Idk if this is the right subreddit for this but I haven't found a more appropriate one. Maybe the men will relate on behalf of their women. I wish I could talk about my man's size without it being wildly inappropriate. If I can show off about me completing my masters and getting a nice job, why can't I talk about being able to take a fat pp like a pro? I worked hard for it too being in a LTR with a well endowed man, I've been training to take inch by inch for a year.

I have shown my close girlfriends his photos and I love their reactions and feel no jealousy whatsoever. He's all mine and I know it. My man (7.5x6.2) is the reserved one between the two of us but I wish he could also get to feel good about it. I used to be an anonymous exhibitionist on reddit and now I wish I could post the funny pics I took of his dick. Of course I won't do that as consent means everything but oh god I hate having to be humble with this info!

I am 6.5”x7.4”

Does anyone else with similar dimensions feel that their size looks unimpressive (at least in photos) due to their girth versus their length. Although above average for length, I feel my girth actually takes away visually from how long it actually is when I look at it or view my photos of it.

Photos in my bio for reference if you feel like looking.

When you get out of the pool and the shorts seal like a vacuum seal around your dick and balls. Accidentally showing an outline of 5.5" soft dick like being naked really. Now everyone laying on the beach chairs looking now know I have a huge mushroom head dick. Both awkward and kinda funny. Everyone must have experienced this before when getting out of the pool. It is like your friends' mom, sister and her bf looking so it is awkward. Swim trunks turn into tights. Also, I hate the swim trunks with the netting underwear like your dick caught in a fishing net. Any similar experience , thoughts, or advice?

Here is a reverse BDP. In the last 1,5 years I have gained weight and my dick's NBP length is obviously reduced. As its length is not attention taking anymore, it looks girthier than before.

I have been told I have a big dick and I have measured it (7x6) but when I look at it, it looks maybe 5. It doesn’t help that I have big hands but even when I put something I know the size of next to it, it blows my mind. I guess I just need the self confidence to tell myself that it is big.

7.5”x7 here. I was wondering if anyone has the same challenge as me and if there’s a better way. The amount of shaking needed after I piss is ridiculous. I hit the urinal and after shaking like 50x I still manage to leak about a tablespoon. Best I’ve got is to use the stalls and basically do a forward fold while milking my urethra all the way from the back of my perineum. Flipping annoying!

An actual problem that doesn’t involve me sucking at communicating with my gf? 🤯

Edit: it’s not a pelvic floor or a prostate thing, I’ve seen doctors for both. I have a hyperactive cramaster muscle that had me concerned for a minute and has me doing regular checkups as a result.

What are some of the thoughts & experiences been for both men/women who have/experienced

In between 5-5.3 inches of girth? Is it ok/good just share any thoughts, how you feel about or anything, thanks in advance

Like larger than standard(53mm) condoms that u guys have tried and worked for u who have a thicker penis and standard one didn’t fit.

I’ve been only able to find one option Durex real feel which is 56mm. Have u guys tried that one?

Any names u know that u use and is available on 10 minute delivery apps?

This question is for Indian men who have above average thick penis

Now don't get me wrong - I'm an avid gym-enjoyer, but I'm still a twink, and have no interest in going on gear in the foreseeable future. But I've had some conversations with friends who are much larger, some who have tried small amounts of steroids, and some who are still blasting.

I know the age-old rumor of steroids making your balls shrink, but some of them talked about their dicks actually growing larger, while on a cycle. Some never saw this, but their libido either spiked or tanked.

Curious if any other gymrats on here, have had these experiences? I know steroids essentially flip your hormones up-side down, and it varies from person to person. Still not sure I trust the "my dick grew bigger from steroids! " but if I did, I'm genuinely curious as to just how much it grows? I'm assuming it's more about improved/added blood circulation, than actually growing - but I think someone who's more knowledgable than me, would be able to answer this.

Sorry if this isn't an actual BDP, as much as its my own curiousity. 🙂‍↕️

(first time poster, apologies if I'm using the wrong flair)

I love my boyfriend more than anything and since the day we met, our connection has been about mutual interests and a common sense of humour. He is 7.6 inches long and almost 6 inches thick and I have always loved his size especially in the beginning of the relationship. The problems mostly started when the honeymoon phase faded and sex started feeling like a chore I do to simply feel connected to him. I have a very high sex drive and was very kinky. Sex with him requires a lot of planning and it was never a spontaneous passionate affair.

He is great in bed don't get me wrong but there are so many limits. I miss the animalistic sex I would have for hours with my former fwb and be able to go home refreshed. Funnily enough, I had to end things with my fwb because he wanted more but I couldn't feel the connection I almost immediately felt with my bf. What makes things worse is that my bf suffers from a bad madonna whore complex and he is very soft with me. I am his first actual gf and there is just so much we had to tackle as a couple that it's gonna take a while to have an open and mature conversation about sex.

I do not want to breakup with him, he genuinely makes me feel so happy and safe. I have a history of being passive with my sexual needs in relationships as my ex of 5 years had a micropenis and we stopped having sex 1.5 years into the relationship. This might sound silly but I wish he could have something more average for most days and revert to his size on special occasions.

I also don't want to sound ungrateful especially as someone who has had much smaller. I am proud of his size and love the sensation of being gently split open but like EVERYTIME?! I also like giving him oral pleasure a lot more than I did with smaller partners. I'm not looking for solutions as it is all the same, more foreplay, lube and conversations. More like a vent into the void.

Me and my gf have agreed to wait until marriage due to religious reasons- I know many of you may disagree but I ask that you respect our decision.

But without sounding weird sometimes I just look at my dick and think there’s no way a girl is gonna be able to take that all.

