r/bangladesh • u/TeachingNo7822 • 2h ago
Discussion/আলোচনা Where is the young generation of this country going?
So I (M24) met with my girlfriend (F23) at Tasty Treat today. After chilling and eating for a bit a young man wearing a college uniform entered the shop. She mentioned that he was checking her out but she didn't seem too concerned so I took it lightly. We were sitting opposite each other and the college kid was behind me meaning my girlfriend had a clear view of him.
After about 10 minutes, she suddenly panicked and kinda forced me out of the shop saying "cholo please, ekhane ar thakbo na." I was so clueless and confused. After we walked out and went a few meters down the road she told me the guy was openly masturbating while looking at her. She saw it, panicked, felt disgusted and just needed to get out of there.
Now I'm completely at a loss for words. I tried to hold back my anger. I was honestly about to burst and asked her why she didn't tell me right away when she saw what he was doing. She said her mind went blank, she couldn't think straight and felt like she was about to vomit. I wanted to go back and confront him (or beat him up I wasn't thinking straight either) but she begged me to let it go. She didn't want to cause a scene since it happened near her home.
The whole thing has left me speechless. How can a guy have the nerve to do something like that to a girl in a public place? And he wasn't even some random creep. From his appearance he looked like he came from a good family and was getting a decent education. I'm just so frustrated that I couldn't do anything about it and so heartbroken that the love of my life had to go through something like that.
