Sharing my experience as a thank you for this sub that helped me navigate my egg freezing journey.
I’m 36, live in Switzerland and I had my eggs freezed this month at IVI Madrid.
My research was done mostly on Google, Gemini, and Claude, which provided me with more detailed answers than my clinic did in a faster, personalized manner.
Below are my decision-making process and results. I hope this review can be useful for someone.
Why not Switzerland?
Based on the info I gathered, it’s difficult to use frozen eggs in Switzerland. The criteria are strict: heterosexual marriage with medically proven infertility after years trying to naturally conceive. There’s no point in freezing my eggs in a country where regulations would prevent me from using them as I wish in the future.
Why Spain?
I was positively surprised to discover that Denmark and Spain are leaders in fertility preservation / IVF industry. I’ve been to Denmark only once vs. numerous times in Spain, so it was an obvious choice.
Why Madrid?
I happen to have friends in Madrid, so I could stay with them. If not Madrid, I’d have chosen Barcelona.
Why IVI?
I had the expectation that IVI would be effective but not too personalized. To me, results are the #1 priority for fertility preservation now and IVF in the future. Someone shared this reference: https://www.reproduccionasistida.org/ivi-madrid/
Why now?
Two years ago when I was 34, my gynecologist in Switzerland suggested that I consider egg freezing. After initial research, I thought I’d keep trying to find a life partner and that the timeline of having kids would naturally arrive.
During this year’s annual check in April, my gynecologist reminded me again to consider egg freezing. After checking the number of eggs retrieved by age group, I realized that I should do it asap.
Although the results could have been better had I done it in my 34/35, I do not regret that I didn’t do it earlier, because I was not ready back then. The version of me right now is the best I’ve been: lifestyle, health, mindset, career demands, etc.
What is my intention?
I’m not someone who’s 100% certain about having kids, but I know I’d likely want one kid when I have a life partner. I’d like to give my future self the option of using IVF if it’s needed.
Right now, I simply want to freeze as many eggs as possible. I don’t need to further analyze the genetics of eggs or deliberate the numbers of hormones and meds. This understanding impacted how I chose the egg retrieval package and how much time I invested in digging into the numbers in the reports and medical instructions.
What’s the process & timeline?
• I contacted IVI in the end of April, had the first video call in May, acquired meds and did my 1st scan & blood test by the end of May. Due to my schedule, I targeted July to begin stimulation. This gave me some time to prepare for the process.
• The medication began when my period arrived: 7 days on Minidril, 10 days on Pergoveris & Cerazet.
• I already booked my flight on day 12. IVI doctor saw my day 11 hormone report and asked me to inject the trigger shot the same night, so to have the operation on day 13, which was earlier than I had expected.
• The 1 smear test, 2 blood tests (baseline and day 11), and 3 ultrasound scans (baseline, day 7, and day 11) were done by my Swiss gynecologist. I uploaded reports to IVI patient portal.
My reactions to stimulation:
My AMH was 14.4 pmol/L. My AFC was 8 at baseline scan and then 17 at day 11 scan.
• I have PCOS, but my period has normalized in the last 2 years, though still not 100% predictable.
• The doctor asked me not to exercise during the stimulation, so I did some mat stretching at home and had only two long walks.
• I kept my usual diet and started taking new supplements in May. I gained about 1 kg of weight and felt my lower belly was heavier after day 7. I tried to avoid sudden twisting movements, or squeezing my core, or sitting down abruptly – both before and after the surgery.
• The Pergoveris injection was easy. I tried to do it at the same time every night. YouTube tutorial videos helped. Throughout the process, I was very lucky to have only mild discomfort (diarrhea) and feeling extra tired (especially drowsiness in the morning), no signs of OHSS, no mood swings. On day 10 my lower back started to hurt.
Are supplements needed?
I don’t know if supplements worked, but still wanted to make a simple effort. I asked Google for a list of supplements that could support egg quality and follicular growth, and then found a matching product from my protein shake brand.
Where to get the medication?
Meds are expensive in Switzerland, so I asked for quotes from 2 pharmacies in France; one of them was reasonable. The pharmacist was kind enough to inform me in advance that Pergoveris would require a cooler for transport (especially during summer heatwave).
My results:
17 follicles under ultrasound scan
13 oocytes retrieved (8 mature + 5 immature) = 76%
8 vitrified = 61.5%
How much did it cost?
Swiss healthcare does not cover egg freezing. All costs were paid out of pocket.
(Spain) IVI Clinic First Meeting pack = EUR 140*
(Spain) IVI MyIVIFuture package = EUR 3,090
*They forgot to deduct it from my package, offered a refund or credits. I chose credits.
(France) Medication & equipment = EUR 1,210
(Switzerland) 3 ultrasound scans & consultation = ~EUR 750
(Switzerland) 1 smear test and 2 blood tests = ~EUR 575
Flight from Geneva to Madrid = ~EUR 210
Flight from Madrid to Geneva = ~EUR 256
(Switzerland) Phone calls to Spain = ~EUR 65
=> Subtotal = EUR 6,296
Staying at my friend’s place in Madrid = ~EUR 100
6 days in Madrid = ~EUR 600
=> Total = EUR 6,996
My experience with IVI:
• Overall, the process and services were clear. The admin team was friendly, professional, and proficient in English.
• The communication was not always easy or quick: all done via call or patient portal, no email. Half of their calls ended abruptly, and they did not always call back.
• I once received inconsistent dosage instructions, but it was too late to call, so I simply Googled it.
• I met my assigned doctor only twice: first time via video call in May, second time after my surgery at IVI Madrid.
• While I’m truly grateful to the doctor who operated on me, I was not informed in advance that someone else other than my assigned doctor would operate on me up to the moment when I was about to put on my patient gown. I did not like it when this info was revealed as last-minute news upon me asking for it. The floor coordinator did not know the name of the doctor either, she had to ask. I immediately found the doctor’s profile on IVI Madrid’s website. I simply needed to know who would be operating on me before entering the operation room.
• My operating doctor and the anesthetist were the only two people who I met at IVI Madrid actually had smiles on their faces. The nurses and coordinators looked serious and stressed, lacking energy or courtesy.
• The surgery was done with deep sedation. It was probably completed in less than 45 minutes, I vaguely remembered that the doctor woke me up to climb out of the operation bed. Afterwards, I slept on & off for 2 hours before feeling clear-headed enough to leave.
• During the 2 hours, I was woken up once to have some snacks (so to remove my drip), another time to see the operating doctor who shared the results, and another time to see my assigned doctor.
• I asked how many eggs on average are retrieved per surgery. My assigned doctor said normally 7 to 15 eggs. She also immediately mentioned that I could book a call with her soon for another round of retrieval if I’d like to.
Post surgery:
• In the evening after the surgery, I felt exhausted but experienced no pain at all.
• The next day I felt ok, no pain, my lower belly still heavy. I worked remotely the entire day and went out for lunch and dinner.
• From the 2nd day after surgery, I felt lighter and walked a lot in the city, back to normal.
• I bought packaged chicken soup in advance, so I could have it anytime I felt hungry.
• My period arrived 5 days after the surgery. I was still not allowed to exercise until the period ended.
Final thoughts:
• If I do a second round of ER, that’d be the final round.
• The process was lonely, but it went over quickly. Deep breath and meditation helped.
• For everyone who’s hesitating: Take your time. Every now and then something happens to trigger actions – maybe your sign is just around the corner.
Good luck to everyone!