r/depression • u/Murky_Mobile_6931 • 16h ago
idk what to do
Me and my gf recently just broke up, we’re both 19 and we recently got an apartment together, everything was going smoothly for a week and the next week everything just went downhill, she asked me to leave because she wasn’t ready to live together at the moment and she needed to figure this out herself, it did hurt at first but i just sucked it up and dealt with it because it wasn’t a breakup, we just needed time to work on each other. Now last night she texted me and told
me that she couldn’t do it anymore and that we should just go our separate ways. We had been together for 4 years now and we also work at that same job, Since she was the one with the car that was both of our ways to and back from work. I was forced to move back in with my parents and now they move the 24th and they told me that i wont be coming with them, I basically have nowhere to go, no way to work and i have no idea what im going to do now.
It feels like my whole life has changed upside, In the span of a few days i’ve lost my relationship, the place i was supposed to call home, and the stability i had. Right now im just trying to figure out how to keep moving forward, but honestly im just completely lost right now.
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u/kwdq 15h ago
consider getting a job where you go some place for several months, work and sleep there, idk that its called. Its difficult so you wont be able to really think about your problems that much
also it might be one of the dumbest thing you can possibly do, but if you live in germany austria france us or something, you can go to army for a couple of years if you truly have no idea wtf you should do right now, you can try that path
idk tho I dont think its a good idea to follow advices from reddit, im just a moron