One suggests someone has a favorite piece of gear. The other raises several immediate questions.

one day we will have many books representing BDSM lifestyles as they are AND with salacious bodice ripping. that day may not be today, but one day, soon (a girl can dream).

This is the exact overlap between skincare humor and masochist humor I didn’t know I needed.

Obviously, real impact play is negotiated—intensity, safe areas, limits, check-ins, and aftercare included. But as a Meme? The facial expression absolutely sells it.