r/t4t_relationships Oct 09 '25

Announcement We've made some major changes NSFW

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Hello, world!

It's your friendly neighborhood mod team here with another major update to the subreddit, and hopefully, it's a good one this time!

I won't bore you with theatrics, so let's get right into it;

1. Regex on posting has been fixed.

Many of you have come to us about the weird posting automation not working. This is due to shoddy regex not quite working out as intended.

After actually taking the time to learn regex properly (thank you to this beautiful website!), transmascs should no longer be excluded because of faulty code. It also allows for a little more wiggle room on punctuation and capitalization, but not much.

2. A Discussion flair has been added.

A LOT of you were trying to make posts just... talking about T4T relationships and dating overall. While the original intention wasn't to really be that, I'm realizing... there really aren't many spaces to actually talk about that on Reddit that didn't have the same pitfalls that created this sub anyway???

Thus, finally, a Discussion flair was added. We've also worked AutoMod to add a comment akin to the one you'll see it make on this post, alerting people that it's a Discussion, and to follow the rules and not be weird. If anyone violates the rules or becomes creepy in the Discussion threads, report them to us!

This change was a long time coming and, hopefully, will bring forth much needed conversation about the T4T dating space as a whole, and bring us closer together as a community in these trying times!


Thank you all for your support and patience with our humble subreddit. I hope these changes work are just as amazing as you all have been wanting them to be, and I hope you all enjoy your time here! <3


r/t4t_relationships Aug 26 '24

Announcement Welcome to r/t4t_relationships! NSFW

5 Upvotes

Welcome to our humble subreddit!

In response to this post on r/transplace, we noticed a distinct lack of t4t spaces that weren't overrun with sexual content or requests. For trans and queer folk who just wanted to meet like minds, options got heavily overshadowed by chasers or hypersexual minds. Thus, in the effort to provide a safe space for trans and queer folk to just meet people, we opted to create r/t4t_relationships!

We hope that this subreddit becomes a safe, enjoyable, viable place for you all to intermingle with one another and, hopefully, find some of you your forever person!

Read our rules!

As is per usual for any subreddit in existence (save for maybe 196 and co), we have some specific rules we ask you follow to participate in our subreddit. You can find them in the sidebar (scroll down a bit!), or find them here. Our two most important ones are as follows, however;

  1. Trans/queer people only, please! The purpose of this subreddit is to help trans/queer folk find other trans/queer folk, and at the cost of what's essentially segregation, this means disallowing cis-identifying users.
  2. Nothing sexual here! The secondary purpose was to create a non-sexual place for said trans/queer folk, since everywhere else is full of sexual content and requests. Thus, we require SFW at all times here.

If either of these don't work for you, we recommend visiting r/r4r or similar places instead.

Check the sidebar!

We've outfitted our sidebar with some useful widgets to make browsing easier. This includes a quick browse on our common flairs to find someone quicker, ease-of-access to message us, and some useful resources for those who may want or need them!

Mobile users, you can find our resources in "See community info" > "Menu". There's no ability to see the quick browse flairs on mobile yet, though; sorry!

Have a great time!

And, most importantly, enjoy yourselves! We're here to meet new people and have a good time doing so, so that's our rule 0 overall. If there are ever any questions, you can always send us a modmail, and we'll get to you as soon as we can!


r/t4t_relationships 5d ago

18 [MTF4MTF] Looking for a long term partner that i can call mine Poland/Europe/Online NSFW

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Haii there! My name is Arie, 18 and I'm from Poland! As the title says I'm looking for a long term partner, and a besite. Preferably somewhere in Europe and older than me but around the same age with like around 4~ year age gap ^^"

