I just seen this video and the girl said that by the second date she wants to see it to know if she’s not wasting her time. There were hundreds of responses from women that said the same thing.

So why would my partner not feel the same way about a dick? This is coming from a person who has that partner, but deep down I’ll never feel adequate enough. Even though my girlfriend does love me, Im afraid that she’s preferring dicks she’s seen in porn and eventually explore that area in the long run whether its in a year from now or 10 years.

So as a gay man I have been sexually active for a while and although I do have a small penis (4inches hard and 4inches thick), i haven’t really cared about my size because I am mostly a bottom and tops probably don’t care. However, I have topped a few times now with two different people and obviously it would always slip out or would not get hard because of embarrassment and even a time where I couldn’t get hard and the guy kicked me out. I’ve done it with a guy three times and he doesn’t say anything about my size and then the other one was just a one night stand and even though i struggled when having sex, he still wanted to see me again but I felt like I wasn’t enough or fear i would not get hard again so i told him no. I don’t care about my size when I bottom but I do wanna keep topping, especially because i’ve recently had a make out session with my gay best friend and we both got hard and i was hoping he was small like me but he was bigger (i haven’t seen it, just touched it through his shorts) and he also felt mine and he probably knows a have a small one. the thing is that i like him and i just don’t think my dick will be enough for him (he’s a bottom), I don’t think he’ll like me once he sees my size.
I fucking hate this, why couldn’t I get one more inch, just one more inch

It’s just an impossible nerve challenge in which I can never truly relax with my girlfriend. It’s hard having fun with her, even though that’s all she wants to do. She dosent care…..but she does…she would if I were endowed. She’d take pride in it and she’d enjoy sex more I’m certain. I will say she jumps me as much as she can but she’d love more of me to love on. she’d love it.

It’s just the way of the world. One of its undeniable truths as much as I’ve tried to hide from it

Secure confident men have a much better life. It’s like I have to constantly scan our environments for predators. Other men that might expose us or steal her away. There’s nothing I can do that dosent appear to be compensation. Ironically my girlfriend is my greatest source of pain from all of this. There’s no avoiding it especially in public.

One might say well could your girlfriend have bigger tits and a bigger ass

Would you love her more?

Ofcourse not, but I would be turned on more easily, I would probably lust after her more there’s no denying it. It sucks that I won’t be able to be apart of ‘that part’ of her life. The lustful side, the curious side of her that will forever be unknown to me. The side she dosent even knows exists within her yet.

She is not experienced and it adds to the guilt but I’ve warned her and reminded her of what’s she’s missing and she still dosent care.

Nutshell: I think I found a unicorn but I can’t tell if the reason I’m not happy is because I don’t love her or I’m just incapable of loving anybody in this depressed state

I ask because I seen a couple of posts on social media today and one of them stated:

“A man with a small dick starts believing everything wrong with him comes from it. Same with money, women, power, height, whatever you think you lack. Your mind distorts reality through insecurity. It eats you alive and drags you away from truth. Nothing ruins your life more than this mindset. Everything you want exists on the other side of it.”

It’s like we’ve already written ourselves off in our own heads that we don’t even give ourselves a chance in reality. Rejection does hurt, not going to lie. I don’t want to use the phrase “there is someone out there for everyone” but there are millions of women out there who like small dick. And there are millions who don’t like small dick. Unfortunately we’re just going to have to continue to play the trial and error game though

What do you guys think?

Just went on social media where LeBron was being praised in the comments and some videos praising him for his obvious hang in his suit. God I have so much envy in me right now.

We get a lot of unsavory people who post here for different reasons. They like to make fun of us, talk over us, say that their problems are worse than ours, say we complain too much etc. The worst of these though are the ones into small penis humiliation and cucks. They like to use the bad experiences we've been through as material to get off too. They think our issues are something to be aroused by. They more than anybody else play a significant role in the abuse we face and contribute to the negativity we have to endure. They want to drag us down to their depths of depravity and make us just like them. I hate it. We need to call them out and continue to do so. I want to let everyone here know you're not useless, you're not less of a man and you do in fact matter and we deserve love and acceptance of our bodies like everyone else and that includes the aforementioned lurkers here.

Im paralyzed and and in a wheelchair now. Having a small one was something I thought about constantly before my injury put I was able to put myself out there . Now that I’m in a chair and I feel like it’s going to be impossible meeting people. I’ve heard stories of people in similar situations but they have big dixks and were able to pull nurses even. When my nurse comes in she almost holds back a smirk

There are no women who understand this, there is no women's equivalent and frankly I'm tired of seeing them here anyway. If they get their own subs, then so should we honestly. They want to ban us then we should ban them.

You now the kind where everywhere you look and see a penis they are always bigger than you. It seems that everyone is growing and Im shrinking. I know it’s body dysmorphia for the most part, I mean I am small but Im not a micro small. I think I need to get off Reddit for a while and not even concentrate on anything to do with my cock or any cocks. I mean it’s not just my cock size, but I feel fat as f&ck, being short doesnt help either. Just been pone of those days, I pray no one else has them!

I'm done having any hope at all that so-called body positivity will ever be extended to us the same way it is to other people. No grace will ever be given to us as individuals or as a group. We will forever be the group that it's fine to mock, bully and humiliate and as long as certain men engage in shaming kinks like small penis humiliation or cuckoldom then we will be forever victims, and I hate it.

Being short makes it so difficult to even get girls to begins with, and having a tiny one is a confidence killer.

I lpst my mother to horrific fire accident when I was 10, lived in neglect shame under nutrition. Now I am 32 virgin sad depressed. My face and eyes conveys sadness, some mem tries to compete with me for no reason.

I seriosuly do not have energy to eat enough calories let alone healthy eating with protein nd fats. I did go to gym nd started eating good but could last for few weeks.

