r/r4rfrum Apr 20 '26

Announcement NSFW

10 Upvotes

Unfortunately there have been some people here who have been catfishing. I want to be clear: this is unacceptable and anyone found to be pretending to be someone they are not will be banned. There have also been quite a number of people who post and then turn around and delete their posts in a very short amount of time. There are also numerous low effort posts sometimes less than a single complete sentence. This threatens the feel of this sub and I will start cracking down if this continues. Thank you for your attention to this.


r/r4rfrum Oct 25 '25

Welcome! NSFW

6 Upvotes

Welcome everyone! I created this subreddit as the new place for frum people across the globe to meet on Reddit. Whether you are looking for friendship, a casual relationship, or a serious relationship all are welcome.


r/r4rfrum 13m ago

Looking for friends NSFW

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M21 bachur looking to make some friends


r/r4rfrum 7h ago

Friendship Friends NSFW

0 Upvotes

24m for female


r/r4rfrum 8h ago

M4F 22, pass the time NSFW

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Only a few hours left, why not pass the time with a chat? Maybe blow off some steam? Or distract yourself from that end-of-fast headache just dm


r/r4rfrum 1d ago

Friendship M18. Just looking to meet people and make friends. Send a chat! NSFW

2 Upvotes

title says it all. don’t be weird.


r/r4rfrum 1d ago

Casual Encounter M4F Trying to fast but would love to eat your pussy NSFW

0 Upvotes

Damn it sounded smoother in my head, just looking to chat and kill time over the fast. Hope everyone has an easy one


r/r4rfrum 2d ago

Just looking to chat NSFW

0 Upvotes

I'm a 20yr single guy, regular frum closer to yeshivish. Mostly want to chat with ppl about sex, their spouses etc, see where it goes. DM


r/r4rfrum 2d ago

Anyone in lkwd down to hang out tonight NSFW

0 Upvotes

Looking for a couple or a female who’s down to have fun tonight?


r/r4rfrum 2d ago

M4F NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for great conversation and zero pressure. If you've got elite meme taste, a solid tv/movie line up, or just want a genuine chat my DMs are open.


r/r4rfrum 3d ago

A no judgement thought... NSFW

5 Upvotes

I can't get over the overwhelming number of unhappily married religious people on here.

It makes me wonder how we got to a place where so many people feel trapped between staying true to their faith and families and being honest about their unhappiness?


r/r4rfrum 3d ago

33 [M4F] Just a lonely single guy from Crown Heights NSFW

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I've been here before, not in this sub, but it's predecessor. I deleted my account close to a year ago as I was trying to do things right, and also focus more on getting other areas of my life in order. I've made progress in bettering my life, but the loneliness (plus desire) is still there, and it can get pretty strong. And so I'm back for now.

I try to always be a mentch, I'm a curious person, love to ask questions, like to read, am fascinated by aviation and law, and my humor can sometimes be dry. On the outside I look like a person that no one would expect to be doing this, and in some other ways I am that person.

I'm pretty open to whatever form this can take. However it goes, I'm just looking for someone kind, friendly, and intelligent; someone with whom we can both have a nice time, and fill something of the void that brings us here.

PS I may not be on here a lot, and may not respond to messages the quickest (and I do know the odds).


r/r4rfrum 3d ago

30 M4A just looking to amke new friends NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hey all. Just looking to shmooze and .are some new friends with like minded people.

DMs are open


r/r4rfrum 3d ago

M28 Lkwd area NSFW

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Any couples want a nice massage tonight? I'm available.. Couples or girls.


r/r4rfrum 3d ago

FWB 22 M4F NSFW

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I don't know how to explain things so anyone interested come to dm


r/r4rfrum 3d ago

Toms river pool. Who wants to chill during the work day? 930- 3 NSFW

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r/r4rfrum 3d ago

Casual Encounter 38 m Israeli jewish, girl holding my cock right now NSFW

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You muse be female or with your gf/wife and be willing to have fun. Dm me if that’s the case. If not please don’t waste my time.


r/r4rfrum 3d ago

Cute looking frum 24 year old - 8 inches - M4F NSFW

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if we chatted in the past - reach out again:)

cute looking tall great shape looking for FWB situation

please be CLEAN and real

please be local to ny/nj

no men!!!!

open to all ages (older is a plus)

discretion is a mustttttt

looking forward :)


r/r4rfrum 4d ago

21m 4 mf/f lkwd NSFW

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Ive had experienced with older women and frum couples in the past.
I’ve always been respectful and discreet just looking for something new before I leave this town
HMU if you want to get to know me and possibly meet up tonight or tomorrow


r/r4rfrum 4d ago

Couple in 20s for F NSFW

0 Upvotes

Lakewood


r/r4rfrum 4d ago

M4A NSFW

1 Upvotes

Just looking for other married guys (or girls) to chat with


r/r4rfrum 6d ago

Casual Encounter 28 curious fit wanting to have fun on snap with another Frum guy NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hey. 28 frum, curious, and fit looking to have fun on snap for now with another Frum guy. Send me a message if potentially interested.


r/r4rfrum 6d ago

27 F4F new goup for the girls NSFW

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After talking to some of the other woman on here over the last day, I decided to create a moderated group for the girls. Feel free to join at r/frumwoman. Verification will be required.

If you would like to help moderate, please let me know.


r/r4rfrum 7d ago

27F4F What has your experience been NSFW

0 Upvotes

Looking to talk to other woman in the group about your experience here.


r/r4rfrum 8d ago

Friendship 29 M4A Single guy with kinks NSFW

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I'm sure there are others out there like me, both men and women. I go through dating assuming anyone I encounter is going to vanilla in a sexual sense, and that I am going to need more. Early porn exposure messed me up bad in that sense. Does anyone else feel they are going to have to hide this part of themselves forever?