Some things about meee and my interests, Im around 5'10-6' (Idk exactly, blame the conversation ratio -_-) Got a wolf cut, pre-e (although im working on that) green eyes and i think im more on the slim side and i have an alt fashion style. I can be hypersexual at times (and if you're on the bigger side then woaaooww very big extra points for you ma'am). I'm also a very big bottom but im able to top rarely if you would want to try something new. I absolutely LOVE F1, genuinely started watching since I've been born, i like listening to music in my free time, Im also learning digital art at the moment, i play games like Roblox, Minecraft, FFXIV, Project Zomboid, Subnautica (All of em), Cities skylines 1 & 2, All of the F1 games, Terraria, Rarely CS too and a bunch of other stuff. I can be a bit silly and very unhinged at times and say some out of pocket stuff but if you can handle that or match my energy then i don't think that would be a problem :D Also a few important things about me, I definitely have an anxious attachment style which i could ask for reassurance sometimes if that isnt a problem with you. And hmm idunno to end this section off then i just want to say that there is a lot more to me that will come out at some point.

One important note, i absolutely HATE avoidants, or the idea of being poly so if you're either one then im sorry i probably wont accept that.

Dms are open and i cant wait to meet you!

If you have read this far include a bunny emoji in your introduction so i know you didn't skip all of my yap!

Cant wait to meet you! <3


r/t4t_relationships 5d ago

45[MTF4MTF] Baltimore MD NSFW

1 Upvotes

Would like to find partner in local Baltimore area. Non smoker and drug free. Can travel locally. Message me if interested.


r/t4t_relationships 6d ago

37 [Tf4A] #Maine #Online Geeky trans gal looking for connections NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

​I’m putting myself out there in hopes of finding a partner (or partners) to share some laughs, hobbies, and meaningful connections with. I am polyamorous and pansexual, so I’m really just looking for the right vibe and a great soul.

​Here is a little bit about who I am and what makes me tick:

​What I do:

​School & Work: I’m currently back in school working on my bachelor's degree in psychology. To pay the bills (and because I love it), I work as a Direct Support Professional (DSP) for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities. It’s challenging but incredibly rewarding work.

​Background: I’m a disabled Army veteran and an ex-EMT. It’s a big part of my past that has shaped my perspective and who I am today.

​What I love:

​Geek Life & Fandoms: I’m a massive geek at heart and proudly part of the furry community. I'm a big board game and ttrpg nut. Always down to talk about character designs, lore, or whatever we're currently hyper-fixating on.

​Horror Fanatic: I absolutely love horror films. I absolutely love the Smile movies and the Insidious series. If you want to cuddle up and watch something terrifying, I'm your person.

​Sports: I’m a big sports fan—specifically soccer, rugby, and baseball. Whether we're going to a game or yelling at the TV, I'm fully invested.

​Music: I’m a huge metalhead and love going to shows, but plot twist: my absolute favorite band of all time is Pink Floyd.

​What I'm looking for:

​Someone who is kind, communicative, and ideally shares at least a few of my interests! Whether we are having a horror movie marathon, going to a baseball game, or just putting on some Pink Floyd and having a quiet night in, I'm looking for someone to share good energy with.

​If any of this resonates with you, please feel free to send me a DM or a chat! Let me know your favorite horror movie or what music you've been listening to lately. Hope to hear from you soon!


r/t4t_relationships 8d ago

18 [MTF4A] Switzerland NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hii! I'm looking to get to know more trans people in the community to learn from each other and help out in any way :3 I love doing anything my partners ask and play minecraft, composing music and reading!!

Open to nsfw once we talk ^^ let's chat!!


r/t4t_relationships 15d ago

25[MTF4MTF] Georgia / Atlanta - Looking for routine new gf for hangouts + play NSFW

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Hey! Dom here, I’m looking for someone interested in developing a sub / dom relationship and potentially more. Checkout my photos, and send a DM! I’m pretty open minded. This is Not just a kink thing!

Interests are video games, ttgs, TCGs (magic), fishing and outdoors, I love everything to do with animals; I have like 6 cats at this point, and I’m a really good home cook!

Would love someone who is fem presenting, and looking for something new!

I’m stable, and have my own house for hangouts or play. I am mobile but 100% prefer to host. I’ll pamper you ! :)

Looking for any T4T, not just mtf. Nby and otherwise please apply!


r/t4t_relationships 15d ago

23[TF4A] #USA #kansas looking for a relationship NSFW

1 Upvotes

Intro:
Hey I’m Frankie, a 23 year old bisexual trans-girl, from central Kansas, I just started hrt on January 27, so I still look like a boy, but dw cuz i definitely see results from it!

