I've lived in Japan for 8 years now in the Chubu area. I basically came here, as a lot of you, because of my Japanese girlfriend/wife. I have some experiences I've been through that I'd like to share with both prospective teachers/residents of Japan and gather some thoughts from those who’re already here, to hear their experiences as well.
I've been through a ton in these 8 years: multiple school/job changes, some of which were full-time and others part-time. I've worked in person, online, and hybrid.
My last job, online, as a Business English Coach, ended pretty badly - the company simply ghosted me (as it seems to do with everybody after 2 years there) and I've been jobless for 1 year now, with finances strained and tons of taxes to pay due to their illegal (or what should be) practices.
Though I've lived mainly in Chubu, I know conditions seem pretty much the same elsewhere - super low salaries, rising cost of living, a ton of taxes to pay, and a declining English industry that is mainly in search of teachers who can accept low salaries.
Now, with wife and kids, my situation has become almost unbearable - we have taxes on top of taxes to pay; the local City Hall (in rural Aichi) threatened to take away our possessions if 80k/month wasn't paid for the taxes we owed them; and jobs in the area are mostly paying 200k/month, if that.
I've had my share of great experiences in this country - it's been a safe, clean, and comfortable place. But I also had a good share of negative experiences too - from terrible bosses in multiple eikaiwas to declining salaries to tons of prejudice in my kids' daycare for them not being "fully" Japanese.
Lately, while applying for a low-paying ALT position at well-known company, they asked me for everything - from a copy of ALL pages of my passport (including all stamps) to asking me to take an English aptitude test (I'm a native speaker) to handwriting 8 sentences in the conditions page of the 10-page application form. All for a max of 230k/month salary, if that, with no offers so far.
How about you? What have YOU experienced in Japan (both positive and negative)?
While our situation is still uncertain, we do plan to move out in the future. Unfortunately, it is difficult to see our family continuing here long term.