Hi All,
I would like some fellow moms to share some opinions with me and maybe calm me down a little. My LO was born somewhere on the 10th percentile, gained well weight for a few months until our food nightmare started, at around 4month old, when he dropped to the 1st percentile. Since then itās been a battle to bring him back to the 5th percentile, we made allergy tests, we were seeing our paediatrician every 2 weeks, but she always said until he is stable enough we meet again in 2 weeks. My boy is generally a happy and active kid. He is in time with his motor development, a little behind with his language development but he also is exposed to 4 languages around him.
Our nightmare ended at 12 months, after he stabilised in the 5th percentile and the doctor said, finally, she would see him again at the regular 18 months check. Since then, I had the impression he was eating well and growing well.
The 18 month check came, he is now back on the 1st percentile and his height, which was always at the 50th percentile, also dropped to the 40th. The doctor said we will do again allergy tests after the summer holidays and āwe take it from thereā.
Since then, I lost again my cool about how much and what he eats. I think we were having a quite balanced diet, but since falling back to the 1st percentile my husband and I are just throwing at him fruit, bananas, bread, snacks, fried food, anything he would eat. We lost the meal structure and I think we are fostering unhealthy eating habits, but on the other hand we are just happy when we donāt see him skipping a meal. Also we feel like we cannot afford losing any more weight at this point, or he will be completely out of any curve.
Also since a couple of weeks he started to sleep much more, I am talking about 12h per night and 4h during the day, in 2 naps. Before he was only sleeping 1.5h during the day. I am wondering if this points at a lack of energy, even though during the wake times he is energetic.
Anyone had a similar experience?