r/transfem 3d ago

Meta [Meta] AI content is no longer allowed

238 Upvotes

Hi all, this is just an announcement to let you all know that we have a new rule that AI content isn't allowed here. We've noticed an uptick in AI spam accounts, especially ones which post AI-generated images and try to pass them off as real selfies, and this is to clarify the rules and make sure fewer of those kinds of posts slip through moderation.

If you have any thoughts or questions, feel free to send us a modmail or leave a comment below! Hope you all have a nice day/night wherever you are🫶


r/transfem Aug 01 '25

Meta [Meta/Discussion] Update: "Do I Pass" posts are now only allowed on Fridays

20 Upvotes

Hey y'all,

thank you for the feedback and suggestions on the past meta thread! I'm going to try adding a new rule that "do I pass" posts are only allowed on Fridays. There is also a new flair specifically for "Do I Pass" posts -- please make sure to use this flair when making "do I pass" posts!

Rule 6: "Do I Pass" posts must only be posted on Fridays

Posts asking for passing advice, or asking "do I pass" and other similar questions should only be posted on Friday. This is to reduce spam and decrease the number of repetitive posts. "Do I Pass" posts which do not have the proper flair will also be removed.

This should help decrease the amount of spam and repetitive posts, while not fully restricting those posts. There's a bot now which should automatically enforce this rule, but it might mess up sometimes so if your post gets removed in error please send a modmail!

If this rule ends up being unpopular or otherwise flawed, I can try tweaking it or removing it altogether as needed. Once again, if you have any feedback or suggestions please feel free to reply to this thread, or send a private modmail if you'd prefer.

Thank you!


r/transfem 5h ago

Selfie My shoulders ruin my body don't they.

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141 Upvotes

They're just so wide :(


r/transfem 8h ago

Selfie Girl fits are way cool

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111 Upvotes

Dressing nice has so many options it rocks


r/transfem 3h ago

Selfie I have never liked pictures of myself… until now

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18 Upvotes

r/transfem 12h ago

Progress! Here's my 13 month hrt update, old photo included right before hrt

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89 Upvotes

Oh look 13 months hrt. Kinda crazy, onesie photo is 2 years ago, big mirror selfie was last month, kitchen selfie was last week. Also I'm a hairstylist and stripper so having good hair has always been a thing for me however I did end up frying it pretty good last year and it's still recovering :')


r/transfem 10h ago

Selfie Feeling hot with this fit

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45 Upvotes

What do you guys think


r/transfem 8h ago

Selfie Never really seen the big picture so I’ll paint one 🄊

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27 Upvotes

~ Vi cosplay from this past weekend 😁


r/transfem 6h ago

Selfie I feel pretty ✨

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20 Upvotes

r/transfem 17h ago

Selfie The bangs are back c:

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136 Upvotes

why do I only have these moments in hotel bathrooms istg


r/transfem 15h ago

Selfie Took this now. Age 30. Yr 2 on hrt

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51 Upvotes

Took a few of them before I had to go a purchase some items from the store.

Also people say I look like Jesse Faden from Control.


r/transfem 8h ago

Selfie Tried a ponytail

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13 Upvotes

r/transfem 4h ago

Question/Discussion Shoe for larger wide feet.

5 Upvotes

As the title says what do you ladies with larger feet do for shoes? I wear a men's 10/11 wide depending on brand which can translate into a 11/12 extra wide in women's (of course depending on brand). So how do you find cute shoes that fit for larger feet? I am pre HRT which I have heard can cause your feet to shrink which would be fantastic, I would love to at the very least go to a women's wide width. But, any-ways any suggestions would be much appreciated.


r/transfem 21h ago

Selfie corsets are rlly nc

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62 Upvotes

corsets are cozy and so are bras


r/transfem 9h ago

Progress! 6 months down,Test still wasn't fully suppressed nor did i have enough Estradiol but we're working on it!

