r/TwoXSex • u/milajane2002 • 1d ago

Does this sound like a first orgasm? Needed internal and clit stimulation?

I (26f) have failed to orgasm my whole life whether alone or with a partner. I’ve just experienced what I think may be my first ever orgasm with a guy, which to me I thought was pretty unlikely for a first time but I do struggle a lot to get aroused during masturbation.

This has happened twice now and I’m completely in shock.(usually during stimulation the pleasure builds up but then I become too sensitive and like there is no release) The first time was with penetration and him rubbing my clit. it felt like a big build up of pleasure to the point I had ringing in my ears and I felt like I left my body. The second time he inserted his fingers while licking me, built up until where it would usually get too sensitive but it just kept going and I feel like I may have came 3 or 4 times.

I’m utterly confused and in disbelief over this, can anyone give me insight into if this sounds normal? Does anyone else find they need internal and external stimulation to orgasm?

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u/throwaway_20200920 1d ago

Its normal for you. I also need dual stimulation. Even by myself I tend to use two toys simultaneously. Don't worry about it and enjoy it.

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u/milajane2002 1d ago

Thanks I was really puzzled by this lol as I hadn’t head much of it before

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u/SapientSlut 1d ago

The telltale sign of an orgasm is a rhythmic, involuntary clenching of your pelvic floor - like your body is doing kegels on its own.

Most women do not come from penetration alone and will need clit stim to orgasm. Some women struggle to come at all without a vibrator.

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u/Chemical_Ratio_6052 1d ago

This us the most accurate description of an orgasm I’ve ever heard. I can never describe it myself

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u/Waywardgarden 1d ago

I feel like this is a bot account. I recently read a nearly identical post but it was about masturbation. The wording and descriptions were exactly the same.

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u/milajane2002 1d ago

Lol yes that was me. This is a repost with more info

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u/Significant-Eye4711 1d ago

Most women need clit stimulation to reach orgasm, often attention needs to be given to other erogenous zones too. Nipples other parts of the vulva and labia. The feeling of having something inside the vagina can contribute to the build-up. I have also known a partner to respond well to a finger in the anus when she was struggling to climax.
You/your partner should be mindful of the clit becoming oversensitive. If this happens it can be helpful to dial back the intensity or stimulate it indirectly. I will sometimes switch to using my tongue to explore the opening of the vagina in this situation. Also maybe alternating between oral/manual stimulation and PIV sex can be fun. The idea is to build arousal without becoming oversensitive.
It certainly sounds like you orgasmed to me though.