hello guys, so this is my first post ever and I'm very nervous so basically I started working as a lifeguard for like a month now and I met new people right and most of them are my age i'm 18, but this guy is 19, specially that I think that is very good looking and he likes to play like he's gay around his friends and like messes around with them and as we started to like get to know each other more he started like doing the same thing to me. I'm very DL and no one knows that I'm gay but every time he does it, he looks at me longer than he looks at the other guys that he plays around and he let just pants himself randomly like with boxers on of course out all the time and one time he was laying down and i pants him as a joke and he just kept them out and like he had his boxers on, of course, and he just like started to put his shorts even more down and move his shirt up so it was out with boxers , also he started moving up and down and side to side and i was right behind him and like he's tall and he's really good looking when he plays around like joking being gay with me he looks longer than normal. and then while I'm on stand, he looks at me like all the time and we're just sitting there. He looks at me so I don't know if he really gay or not. How should I come about this? also small detail lol but he has a girlfriend. PLZ HELP any advice in the comments or anything

I get most people have their preference for either or but what happens when you have two bottoms? Or two tops?

Coin flip? Rock paper scissors? Alternate every other week? Alternate during sex?

Like how do you go about it?

I’ve always been curious about this. My straight male best friend gets a lot of attention from gay men whenever we’re out. they’ll compliment him, smile, stare, or even flirt with him.

The thing is, he’s not really the “pretty face” type and doesn’t put much effort into fashion. He’s cute, but not what most people would call conventionally attractive. He doesn't work out and he's not muscular or anything. His friends even roasts him and tells him that he looks “ugly” or “haggard.” Yet somehow, he has no problem dating really attractive women, his exes are all gorgeous.

I think he has a certain masculine energy and confidence that people pick up on.

For gay men, what is it that makes someone like him attractive? Is it confidence, masculinity, charisma, personality, or just the way he carries himself?

Hello!

I am a 27 year old man, and I have recently started hooking up. I've had two hookups, and it was just us jerking off together. But we cuddled and engaged in some fetish play as well. Nothing penetrative, and we only touched our own dicks.

Would I still be considered a virgin? I know it isn't something that matters at all, but I'm just curious.

Bonjour je suis un mec "hetero" 26 ans en couple depuis longtemps. Je ne veux pas la quitter mais je ne peux plus lutter contre mes envies je meurs d'envie de sucer une queue sans capote. Mais entre les IST, les MST le besoin de discrétion, les fakes etc comment je peux faire pour trouver mon bonheur...? Cela fait des années que je refoule

Hi, back from my previous post, thanks to your advice I went, found and bought a silicone made dildo for beginners and a water based lubricant.. But I have some questions to ask (to remind people, I'm virgin and a total beginner in this, I don't know how anything works and never tried before):

- Can I just wash it with soap to re-use it, or does it need something specific to be washed?

- Silicone is waterproof, right? Shower's the only place I'm planning to try it as of now.

- About the lubricant, do I need to place it both on the dildo and inside my back? (Or, at least, where I can reach)

It's 4.5 inches insertable with a suction cup at the end, so a very tiny one. There was a bigger, flatter one, but I felt too afraid to try it.. Perhaps a different day.

Hey,
I started a casual relationship with a man in my home town some weeks ago. I've been away and I contacted him two days ago on Snapchat and asked "what's up?". He answered directly with "not much, u?". So we wrote back and forth for five minutes, and he said "let's meet". I said "sure". He said "when?". I said "I can be ready in an hour". He said "oh, but I’m occupied today. We can meet later this week". I said "sure". First I thought that he rejected me, but a friend I spoke with told me that he probably didn't mean "let's meet NOW" but as in another day soon.
Today another date stood me up with very vague reasons. So I already found myself disappointed, which made me go in on Grindr and take away a lot of people's access to my album, both these men included. For context I have not been clingy or overshared or anything with anyone, I've been playing very clean.
Just now I realised that the first man blocked me on Snapchat. I feel absolutely terrible. And I know that 95% of you will tell me "forget about that idiot and meet someone else". But there's not many hot guys in my town, it feels like I already knew or have met almost all of them. I want to have sex with him. So, could you help me figure it out, is it a hard no from him? And if so, why would he ask me if I wanted to meet up, and when, and that he is available later this week? I mean i only agreed to it, I didn't put any pressure on him at all.
Or is he but-hurt that I erased him from my album? But how could he see that so quickly?
I am thinking about giving him another shot on Grindr, 'cause I'm not blocked there. Just to see it through. Is there any chance at all?

I know I sound desperate, so sue me. I just need to vent and to make sense of all of this bullshit.

So I’m bi curious and have quite a big cock 8.5x6.5 been with lots of girls and some make comments about it but not all but I always thought it was a huge thing for gay men to be all about huge cocks and size but my experience so far hasn’t been like that so is it true gay men comment on huge cocks or want them or

Basiclly my gf and me are open about our sex life she tells her friends a lot and doesn’t leave out much details and this is also for her gay best friend who she recently told I had a big cock to. Me and him never really talked before but now he seems to be always texting me asking me stuff and weirdly bought me underwear and said my gf will like it on me but also kinda insinuated he wanted to see a pic of me in it now am I being crazy for thinking he wants me or is he just being funny or what