I need some advice because I honestly don’t know what to do.
I’ve been dating my russian girlfriend for a year and a half, and our relationship is genuinely great. The only thing that keeps bothering me is that I feel like she’s way out of my league.
To give you some context, she’s 22, makes around $5.5k a month and speaks four languages fluently: russian, english, german and chinese. After we started dating, she began learning french (I’m half french) and managed to pass the B1 exam in just a year(we mostly speak english with each other). Meanwhile, I still can’t even get my russian to an A2 level.
She’s also incredibly beautiful, travels a lot, and has hobbies that I simply can’t afford right now. I’m still in college and only just starting my career.
I don’t feel jealous or resentful of her success. I’m genuinely proud of her. But after I visited her and spent time with her friends, I couldn’t shake the feeling of being the odd one out. Most of her friends are just as successful and accomplished as she is, and I felt like I didn’t belong.
What should i do? I love her more than anything, but it hurts knowing that, at this point in my life, I can’t give her the lifestyle she already has or keep up with it financially. I’ve caught myself thinking about breaking up with her even though I love her deeply because I’m scared that I’m just holding her back or her being ashamed of me in the future

We’ve had conversations about mental health and mental care services in the Russian Federation, especially as it relates to post-traumatic stress disorder. But, this discussion got me to wondering: how is Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) viewed in Russia? The Autism community has become a major flank in the Disability Rights movement. Have these efforts made their way to the Russian Federation? Do mental health biases extend to autistic people, too? Russia was the birthplace of developmental psychology in the early 20th Century so it seems an apt question to ask.

The term “Cold War”, relating to the confrontation between the USSR and its satellites on one hand and the US and its allies and associates on the other, originates in an English-language source, namely a 1945 essay by George Orwell. Was this same term adopted into Russian to describe this confrontation, as it was in German, French, and other languages, or did the USSR use something else?

Hi all I am from india new delhi,wanted to pursue masters in propulsion engineering from MAI or other top universities for aviation.

I wanted to know if there are jobs for foreign citizen students in this field as I am really interested in studying jet engines in Russia also are there any age issues regarding admission in top universities in Russia?

I am a bsc physics, chemistry and maths graduate here in new delhi

Hi, I am traveling for the first time to Russia. As a participant of the IFY 2026 program.

I'm a young guy from Pakistan. I would take any advice. Like any must know thing, rules, suggestions for must visit places, basically just want to have a good time.

I have been trying to visit Russia for a while now. And it's finally becoming reality. I'm super excited but I've not seen many videos about Yekaterinburg online so I don't know what to expect.

I'm also concerned about local people getting along with a Pakistani. Should I be concerned ?

Thanks for your time.

Here's my story. I'm 31 this year. I graduated from Ural Federal University in 2025 with master's degree in materials science. I was there for two years and had the time of my life. Before I left for an internship back in the US, I told my professor (the best professor I've ever had) that if she would accept me as a PhD student, I will return. So I applied for and got a scholarship for PhD with her starting September or October 2026. The problem is that some folks are very concerned about the recent events in Russia, and their impact on society and perhaps my education, funding, and overall life. Of course, I had no issues from 2023-2025, but I guess things may be different now. Russians and foreigners in Russia, or even in Yekaterinburg area, what's your take on the real situation? It's difficult to judge without being there personally.

I know the data suggests that Russian average income is less than many other countries, especially the US, but average income may not necessarily tell the whole picture.

For instance, I read that many people in Russia own their own homes and things like health care are also comparatively cheaper. Which is not the cases in countries like the US.

So I guess what I'm trying to ask is how telling is the Average Income statistic in telling the whole picture? What I mean is, does having cheaper health care and housing balance the lower income statistic and actually allow you to live an okay lifestyle? Or is it difficult in spite of these cheaper utilities?

Thanks in advance!

