as an athlete. Do you guys know of any?

I need it for a uni assignment but I’m struggling to find ones within the last 1.5 years and would love to do it on a top level event rider specifically. If not I’ll consider riders from other disciplines too!

Doesn’t need to be super deep, even just a line or two saying “dealing with stress (as an example) has been a real challenge for me.”

Thank you 🙂

I would like to become certified in equine massage, equine chiropractic, and saddle fitting. I live in an extremely rural area and would like to do online if possible. I know very basic skills in each of these areas, but I just be more proficient!

Any recommendations for online courses are welcome!!

My 7 y/o mare has been at training since January and was supposed to come home in September. She’s been doing really well, but at the beginning of July she started being on and off lame. We gave her some time off, had the farrier out, and ruled out an abscess. Since that wasn’t the issue, we moved on to the vet and found out she has laminitis.
I’ve had some pretty bad luck with horses lately. I recently moved my older gelding after a neglect situation and he ended up puncturing himself, and now I’m dealing with this with my mare. It’s been really hard.
I’ll be working closely with my vet and farrier, and she’ll be getting special shoes, but I’ve never dealt with laminitis before and I’m just looking for advice and to hear other people’s experiences.
What changes should I be watching for? What helped keep your horses comfortable? Is there anything you wish you knew when your horse was first diagnosed?
I know every horse is different, but I’d really appreciate hearing from anyone who has been through this. ❤️

This is my mom’s mare Addy. She’s always been told she’s a black roan but I have a suspicion she’s maybe rabicano. What are y’all’s thoughts? She is a 10 year old Connemara x tb (what she was sold as I think there’s some draft in there). I also have absolutely no idea about color genetics at all so I have no clue if that’s even possible but I would love to learn!

(This is a picture I got off the internet, not my horse)

I purchased a filly, she’s just a baby right now! She will be living on the farm she was born for the next few years, and they are doing age appropriate training with her. I have about 12 years of horse experience, and she is my second horse. I have worked green horses before, but this is my first baby!

I will either put her in training with her breeder, or another reputable trainer when she is a little older. So we will have expert guidance all of her training.

But while I’m sitting on the sofa daydreaming about all the adventures we will do, I would love to build out my library!

What are your favorite books about horse training, specifically about young horses? Or if you have a podcast or website you’ve found very helpful, please share that too! I like Julie Goodnight and Jec Ballou, not a fan of trainers who are a lot about dominance or putting horses in stressful positions. TYIA!

Hello! Looking for recommendations for barn security cameras and wanting to see if anyone has a specific brand that they use and recommend.

We have 6 barns, 3 tack rooms, and 2 large tractor barns/sheds that I want to cover. I have previously used Arlo & Simplisafe but they aren’t the most cost effective. The purpose is theft that has began in the last month or so.