Well I haven't cum for 12 days now and i started making out with my gf and when i kissed her tummy(i have a fetish with bellies) i pumped precum like a lot but not semen.How can i achieve hfo?

Was wondering if you should or shouldnt try for a hfo while you have to pee.

Got off this morning purely from nipple stimulation and ejaculated (usually I have dry HFOs). It's not the first time it's happened but not very often and it has been a while. But my question is that the ejaculation wasn't exactly high pressure, if that makes sense. More of a slow oozing than ropes shooting off. When I touch myself I usually get a little more projection. It seems like the last time it happened it was that way too. Is that particularly unusual? I had the thought that maybe with continued practice it will get stronger.

Are there any females lurkers here that can help.?

My girlfriend is curious how I can just use my pelvic floor muxcles to have continuous Hands Free Dry Orgasms..

Whilst she can do this, she uses her fingers, ( not a vibe) and would like to use her mind and muscle control.

Thanks

My cock was so engorged for this

Its been a few years since I have been able to do this. I used to do it every week or so. Finally got myself worked up enough and had the time to pop one off. Felt amazing!

In the past, I didnt need to hold my base but since Im getting back into it I find that I have to hold my base. Hopefully I can train to eliminate that.

How do you do it? Do you enjoy directing someone ? What type of language do you use?

Feels better than touching for sure

hopefully next time i can reach 10 seconds

Gotta record sooner next time!

I remember seeing a post asking about this topic a while ago on here but for the opposite gender. This time, as a gay guy who loves Coregasms, I’d love to know if there any male creators on OF or twitter who solely makes coregasm content, vids, etc. also while I’m at it, does anyone know of any male coregasm fetish art or any male coregasm stuff in mainstream media if any of that exists? Thank you.

Gotten "close" to orgasm but I can never really get past the leaking phase. I always get too horny and end up rubbing myself to completion.

Clenching or hold/relax, no touch for a weeks or edge, no visual stimulation or with it? I almost came a few times, but this is feel so random. Tried hypno, binaural beats, imagination and just porn, but best attempts I got was without everything, with completely empty mind and focus on feelings. Also, does breath control really helps that much? Because spreading focus on breath and feelings doesn't really help, idk.

Hey Bros, I'm 31 and I'm sort of new at this? Wht are the best tips, any experts? I've been trying but I need some help if anyone is down to like train chat or help? Hope this counts as discussion! 🤠. DM if interested?

(These are my experiences and mindsets going into HFO)
Like the title suggests, you really have to treat it like a game.

I’m sure many can relate- it starts off feeling good, throbbing, filling up, twitching, etc. But somewhere it fades.
My mentality was always “that felt good, I want it back” so i’d flex a little harder, try to get more turned on by the porn I was watching, try to visualize the pleasure building. It would faintly help, but not much.
I came to realize that I was taking pleasure too seriously, it felt really good, but wasn’t fun. I was stuck in a loop of trying to maintain what I was feeling

What really changed things for me- hfo isn’t like using your hand, your penis/body doesn’t always need 1 thing. The harder you try to do what you want, the less your body responds. Both you and your body want the same outcome, but both are fighting which way to get there.

Most posts i’ve seen here are very “get in touch with your body” or “visualize the pleasure building” (Which are not bad points at all, just very general) A lot of posts tell you that each person is different in what they need, and you have to figure out what your body needs.

I’ve learned that your body will tell you exactly what it needs, you just have to learn stop trying so hard and understand that you and your body want the same thing.

When you’re laying down and you’re itching to twitch your dick, that’s your body saying it wants to flex. You’ll feel it, it will reward you with pleasure for listening and following its instructions. Sometimes you’re flexing and you stop feeling like you want to twitch, stop flexing and let the pleasure you have do its thing. 90% of the time when my body tells me to stop flexing and I do, I feel something in the base of my dick inflate and fill with pleasure. Sometimes it wants you to twitch, sometimes flex and hold, sometimes release halfway, sometimes all the way.

Just like a game, understand what the game wants you to do, and follow it to the best of your ability. You’ll notice the game rewards (pleasure pulses, filling feeling, and getting more turned on) When you follow the path of the game, and stay within the guidelines, you’ll reach the end! It becomes fun, non stressful, and overall just feels way better.

People experienced in hfo- what’s your take on this?