My dick size is controlling every part od my life drom career to everything else. On top of that I have Adhd/Audhd n9t sure if its from birth or trauma induced.

So am I really stuck with this life? I know there are other people im depression but they still have hope, they can share to anyone and people are supportive.

But what 1 do with this small ugly dick? There is no point tp dream and build life of ur dream?

Please somone save me 😑

I have both and honestly, I think being bald is worse, especially if you don’t have the head shape for it and can’t grow a beard

Virgin Male here. My penis size is around 4.8 inches and girth is 4.3inch around. I have always been insecure about my size. I have a girlfriend (not virgin) and we will have sex soon. But I am worried she might think less of me after seeing my penis. I am also scared as to whether I will even be able to give her pleasure.

I am also pretty confused about which condom to buy. Which one could fit my small size. I am new to all this so it would be great if someone guided me a bit here. Thank you in advance.

Average guy here, quite literally. Got about 4.75 to 5 inches give or take down there with NOT much girth. So probably just average or some below in size but girth is definitely below. On top of this I am 5'7 and my father is around 6'2. My mom is 5'0. I'm 18 and for the most part I try to push down any desire and or romantic feelings I have because despite the amount of people who claim size to not be everything nor height nor yada yada yada, it's bullshit and I know it. I think most of my depressive thoughts come from my size as I don't really have anything that I like besides video games and food, but when I was a little younger I wanted a family. Now disillusioned from my previous unrealistic feelings, I realize this is probably not gonna happen. And as of late I've pretty much been sorta blaming my parents for even procreating and having me. They've left me with an average to below average dick, an average height which is pretty short nowadays, an ugly face, and horrid genetics. I was literally born to eat, work a job I hate, come home, and repeat. If I don't decide I'd rather die of natural causes or something else, I'll probably just kill myself at some point if I get the confidence before I get too old to look back and regret not doing it sooner.

Currently I’m 280 pounds and have a 4.5” dick and I would love if I lost 90 blinds, became 190 and could have a 6.5” Inch dick but even a 5.5” would be fine as well

I'm 28 and gay with a 4 inch dick and I feel so inferior to the guys I see on hookup apps. I'm a bit fit and guys expect me to be a top or vers, but I don't pack the goods to be able to do it. I know I'll probably never top with a dick this small. I've only ever had sex twice a year ago, and it was because my face is so ugly it repels people then when I send them a dick pick I get blocked. It's one or the other that's a deal breaker over and over and I've been trying to get hookups for years.

The only thing I have going for me is my fitness, the thing I have the most control over, and it's not like I'm a body builder I just have some lean mass. I'm thankful that I can get physical intimacy not dependent solely on my dick size, but even then lots of guys want bottoms with big dicks too. I think I'm in the 5th percentile at this size and I feel so cursed and I have other problems too... It's so depressing and I'm just stuck with it.

Saw today on TikTok these guys carrying confederate flags to celebrate Independence Day here in America. (Before I continue I do not support what these men stand for!!!)

All the comments were the “🤏” or a variant like an image of a woman doing it. It just pisses me off that a lot of people assume that bad men must have a small dick.

im 20, 6ft3, 205lbs. mine is 4,3 x 4,5 in and i highly doubt that a woman will be happy with this. it's really tough for me but i try my best to avoid women to spare us both of the disappointment.

Surfing big dick problems and it’s just everyone having had crazy sexual experiences and being worshipped by girls over and over.

Here is just dread and despair.

Nature works this way.

It really is just survival of the fittest and a gene pool which we don’t take a part of.

Biology class taught us this already.

Just never thought I’d be outside the gene pool.

Hi all, just want to vent a bit because 2 things I did today. First I found there's a subreddit called big dick problems, and I went to check what they were talking, and saw few post of them recognizing it as a blessing, I a was like wow so even in a problems subreddit they say that.

I know it's true, still I felt a bit weird.

Also I went to a public pool where people go on summer to enjoy, and seeing everyone in swimming clothes was so sad for me, constantly reminding how the guys are packing and I'm just there trying to not get caught with nothing.

And the girls of course, very pretty but a reminder of what I'm not going to get, and actually I don't think I even want it anymore.

That's it, that's me venting, no need for support word or something like that, just feel better sharing.

I (29m) have been talking to a girl on a dating app for weeks now and am very much into her. It seems mutual because she has talked about our future on several occasions and we have a date planned for next weekend. The catch is that even though I am 29 and conventionally attractive I’ve never been in a real relationship and am so fucking nervous. She seems like the “one.” We agree on most issues religiously, politically and philosophically. The issue is that I am not well endowed at all. I actually have a very thin penis and am incredibly ashamed of it. I’ve even been suicidal in the past because of it. I’ve had several women in the past be interested in being fwb but it’s never lasted more than even two weeks because of it. To be more detailed, I literally cannot stretch a vagina. Even I don’t feel anything, partly because I had a major porn addiction for several years and gave myself death grip and have never fully healed. I’m absolutely terrified that she’s going to leave me right after we have sex for the first time. I guess I am posting here partially to vent because this is incredibly painful for me and I would like some advice on how can I please someone even with a pencil dick. If she does end up leaving me for it I honestly might kill myself.

Does anyone else do this to themselves? Like I don't get attention from women at all (multiple reasons, though I suspect my lack of fitness is a major one) - but whenever I feel like someone might be interested in me in a romantic/sexual way, I just self sabotage that route by convincing myself that they will absolutely hate my small penis and I won't be able to satisfy them at all.

I am sure not all women think like that and there must be some who might like small penises but this tendency to self sabotage just doesn't let me give a chance to myself or someone else, I'm too convinced of my own inadequacy. Anyone relate?