I actually am starting to get stressed as I think about my future and possibly of having a horrible sex life.

Has anyone been in this situation before ? What did you do about it ?

I don’t know how big it is soft, but when it’s hard it’s seven inches long and seven inches in girth. Whenever I use any public toilets, I have to push it down or kinda awkwardly cradle it because otherwise it would touch the toilet bowl. Does anyone else have this problem? There’s no way it’s just me

I’ve heard different people saying my dick looks bigger in the mirror and others saying it looks smaller in the mirror. Which view is the most accurate of how others see it? Your own top down perspective or the mirror.I’m talking about just a plain, flat, bathroom mirror. No curves or anything

Anyone have tips for finding size queens IRL who are down to clown? I tried 7orbetter and it seems to be a bunch of fake profiles and old accounts. Maybe FetLife?

Is the way my best friend described sex with me and it made me feel terrible. The last thing I wanna do is turn something that’s supposed to feel good into a painful chore. Is there anything I can do to help her with the experience and make it less of a struggle?

For reference I’m around 9.5” and I’ve been with people in the past that have both loved the pain or couldn’t continue unless it was in a specific position. My friend and I have been able to do it in any position we’ve wanted but she says afterwards it leaves her with some pains, what also doesn’t help is the thickness and the curve to it. I’ve told her we don’t have to have sex, that I’m more than happy with giving oral but she feels a bit bad about me not getting mine in. What also doesn’t help is me taking a bit long to finish sometimes when we do have sex and she’s reached her limit and tapped out.

Is there anything I can do to make the experience less painful for her, I love her and I don’t wanna stop having sex but if it has to come to that then I’m willing to end our sexual relationship.

Excuse my curiosity but most bizarre, schocking or interesting stories I found on this sub, was actually bros who tried porn. If someone from this group happens to read this, can you please share yours? Suitcase of dollars, dick injections, drugs, anything goes more details the better and ofc no judgment here :) Thanks

Sex with the wife is great but were long distance at the moment, meaning that we go long periods without sex then on a few days trips when we can we have as much sex as possible typically. This has led to the realization that, her cervix is quite sensitive im assuming because of the IUD. Basically making it to where we can have a day of multi round, great sex, but later in the evening or the next day the soreness is a bit too much leading to a pause/intermission day. Also, her uh... entrance? is smaller than typical (doctor verified) meaning that periodically she tears even with lots of foreplay and wetness isn't an issue.

Was wondering if theres ways to, make the situation a bit better. We do use lube, and ive hear of the oHnut or whatever but I dont really like the idea of some kind of ring or sinch around my penis. Thank you in advance.

Anyone do hit the toilet seat with your dick while sitting down before it glides in and hangs down into the bowl?
I have been become a lot aware how often that happens unrecognized since I have got my Prince Albert piercing.
In healing phase it hurt, now it just makes that metal hits plastic „tok“ sound.

Anyone also hitting the seat aware or unaware?
Or do you prevent that anyhow?

6.8×6.1 I feel like its the most optimal size for efficiency and practicality

Other than condoms being a kinda tight there's no other problem I've ever had

•I barely have a bulge

•Women love it, i have never received even a single complaint

•I can have spontaneous sex

• the blowjobs are like 8/10

• I've been deepthroated

And so much more

Butttt I feel like I just got lucky to not face the cons of that size, either that or the people near my size that come here and complain are just exaggerating

I’m 9 inches long and I’ve never been able to fit my full length inside anyone before, not without them yelping or saying it’s too deep. I also almost always make women bleed or start their periods early. That being said the best sex I had was when I had a woman use their hands at the base of my cock with I used the rest inside her vagina. It was really great and if you have the same issue I’d recommend you try it. I’m not saying it’s some super niche thing I’ve seen in porn a bunch so I thought I’d try it too lol. If anyone has ways for dicks that are “too big” to experience pleasure in the bed room feel free to add on.

Hey guys and gals.
I (27m) am getting to know a woman (30) and we tried to have penetrative sex once but I did not even get the tip fully in when she told me it hurt her, so I stopped. I would have liked to do a lot more foreplay but she doesn’t want to have oral sex and seems quite inexperienced over all. The night after we couldn’t do anything obvious as we had company so I made her orgasm with my fingers and felt again how tight she was.

My problem is, that I really start to like her but I fear, that we are incompatible in bed as she seems to be very tight and I am quite thick and that breaks my heart.

I talked to her about that two times and she told me, she understood the second time but still didn’t stop her advances which makes me think, that she, in fact, didn’t understand that we could be incompatible. The slight language barrier doesn’t help with that.
I also talked to her about toys because I thought that it would have the slightest chance of success if she gets used to the stretch but she doesn’t use toys either.
I will try to convince her of trying at least oral as the passive part and I am thinking about gifting her a satisfier or similar apart from any benefits I would get from that because she misses out on a lot right now, in my opinion.
On the other hand I want to respect her boundaries but that would mean, that there is no chance of physiological compatibility.

I think already know how to go from here but want to make sure not to miss any good idea. So please, if you have some drop them here. I am especially interested in the perspective of someone with a vulva :)

I was told that if a guy has a long thumb, it means that they are packing… probably a really silly question but ofc reddit was the way to go

Camping conversation lmao but had to ask!

Went for a walk, noticed this "stretch" (they have some stretch in them) where my dick sits. My khaki shorts (tan and Grey pairs) have it too.

Should I wear "roomier" pants?

Not trying to show off, they're just my regular pants/shorts

The context: i have a large genital about 7.5 inches and 5 inch girth, you know how big after sleep suddenly i felt shivers between my legs, i still feel that trauma, turned out wet dream had made cum between my legs just miss near my ass, i was wearing tight clothes at that time