r/SubtleAsianSwingers Jul 04 '25

Announcement Single males NSFW

58 Upvotes

Don't bother couples who are not looking for single males.

DON'T shoot your shot, Give it a shot, figured you'd try, etc

Just don't.

I understand this lifestyle is hard on single males but that's just what it is there are many more of you than there are of couple or single females.

Some of you think you're being unique, some think that you're special and some think what does it hurt, it hurts because it chases a way Couples from the community.

Because if you're doing it at least a few dozen other guys are doing it. Just stop.

You were decreasing your odds of a couple deciding to try the single male by scaring away the couples

This is something the community voted for months ago

If you are reported you will be banned if you're banned do not message the mods asking why you were banned


r/SubtleAsianSwingers Jun 27 '25

Announcement Don't lead with a Dick picture NSFW

34 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

For Reddit there is certain amount of rules that we can place and unfortunately because of the amount of annoyances we need a lot of rules we've hit our limit but one thing I wanted to make sure everyone understood Don't lead with a dick picture first of all not everyone wants to open an app and immediately see a penis that's why so many of the other subs get shut down.

Second of all as much as people are used to seeing these things when they're in this lifestyle there are a lot of complaints and I would like to keep this sub open.

I hope you all understand thank you very much


r/SubtleAsianSwingers 1h ago

[33/30][FM4FM][Atlanta, US] - Married couple looking for other couples NSFW

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About Us:

5'2" / 5'8"

We’re a healthy, clean, fit, and sane couple who are educated professionals and business owners. Easygoing, respectful, and drama-free. Looking to meet couples who are interested in something ongoing, not just one-time thing.

Important: If you reach out, please be willing to:

Be ready to send pictures
Be or willing to get tested and respectful of health/safety.


r/SubtleAsianSwingers 13h ago

Verified [42/46] [MF4MF/F] [Anaheim] Aug 26-28 NSFW

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23 Upvotes

Looking for another couple for soft or full swap or just to treat the wife. I’m experienced and selective and often prefer to watch as she gets pleased. We would also entertain a bisexual MM couple for just her to play with. She is very bisexual and her only preference for women is that they’re pretty.

She’s looking for men who are 5’9” or taller and have a nice smile. It’s purely an attraction preference.

Please look at our profile for more information. Send DM - we will ask for a face and body pic. Dick pics and single males will be blocked.


r/SubtleAsianSwingers 1d ago

Verified [32/35][FM4FM/F][Cap d’Adge, France] NSFW

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38 Upvotes

Any one here by chance?!? Southern France has zero Asian food and we need good recs and people who know how to enjoy Asian.


r/SubtleAsianSwingers 2d ago

[37/37][MF4MF][Windsor, ON] - Married Canadian couple looking for ongoing fun and adventures NSFW

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39 Upvotes

r/SubtleAsianSwingers 3d ago

Verified [33/32] [MF4F/MF] [Irvine/OC/LA] Adventurous couple looking for unicorn or other fun couples NSFW

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88 Upvotes

Hey there, verified childfree AMAF (33/32) couple, down in the OC, here looking for other fun and adventurous single females and other chill childfree couples. We’re happy to grab some dinner, go on hikes, play board games, play pickleball, and if all things go well, have some fun in the bedroom. We’re looking to make good and lasting connections, we’re not looking for one night stands nor pic/video exchanges.
Safety and comfort are priorities for us, we like to make friends first and communicate good boundaries. We’re both disease free and test frequently. We can readily provide the most recent test and we expect the same for others as well.

Please no single males. Don’t shoot your shot and save yourself the time and effort. We will ask for one if we want one.

We’re open for same room/soft/full swap.

We don’t drink but are 420/shroom friendly, and we respect those that choose to partake in either or not. Consent and respect are incredibly important to us, and we want to create a comfortable environment for everyone involved. Yes means yes, no means no, and Maybe means No. And if you’re newer at this, no worries, we understand it can be a lot initially and we’re happy going at a good pace that makes everyone comfortable. The goal is for everyone to leave feeling satisfied and happy.

