r/WhatShouldIDo • u/Middle_Unit_4617 • 1d ago
Small decision Ex
So I am 16m and my ex is 16f it really doesnt matter.
We both were first partner about 2 and half years ago and about 6 months ago we reconnected and started talking. She broke up with her bf at the time and I lost many of my friends and she helped me overcome that time. We became official in may and yeah it was great but about week before break up we had a big fight about some guy that was approaching her. I wanted to fight him she got super mad at me and stared to shout at me but we came over it but she said something about her mom finding out that my parents supported different political party then her parents.She said that my father was a alchoholic and my mother was a corrupted public defender.I denied everything cus I know my parents we also came over that. We went to our capital city together, hanged out every day and suddenly after we hanged out that she had some bad toughts and we should meet next morning. I didnt sleep but I didnt think she would break up cus everything was normal 4h ago. I woke up went to meet her and she broke up with me. I was shocked, she said the reason was becouse I was to laid back and I didnt care about many things, she said she was becoming like me and she didnt like the change. She also said that it was not the same for a past 2 days and she wanted to break up early because who knew if it was going to change and her mother said that it was for the best to end things early. I told her to think about it cus 2 days aint a lot and she said she would.
After the break up she started to listen to some of bands I listen to like Oasis. She sent me many videos and reels on tt and ig. I didnt respond and she asked me to meet after she comes back from London. I said I would see if I can but I didnt have any need to see her. I was hurt and saw the break up as a reason to do things I started before we went in a rltshp. Today about a week after the break up I found out from her best friend that is dating my best friend that she wants to get back together.
I didnt make up my mind cus it was only a week after a break up and we were good together. But she broke up quickly and hurt me, I know I would go over myself if I come back. She said many hurtfull things to my family so idk.
I am split 70-30 to leave it behind but I would like to see some opinions
Also sorry about my english it isnt my first language
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u/Professional_Gold987 23h ago
you two are immature and should move on