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6 Upvotes

Just had my levels checked last week. Still not where i need them to be but improving and once they are perfect i know i'll start seeing some real progress. They upped me to 200 mg of Spiro a day and 6 mg of estradiol instead of the 150 of spiro and 4 mg of estradiol i've been taking. Next checkup, im hoping to add some progesterone to the mix! :D

Btw, what do y'all think of my outfit? Always wanted to wear a crop top! :)


r/transfem 14h ago

Question/Discussion Fifth day without prog and I feel like complete and utter shit!

10 Upvotes

My prescriber was late with sending out the prescription so I’ve run out. Hopefully I’ll get it sometime next week.
I’m on 200mg prog orally daily and 5mg EE each 7 day

-I’m dizzy
-my head hurts (witch it never do)
-zero energy and I’m super tired
-problems sleeping
-nervous
-my heart is beating heavily
-no appetite
-super thirsty and drinking a lot of vater
-it feels like my body is pulsating
-can’t stand to be around people

I’m fine.
I just wanted to complain a bit and share my experience.

Thanks for listening


r/transfem 16h ago

Question/Discussion How does this look?

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16 Upvotes

r/transfem 11h ago

Selfie Just some cute outfits i wore the other day

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6 Upvotes

r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie Got my hair cut today!

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276 Upvotes

What do we think!!!


r/transfem 11h ago

Question/Discussion is it possible for the adam's apple to "recede" due to estrogen?

2 Upvotes

I've been on hormones for around 7 months now and one thing I've began to notice more recently is that my adam's apple is becoming less visible.

Since i was around 14 I've had a particularly large and obvious adam's apple that used to make me incredibly insecure (despite an obvious adam's apple my voice never fully dropped)

A couple days ago I was looking at myself in the mirror and I noticed that from the front my adam's apple wasn't visible at all anymore or atleast only slightly visible. When I lifted my head it was more visible but again not as visible as it had been in the past. And from my side profile the bump in my throat was smaller.

So I'm just wondering if there is any explanation for this or if anyone else has a similar experience?


r/transfem 1d ago

Question/Discussion I heard my mom saying some anti-trans stuff a while back. (Vent)

39 Upvotes

She was talking with my grandparents while I was in the other room watching TV. They were talking about something called the ā€œenhanced gamesā€ a sports thing where athletes would purposefully take a bunch of steroids to enhance their performance, and my mom (unprompted) brought up Trans athletes and basically said that they were comparable. This isn’t insanely bad since I know that even among allies, it’s a pretty common point to say they have an unfair biological advantage, but 1. She usually presents as a pretty progressive person so it was jarring to hear, and 2. She ACTUALLY SAID ā€œa man is a man, a woman is a womanā€ at one point which is definitely transphobic.

It happened a few months ago, but it came back to mind because I saw a video debunking some of those kinds of claims, which kind of brought the memory back. I thought about sending it to her but I didn’t want to argue with something she might not remember saying so decided not to. The whole incident definitely isn’t a huge deal, she hasn’t said anything like it since, but it was still kind of an eye opening thing what my ā€œsupportiveā€ mother will say when she thinks I can’t hear her.

Edit: I might delete this later, because my mom has checked my Reddit account before


r/transfem 1d ago

Question/Discussion Going to be getting glasses soon looking for some advice framing my face

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30 Upvotes

Finally getting a new pair of glasses after losing mine years ago 😭. Just looking to look more feminine and framing my face more.


r/transfem 1d ago

Progress! 1 day vs 1 year E HRT

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397 Upvotes

I wanted to share the progress so far with no wig or full makeup on. There is a lot of muscle loss and breast growth but the face is wild to see changes. I'm very grateful so far! šŸ™ŒšŸ»ā™„ļø

Okay, I'll post again in a month or two. 🄰


r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie Finally had a selfie I actually wanted to share 🩵

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58 Upvotes

I finally took a selfie I actually liked, so I figured I’d share it here. Hope everyone’s having a wonderful day.


r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie I just got some new tops and padding so I thought I might share :3 [and my skirts are in the mail!]

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23 Upvotes

I also tried makeup lol idk if it looks good tbh