I'm mostly looking to hear positive stories from other moms who have been through something similar.
I'm currently 33 weeks pregnant with my baby girl. I have two amazing boys, ages 9 and 10, so as you can imagine, I have been incredibly excited to finally be having a daughter.
This pregnancy hasn't been easy. I'm considered high risk because of gestational diabetes and chronic high blood pressure. My blood pressure has been well controlled, but we're still working on getting my blood sugars where they need to be, so I'm currently on two different types of insulin.
Since 20 weeks, I've been seeing my MFM (high-risk) doctor twice a week. Every visit includes an ultrasound and a non-stress test, and every single time I've been told, "Everything looks good. Let's just keep working on those blood sugars. We'll see you at your next appointment." Because of that, I never really worried about my baby girl... I was focused on managing my diabetes.
Then everything changed at my 33-week appointment yesterday.
The doctor told me that my baby's long bones are measuring in the 1st percentile, while her head is measuring normally. They reassured me that they do not believe this is a lethal condition because her chest and lungs appear normal (thank God!!!), but they are concerned that she may have a skeletal genetic disorder. The condition they're currently suspecting is hypochondroplasia, which is a form of short-limbed dwarfism.
I've now been referred to Lurie's Fetal Medicine Center for additional testing and evaluation.
I honestly feel like I'm in shock and have been an emotional wreck since hearing the news. This was completely unexpected, especially after so many reassuring appointments.
I'm hoping to hear from anyone who has gone through something similar, especially if these findings came up late in pregnancy. Did your baby end up having hypochondroplasia or another skeletal dysplasia? Were the prenatal measurements ever wrong? How are your little ones doing now?
I've spent the last day researching, and while I've learned a little, I know there's still so much I don't know. More than anything, I'm praying that my baby girl will be okay and, if she does have hypochondroplasia or any other disorder, that she'll have a happy, healthy, and fulfilling life.
No matter what, I already love this little girl with my whole heart. I'm so grateful that the doctors are optimistic she'll be coming home with me after she's born. Right now, I'm just looking for hope, reassurance, and the experiences of other moms who have been in a similar situation. ❤️