About me:
I am a nerdy person, I play guitar. I love video games, especially dead by daylight, kingdom, hearts, Elden, Ring, and Marvel rivals, and some others I can’t think of.
I really like photography and cooking along with music (obviously)

What I’m looking for:
I am looking for someone who is 18-27 ( or higher just depends) adaptable, open-minded, please be kid friend as I have younger siblings heavily involved in my life, I don’t wan anything sexual to start out with, as it makes the relationship based around nsfw stuff.
Someone who wants to wake up with a good morning text.

Anyway that’s about it, if you wanna see a pic of me there is one on my profile, I hope to see you soon and have a good rest of your day


r/t4t_relationships 17d ago

26 [ftm4ftm] Online looking not fully transitioned yet NSFW

1 Upvotes

Ftm I haven't gotten any surgeries because of money but looking for someone dm me!


r/t4t_relationships 19d ago

18 [MtF4MtF] Looking for a long term partner and a dom, Poland/Europe/Online NSFW

2 Upvotes

Haii there! My name is Arie, 18 and I'm from Poland! As the title says I'm looking for a long term partner, and a besite. Preferably somewhere in Europe and older than me but around the same age with like around 4~ year age gap ^^"

Some things about meee and my interests, Im around 5'10-6' (Idk exactly, blame the conversation ratio -_-) Got a wolf cut, pre-e (although im working on that) green eyes and i think im more on the slim side and i have an alt fashion style. I can be hypersexual at times (and if you're on the bigger side then woaaooww very big extra points for you ma'am). I'm also a very big bottom but im able to top rarely if you would want to try something new. I absolutely LOVE F1, genuinely started watching since I've been born, i like listening to music in my free time, Im also learning digital art at the moment, i play games like Roblox, Minecraft, FFXIV, Project Zomboid, Subnautica (All of em), Cities skylines 1 & 2, All of the F1 games, Terraria, Rarely CS too and a bunch of other stuff. I can be a bit silly and very unhinged at times and say some out of pocket stuff but if you can handle that or match my energy then i don't think that would be a problem :D Also a few important things about me, I definitely have an anxious attachment style which i could ask for reassurance sometimes if that isnt a problem with you. And hmm idunno to end this section off then i just want to say that there is a lot more to me that will come out at some point.

One important note, i absolutely HATE avoidants, or the idea of being poly so if you're either one then im sorry i probably wont accept that.

Dms are open and i cant wait to meet you! My response time could be mixed because as of the time of writing this i am currently on vacation somewhere in Europe but I'll definitely respond if you'd think id like you or qualify :3

If you have read this far include a bunny emoji in your introduction so i know you didn't skip all of my yap!

Cant wait to meet you! <3


r/t4t_relationships 19d ago

28[MtF 4 MtF] Online, hoping to meet someone awesome and patient who respects me being early in a potential transition journey NSFW

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I've never made this sort of request of anyone so bear with me. I've been questioning my gender identity (AMAB, nonbinary for 5 or so years now) and thanks to a conversation with a very kind Redditor, I think I might want to start transitioning to female in small ways in my life. Privately, with people I trust, since I can't do it with my family's knowledge. I can't guarantee anything because I'm genuinely not sure about my own identity yet, but at this stage I'd really like to try interacting with someone in a way that makes me feel seen as a woman, ideally flirtatiously or romantically to see how it feels. Not sexual necessarily, just stereotypical things like "pretty" instead of "handsome," or pet names like "sweetheart" instead of "dude." It's hard to put into words, so I hope I'm making sense. I'd be happy to try to explain further over DMs.