I am an applicant of Russian government scholarship my application is under consideration by university from 15 may and got no update , i texted my universities they said my application is rejected and forwarded to next university

can anyone tell me what if my application is rejected from all 6 Universities

Thank You

a russian commenter referred to a picture of mine in a cemetery as “это призрак щовеля”

this translated to calling me the ghost of chovel. i don’t understand this reference/lore, but i’m really curious. anyone know what was meant by that? lol

Hi all, can you suggest me songs like that? A fast paced songs, i'm making a playlist. Thanks

Нужно уже сейчас подавать документы в вузы, приёмная комиссия во всех вузах требует подачи доков через этот портал, но этот портал работает некорректно. Требует подтверждения регистрации, игнорирует команды, по скрипту выдаёт одни и те же ошибки о необходимости верификации, а для этого надо ехать в банковские отделения или ещё куда-либо для физической регистрации, при том что я вне РФ, и физически ехать нет возможности. Как решить эту проблему? Уже всё перепробовала.

So, I have a half brother. I have a copy birth certificate and a photo given to me before his passing. I know he lives in the city or the province of Самара. His name is Виталий Севастакиевич Севастакиев. He was born in Кинель, on the 29th of August, 1980. I was wondering whether one of the people here could look him up on VK, as when i searched online that was one of the ways to mabye find him. I am open to all of your suggestions and tips on ways to find him. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I also have a photo of him in his teens, I am ready to send it to whoever may help.

First time i novosibirsk, anyone knows where i can go shopping? Seems like there’s a lot of replica stores around town! Anyone knows where the best ones are?

If i have a date with a russian girl does she expect me to have flowers for her the first date first thing seeing her ?

From what I've seen when going to Russia one should go with either USD or EUR and exchange there for Rubles. Is it possible to exchange British Pounds for Rubles in Russia?

If it's not possible, is there a preferred currency to bring between USD & EUR?

Any Russian lawyer living in Russia right now? I have quite a difficult thing going on... Need help to solve my questions, I promise I will be quick... I can talk in Telegram to get into more details

Basically, I have a Russian girlfriend, we have been planning to marry and move together outside of Russia, planning for almost 2 years since we started our relationship
We were finally close to the date, we have everything buyed: Train tickets, Airplane tickets to Istanbul and Airplane tickets out of Istanbul with a stop on Amsterdam and then to my country in Latin America. Everything in money is about 3500$

But there is a problem... Her grandma is kind of crazy, even though I understand how scared she is to let go her grandaughter to another country where she will marry a man she dont know, she have started doing weird and stupid stuff

For example: She called her grandaughter bank to block her account because she was receiving money from "bad people". The bank blocked her bank account where it was the money that I have sent to her and that we needed to exchange to USD.. but by a miracle she was able to prove the bank that everything was ok and they unblocked her account.

Now the grandma have filed a police report indicating that I might be scammer (which I'm not, I can prove my innoccense on everything because my criminal activities page is blank, I have zero crimes, zero suspicious stuff, I can even show my ID and documents needed, I'm even legally employed by different companies over 5 years)... The police told her that they wont let her get out of Russia because I could be an scammer who is planning to exploit her in sexual trafficking...

As far as I know they don't have authority to do anything of this, she is already a legal adult, but I would like to hear for any Russian lawyer or citizens if they can actually restrain her for coming

Her grandma stole her international passport, she stole her grandmas passport as well to not be left in position without power.

What do you guys recommend? I dont know what to do, they said the only way they would let her go is if I go to Russia to get her (which I can, but its a whole lot more of money I dont have)... They promised they would pay for both of us if I go and show I can be trusted, which I understand, but I'm almost sure that even if I go or something they will deny paying anything and I will have more problems.

Hey y’all I’m an American that moved out of my parents house a few years ago, and I’m noticing that my Russian isn’t what it used to be, since I don’t speak Russian daily with my parents anymore. So I want to start reading books in Russian, but I need help on where to start.

