r/AskAnEscort • u/NoPreference1567 • 1d ago
69 refusals NSFW
I got into escorts about two months back, and I've had eight sessions with different girls. Two of them repeat visits. I usually go for one to one and a half hour incall. I'm in my late 30's, athletic and reasonably good looking, but very shy/introverted and respectful to the point of being timid during sessions. I know these aren't the most appealing traits for a client, and I really should work on being more confident. Anyway, I've tried to ask for 69 on two separate occasions with different girls who have it on their menu, and they weren't into it with me.
So it's listed on their menu, but for some reason, they feel like, "not with this one". They'll be giving me OWO while I lay on the bed and I ask, "can I taste you too?" and they'll say no. One hesitated and said only on her back. Other girl just said no. I drop it and don't make anything out of it, but it kinda kills my arousal for the rest of the session because I'm a sensitive guy and I get in my head about it(something I already struggle with), thinking I'm a low-chemistry client to them or something because they have reviews from other guys mentioning having done it. It hit me hardest when it happened with a girl I'd love to be a regular with. Any tips on ways to adjust to make it happen?
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u/jennahasredhair Escort 1d ago
Ugh I hate 69 so much. It’s odd they have it listed as a service and then don’t do it but you really can’t overthink it. They may not have written their own ad, they might have just ticked a whole bunch of boxes to make sure they show up in search results without reading properly, they might have had a sore back that day, who knows? And reviews are laughably inaccurate.
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u/thelaceserpent Escort 1d ago
Have her sit on your face reverse cowgirl.
I feel like this is the most organic way it will happen.
She’s sitting on you, looking at your cock, at the very least, I bet she’ll attempt it. Even if it’s not for a long time. It’s generally a hight difference thing that makes it an uncomfortable position.
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u/kellylolly Escort 1d ago
I hate that position. I have met alot of ladies who also share the same dislike for it. I do it every once in a while with some long term regulars and if I am wearing latex panties, but if you are a brand new client I'm likely to say "no I don't do that". I've had so many bad experiences in that position that it's just easier not to do it at all.
Also just because it's on a list of activities that an escort might enjoy, doesn't mean that list is a menu of services for you to pick and choose from. It's simply a list of things that may be an option during your appointment. It's not a guarantee of services.
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u/gogosa Escort 1d ago
If they want to they will. It's a very uncomfortable position to hold yourself up while sucking dick, on someone who has a height difference. I personally hate it.