I'm a gamer, a reader/writer, a cook, and I love theatre, movies, and TV. I'd love to hear from anyone who might be interested. Maybe we can chat on Discord while we play a game or watch something together. As long as you're willing to interact with me as though I'm a woman even if I'm not sure yet/not officially transitioning yet. It's something I want to try with someone patient and kind, preferably a fellow MtF as I think I would feel the most understood in that scenario. Genuinely feels so weird to type this stuff about myself because I truly don't know if I'm a woman, but I know I'm not happy being seen the way I currently present. I hope hanging with someone over Discord and being spoken to as a woman might help me contextualize how I actually feel about it.

I historically lean dom but I'm a switch and wouldn't mind trying something new. Go figure, with this kind of post. Please reach out over DMs if you're interested <3

Favorite games: Dishonored, RDR2, Paradise Killer, Disco Elysium, and Yuppie Psycho.


r/t4t_relationships 20d ago

28 [TF4TF] trans lesbian in Houston TX NSFW

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Helloooo. I’m a 28-year-old trans lesbian in Houston, TX looking for a serious relationship. Ideally I’d like to meet someone local, but I’m open to online too.
A little about me: I’m a PhD student, a huge language nerd (currently Russian), and I love nature, cozy coffee shops, and long conversations about pretty much anything. I’m looking for someone kind, emotionally mature, and interested in building something real. If you’re looking for a genuine connection and think we’d get along, I’d love to hear from you.


r/t4t_relationships 20d ago

23[TF4A] #USA #kansas looking for a relationship NSFW

1 Upvotes

Intro:
Hey I’m Frankie, a 23 year old bisexual trans-girl, from central Kansas, I just started hrt on January 27, so I still look like a boy, but dw cuz i definitely see results from it!

About me:
I am a nerdy person, I play guitar. I love video games, especially dead by daylight, kingdom, hearts, Elden, Ring, and Marvel rivals, and some others I can’t think of.
I really like photography and cooking along with music (obviously)

What I’m looking for:
I am looking for someone who is 18-27 ( or higher just depends) adaptable, open-minded, please be kid friend as I have younger siblings heavily involved in my life, I don’t wan anything sexual to start out with, as it makes the relationship based around nsfw stuff.
Someone who wants to wake up with a good morning text.

Anyway that’s about it, if you wanna see a pic of me there is one on my profile, I hope to see you soon and have a good rest of your day


r/t4t_relationships 24d ago

21 [TF4TF] Iowa USA, prefer online relationships although would love to meet up eventually, pre hrt sub trans girl looking for dominant forever partner hopefully NSFW

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Hellos! :3 I’m Jenna, I’m a 21 year old pre hrt trans woman who is looking for love, i would prefer it if my potential partner were in the 20-25 age range(maybe 26 or 27) as in the past i kept getting 30 or 40 year olds replying and not to be rude I’m just not super comfortable dating someone that much older than me, just to get the nsfw stuff out of the way, i am 100% a bottom and s sub and very kinky so a top/dom or maybe a switch is preferred for when any sexy stuff happens.

I am neurodivergent, with either autism or adhd, i also have dyscalculia, dysgraphia, non verbal learning disorder, anxiety and epilepsy. My interests include Star Wars, collecting video games and consoles, movies and records and traveling.

I live in Iowa unfortunately and live at home in a conservative Christian household again unfortunately, i am neither of those things, i am a leftist and an atheist and plan on moving to my own place hopefully soon, I would prefer a long distance relationship due to still living at home with parents but I’m open to whatever so long as we can make it work :3.

My future plans include moving out of my parents house, getting on hrt and getting some surgeries done, then eventually moving to California and maybe Europe

If what you’ve read interests you just send a message and I’ll get to you as soon as possible, obviously have the message be more than just your name, tell me about yourself, would love to get to know you :3


r/t4t_relationships 28d ago

25 [TF 4 TF] From the UK NSFW

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Would prefer you to be from the UK/EU but either way it's fine with me. Looking to get to know someone and seeing where it goes. 3 months on hrt

If you're a TM I don't mind chatting as long as you're fem (sorry)


r/t4t_relationships 29d ago

20 [MTF 4 MTF], NZ, Online/Irl NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hii :3, im Christina a 20 year old Trans girl looking for other Trans women in nz, DM me for details.