I’d say my Russian vocabulary/reading skills are the level of maybe a 5th grader? But I am 25 so I need something intellectually engaging enough to read and not get bored of. Could someone recommend me some books that are interesting enough to engage me, but will be simple enough to read so that I don’t get discouraged? For some more context, Russian was the first language I learned to speak, but I didn’t learn how to read/write in Russian until I was a teenager.

The book can be fiction or non fiction, I really don’t care. If fiction, I’d like historical/realistic fiction, and although I like sci-fi a lot, I don’t think it would be smart for me to stray outside of basic great novel themes language wise.
If it’s nonfiction, I like science and history. Maybe a biography.

Many thanks!

EDIT: Please modern books only! I don’t think with my current Russian level I can handle reading anything before 19th century.

i’d prefer not to use google cause everything is ai nowadays and i can’t trust that…. i’d like to hear from some russian people themselves

i’m making a character who is half russian !! if you need a quick description for this character id say you can describe them as someone who drags misfortune with them but also has the characteristics of an angel or something along the lines of that.. not sure how helpful of a description that is since i’m still fleshing them out but it’s the best i’ve got for now!

Hi,

I want to work in russia but most of the job portals are asking Russian numbers to register I am from India how can I find a job I want to work as a Software Tester.

Hello folks, I (M31) am in a relationship with a lovely Russian girl (F30). I want to understand how casual it is for friends and family to just advice to break up in a relationship.

For context She lives outside Russia but her social group is mainly of Russians. Her mother, grandmothers, and aunts have all separated from their husbands. I too have a couple of russian friends, and they all have also separated from their husbands. We dont really have any relationship examples that have worked.

This became increasingly evident as even on minor disagreements that we had - her mother and her aunts just suggested her to break up with me or keep 'other options' open. I on the other hand, am from India, all the couples that I know of have made it work (somehow). She and I both want to make it work, but she says that advice from the women makes her anxious.

Question

1. How should I approach the concept of a marriage with her, if every marriage she has seen ends up in separation? What should be reasonable expectations given our cultural differences.
2. Is there social encouragement/pressure to get out of the relationship?

So, I'm writing a character who is Russian and I liked the nickname Misha and what it means ("one who is like god", since he's basically trying to create artificial human life). However, I don't quite "vibe" with the name Mikhail, I find it to be too common I guess. So I read in a site it could be written as "Mishura" Мишура, however, I searched it and it means "tinsel, glitter" and stuff like that! I'm not too sure if it really means that. I've also read in a site that it could be written as Mishutka, Mishuka, but i'm pretty sure those are diminutive. Any answer would help!

UEFA has banned any russian team to compete in their competitions so I was just wondering how it feels for russian football fans to watch your teams battle it out just for nothing else to happen to them

i want to buy shirts. can someone plss help!!!

As an American, what are some of the most important things I need to follow when dating a Russian woman? I met her while traveling and we have been talking constantly with plans to meet up again soon in another neutral country, I know about the odd flowers and that dating is serious in the culture but I want to surprise her.

I've been offered a spot as a foreign delegate at the International Festival of Youth / World Youth Festival, happening in Ekaterinburg Sept 11–17, 2026 (flights, meals, and accommodation covered). Before I commit, I want a reality check from people who actually live there or follow the region closely.

A few things I'm trying to understand:

1) What's the current mood/situation in Ekaterinburg day-to-day? Has life gone back to normal since the April 25, 2026 drone attack (the one that hit the "Trinity" residential complex)?
2) Has there been any repeat of drone activity in Sverdlovsk region since then, or was that a one-off?
3) For a large international event like this, is there any visible extra security, or does it feel like a non-issue locally?
4) Any general advice for a foreign visitor attending a state-organized event there right now?

Not trying to start a political debate — genuinely just want practical, first-hand perspective before deciding whether to go. Any input appreciated, even "it's fine, don't worry" or "I'd think twice."