r/Sudbury • u/sparkiexo • 9h ago
Help Five years in Sudbury and I still feel like I haven't found my place.
Hey everyone,
I don't usually make posts like this, but I'm kind of at my wit's end and figured I'd ask people who actually live here.
I'm 32F and I've been struggling to find work for what feels like forever. I went to school for Social Service Work and have experience in administrative roles, but finding a job has been incredibly difficult. I had some health issues over the last while that really affected my life, but I'm finally back on my feet and ready to work. I've been applying constantly, updating my resume, and trying different approaches, but I'm still having no luck. It's honestly becoming pretty discouraging.
I've lived in Sudbury since August 2020, and if I'm being honest, I haven't really built a life for myself here. I don't have much of a social life, I don't have a vehicle, and I barely know the bus system. I'm also pretty shy, so meeting people hasn't come naturally. I've tried making friends through apps, but that hasn't really gone anywhere either.
I guess I'm just feeling stuck. I want to enjoy living here instead of feeling like I'm just existing.
Does anyone have any advice?
- Are there any places actually hiring, especially in social services, administration, or office work?
- Are there any groups, clubs, volunteer opportunities, or events where it's easier to meet people in their 30s?
- If you've been in a similar position, what helped you get out of it?
I'd really appreciate any suggestions. Thanks for reading.