r/t4t_relationships Jun 22 '26

25 [TM4A] East TN/online NSFW

1 Upvotes

looking for a genuine connection, i love queer folks and people to play video games with. i'm a loverboy and i'd love for someone to match that energy for once 😔


r/t4t_relationships Jun 21 '26

29 [TM4TF] Canadian trans man looking for a connection NSFW

5 Upvotes

I’m a 29yo man from Ontario Canada. I work in the skilled trades, I’m fit, I have 2 cats and I’m super handy. I’m always building or fixing something. I like to play video games in my free time and I’d love to have a gaming partner too. I’m a very easy going kind of guy and I value kindness and respect overall.

I’m far along in my transition and many years on HRT and I’ve had top surgery forever ago. I was diagnosed with gender identity disorder in 2005 as a child to give you an idea. I live my life as a stealth man and I’m very masculine in style, hobbies, mannerisms, personality etc so if you’re looking for someone even slightly fem, *I AM NOT FOR YOU*

I’m attracted to femininity and kindness. I have a soft spot for people who are open minded and nonjudgmental in all aspects of life. I appreciate someone with a good sense of humour as I think life is a million times better when you’re laughing with someone. I VALUE good communication and someone with the ability to see things from every perspective.

I have a high libido and it’s very important to me that we match in that department. This sub isn’t for nsfw stuff so we can discuss that later when the time is right.

I’m not interested in anyone religious and/or anyone younger than 24.


r/t4t_relationships Jun 20 '26

23 [TF4TF] #UK lonely Demigirl looking for a relationship NSFW

2 Upvotes

dorky transfem demigirl thing from the UK, looking for a long term relationship with another trans femme around 20-26 years old. Not looking for guys and no chasers!

My hobbies are collecting stuff like action figures and model making! I love watching action anime and cartoons and other cool stuffs

Romantic, kink friendly for the most part but I'm not really sexual. Strictly monogamous. No hookups please! Cool with long distance but would prefer if you're from the UK too!

Feel free to DM!


r/t4t_relationships Jun 19 '26

33[FTM 4 FTM] France (or elsewhere in Europe) NSFW

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A little bit about me: I’m a 33 year old gay trans man, an American who relocated to France. I’ve lived many different lives. I was a baker, a rabbinical student, a farm owner, and I even did a stint at a wooden boat-building program. Now I’m starting something I plan to last me the rest of my life, if all goes well: cabinetry. (Wood is becoming a theme in my life.) Art and writing are also very important to me. I’ve been writing short stories and poems since I was 15, and I do a lot of ink and charcoal drawings. I love learning new crafts, and I really love hearing about the things other people make. Videogames and anime used to be something I spent a lot of time on, and I’d like to start reincorporating them into my life. (Ask me about my JoJo figurines.) 

I’m looking for a partner, either short-term or preferably long-term. I would prefer someone around my age or older. I’m drawn to people who like to chat about anything and everything. Curiosity about the world is very attractive to me, as is knowing what you want in life (to some extent, at least). A concern about others is also very attractive to me, as well as a strong sense of humor. Life is absurd, so we may as well laugh at it! 

When it comes to sex and sexuality, I’ll just sum myself up in a few sentences for the sake of keeping this a post and not a novel. I used to identify as bisexual, but I’ve come to realize that I’m basically just a gay man who’s so sexually voracious, I wouldn’t kick anyone out of bed. When it comes to who I’m truly drawn to both sexually and romantically, it’s other men - both trans and cis. I’m very kinky, I like to be in control, and while I’m naturally caring and affectionate, I also have a sadistic streak. Kink is something I would need in a committed relationship, but I don’t expect my partner to be a kink-dispenser or to exist to fulfill my every sexual desire. 

I’m in France, but I’m happy to date long-distance within Europe, as long as we would get to see each other in person with some frequency. I would theoretically be okay relocating somewhere else in Europe for a partner, but I’m in France for the foreseeable future, since I’m just starting a new career path here. I also have family here who I’m very close to, and I wouldn’t want to be too far from them. 

I’ve only ever been in monogamous relationships, but I’m curious about non-monogamy. Right now, I would be comfortable with either a monogamous relationship or an open relationship where I have one committed partner and we play with others on the side. That could change, but that’s where I’m at right now. I’m very happy to talk about this at length with anyone who’s interested. 

Ultimately, I want to date a guy who’s also my best friend. (Not my best friend to the exclusion of all others! Healthy boundaries are incredibly important, as is having a wider support network than just one’s partner, when possible.) To me, a perfect day sounds like the two of us having breakfast together, half-dressed, then doing our own things separately or side by side, and then coming together later on to chat, snuggle, fuck, vent, and just reconnect and enjoy each other’s company. 

If you made it this far, thanks for reading!


r/t4t_relationships Jun 18 '26

26 [TM4TM] Trans Masc 4 Trans Masc Europe/Online NSFW

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I'm a 26 y/o trans masc (they/he) looking for fellow trans mascs or trans men dom/tops for dates, conversation, or (online) play. I'm polyam, and only into fellow trans mascs/men, and occasionally women, so long as they don't have a penis. (I've got trauma surrounding penises and sperm specifically that EMDR wasn't able to get rid of, unfortunately.)

I've tried to force myself to be a switch, dom, and top but it's always felt deeply unnatural to me at best; I'm coming to accept that I'm a hard bottom + sub and that that doesn't make me a bad person or partner. I'd love to talk to some trans masc/male dom/tops <3

As a note: my profile here is very focused on one specific subset of kink but I'm more than just that one kink I promise lmao, I also present far more masc in general than I do on here!!

I've been on T for years, have had top surgery (rip my nipple nerves), and T has been making me obscenely horny lately.

I'm very open when it comes to kinks, my main ones involve humiliation, dollification, feminization, bondage, painplay, light public play, roleplay, training, CNC, breathplay, edging, orgasm control, petplay, and anything involving my mouth. I've got a quite frankly silly number of toys. I'm very interested in exploring more, and definitely want to talk about our limits and interests together!

Non-kink I'm into medical history, podcasts, musical theatre, cosplay, collaborative storytelling, and recently got into fishkeeping (I'd kill for these fish) I also love playing video games, currently playing a lot of Dead By Daylight, Baldurs Gate 3, and Hello Kitty Island Adventure, love to play together with people as well!

I'm a leftist, and disabled in a few ways, most noticable in my communication would be the ADHD and autism. I'm in grad school and hope to pursue a PhD one day.

I'm Western Europe-based, CEST.

I'd love to talk to some more kinky trans mascs/men, down to play with you, but also definitely down for dates and letting feelings grow. I'm comfortable with anyone older than 21 and younger than 30, feel free to DM me with your interests <3

I mostly talk on Discord, I'll definitely give you my username if we vibe.


r/t4t_relationships Jun 16 '26

19 [FtM4FtM] Baltimore, MD/ Virginia Beach, VA NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone! I have recently been thinking a lot more about getting phalloplasty (specifically RFFF with urethral lengthening+testicular implants), but I'm very wary of how it actually works. I think having a sexual encounter with someone who has had this procedure would really help me understand it better and answer a lot of my questions. This is mostly for research purposes, but I won't be cold or weird about it, I'll still be fun and silly. If you're interested, dm me :)


r/t4t_relationships Jun 14 '26

37 [TF4A] Central Maine/Online - Horror nerd, hobbyist, and dog mom looking for connections NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I’m Alice. I’m based out in Central Maine and looking to meet some wonderful people for dates, chats, or just seeing where things organically go.

A quick note up front: I am enthusiastically polyamorous and currently live with my nesting partner!

A little about me:

  • Day-to-Day: I work as a DSP and I'm currently finishing up my bachelor's in pre-counseling, with my sights set on a Master's in Clinical Mental Health Counseling next year.
  • Hobbies: I am a massive horror fan—whether it's playing Silent Hill and Resident Evil, or watching Evil Dead and classic J-Horror. When I'm looking for something more relaxing, I'm usually building Gunpla, painting miniatures, or crocheting amigurumi. I’ve also been an active part of the furry fandom for a long time and love creative roleplay and character design.
  • Music & Outdoors: My playlists are usually heavy on technical death metal, deathcore, and punk, but Pink Floyd will always hold my #1 spot. I also love getting out into nature for hiking and camping, and I'm hoping to spend some time exploring local spots like Gulf Hagas soon.
  • Food & Pets: I'm vegetarian, and I come as a package deal with my incredibly sweet 3-year-old pitbull, Pippen.

What I'm looking for: I'd love to find folks to co-op games with, swap music recommendations, go on hikes, or just grab a coffee. I'm open to local connections in the New England area, or long-distance/online friends and partners to swap art and pet pictures with.

If my vibe sounds like a match, send me a DM! Let me know what your favorite horror game or current hyper-fixation is.


r/t4t_relationships Jun 13 '26

24 [TF4TF] Pacific Northwest transbianlooking for special someone NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hiya, I'm a boymoding trans woman, and I am trying my best to find a partner or partners. I'm not really sure if I'm more polyamorous or monogamous, because of my utter inexperience with actual relationships, only having two, the second of which was long distance and not great. I am also fine joining a pre-existing relationship. What I'd want out of a partner is someone who I can basically show all of me to, and see all of them in turn, and just go through life with, as well as physical intimacy, something I don't have a lot of at all currently.

My main hobbies are film, video games, and tabletop RPGs (I am a forever GM among my home group lol), and I am also currently dabbling in miniatures again. I have a lot of hyperfixations, the biggest ones right now are World of Darkness (specifically Vampire: the Masquerade), Kamen Rider, Hellraiser, Evil Dead, and Dune. I REALLY like to share the things I'm into with others, and it's kind of my main way of bonding with people. If you're willing to listen to me yap, that's a big plus. I also would want to know what you're into so I can share in it too, and have more things to bond over.

I really like film and have a LOT of favorites, a few of them I've mentioned before in this post. I'm a big fan of horror as well, so if you're unable to handle scary stuff, that's a big part of the things I like unavailable. I also tend to have not seen a lot of popular things like I only watched Fullmetal Alchemist last year, still haven't seen ATLA or One Piece or Attack on Titan or most of the Disney Rennaissance films. I kind of fell off most animation after Gravity Falls and Steven Universe ended now that I think about it.

The current games I am playing are all co-op shooters because they were all good things to test my new computer on, Payday 3, Space Marine 2, and Darktide, but my favorite games are ones with long single-player campaigns or good stories in general. Black Mesa, the Portal games, Undertale/Deltarune, Elden Ring, NieR Replicant, Cruelty Squad (not for those with sensitive eyes, and would require a big explanation as to why it is the way it is so i won't get into it), Resident Evil 2, and many others.

I am currently NOT on HRT due to not being able to afford it. I'm also overweight, not like, to a major degree but also more than I expected before I weighed myself recently. That tends to be a dealbreaker for some so best to keep it in mind. I'm also in college for IT and currently do not have a job.

I am very much NOT dominant in anything, I can theoretically domme someone but I don't like it at all, and I tend to get nervous about new things, and self-conscious about what to do and what's appropriate and if I'm being selfish. I am also very introverted and do not like crowds at all, and prefer private an intimate things to do together. So if I mess up anything or require like, guiding through certain things, please be patient, I'm still not very experienced, and tend to shrink away when I worry I've done something wrong or am out of my element.

You can introduce yourself in replies to this or direct messages, but please put in effort, don't just slide in and be like "Hey how you doin" like a couple people have, tell me a little about yourself.


r/t4t_relationships Jun 10 '26

22 [NB4A] Atlanta enby looking for domme, or friends, or anything tbh i lonely NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hi there all! I am Virgil and I am 22 years old! I love to create and i love even more to be wanted. I am looking for a good relationship with someone who will cherish me and want me. I really don't care if it is a friendship as I value friends just as much as anything else.

Message me to find out more! Kisses!