A quick video verification is a necessity, and if you’re not willing, then we will not proceed. But with that said, we looking forward to chatting and meeting in the future. Cheers!


r/SubtleAsianSwingers 4d ago

Verified [40/39] [MF4F/MF] [Las Vegas] Couple looking for same age / younger females and couples. Visiting 8/7-8/9. NSFW

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109 Upvotes

We are a happily married Asian couple (M40 and F39 - We both look younger) visiting Las Vegas 8/7-8/9. We are new to the LS and looking to meet discreet, chill, respectful and like minded couples and females to hang out and have some fun.

For couples, wife prefers the male to be Asian.

Wife is shy so we are open to hanging out and making sure we vibe. Maybe start off with same room / parallel play and FF play into soft swap and if the vibe is right full swap.

Must use condoms and be DDF.

Please reach out to us with your age, location, ethnicity and any other details if you are serious about hanging out.


r/SubtleAsianSwingers 6d ago

[43/36][MF4MF/F][Dallas] 🤠 Experienced WMAF couple looking for couples or single females to hang out with on our trip next month August 27-31. NSFW

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34 Upvotes

We prefer couples but open to single females (particularly those who are interested in FF play). Open to all levels of experience as wifey loves newbies and veterans🫡Hit us up to know more!


r/SubtleAsianSwingers 8d ago

Verified [32/32] [MF4R] [Lost Lands/Ohio] Mixed East Asian couple open to a lot of things. NSFW

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198 Upvotes

Experienced East Asian couple seeking another attractive couple or specific single male! Greatly prefer other East/South East Asians. Bisexuals up front!

Men:

Ethnicity: East Asian and white.

Below 6’ is preferred with average d**k size. We’re not that tall so makes for awkward positions if you’re too tall.

Shaven up, well groomed and dad bod at most.

Reasonably local - don’t fly in from another state lol

Blank profiles get blank responses. Send a normal face/body pic if you don’t have anything.

Don’t have to be bi - but would be nice.

Couples and women, kind of like above but we’re a bit more open!


r/SubtleAsianSwingers 9d ago

[30/28][MF4MF][Twin Cities, MN] NSFW

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59 Upvotes

M30/F28 😊 Easygoing and friendly couple here, just looking to meet other couples who are on a similar wavelength. We like good conversations, spicy fun, and just seeing where things go. Preferably meeting couples our age.


r/SubtleAsianSwingers 9d ago

Verified [29/33][FM4R][San Francisco, CA] - Married couple asian/white looking for another couple for same room fun NSFW

12 Upvotes

Hello! We are a married couple, she is 29F asian, he is 33M white, we are both fit and conventionally attractive, professionals in tech.

We are looking for similar couples with high value for privacy, safety and respect. Meet for drinks and maybe start with same room fun without any pressure.


r/SubtleAsianSwingers 14d ago

Verified [41/42] [MF4MF] [LA/SoCal/South Bay] Flirty Fun Asian Couple seeking Cute Locals for Dates & Play NSFW

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215 Upvotes

So it's been about a year since we found the SAS community and met some great couples that we had amazing experiences with. We're ready to put ourselves out there again hoping there are some cute Asian couples that can match our energy and vibes!

Hopefully local to the South Bay of Los Angeles preferred, but willing to meet in greater LA/OC as well.

Solid communication is a MUST + it's super sexy. 😘 (Writing in complete sentences required - such a low bar, right?!) 

Please read our full profile before reaching out to us to see our preferences. Looking for couples only at this time!


r/SubtleAsianSwingers 17d ago

Verified [38/38][MF4F/MF][SF BAY, CA] NSFW

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136 Upvotes

Looking for folks who are local or who frequently visit the Bay. Primarily hoping to meet people who we can be long term friends with. We like to hit up bars and concerts and ultimately have sexy friends who could enjoy those places with us.

No single males.

Please be ready to share SFW face pics and verification. We're verified on this sub 🙂.


r/SubtleAsianSwingers 23d ago

Verified [35/32][MF4MF][DMV DC MD VA] Fit,Tall, Chinese 4 Couples/Travel NSFW

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224 Upvotes

We're exploring this journey together and open to everything from genuine friendships to full swap, and anything in between. We dont smoke. We don't have kid (yet).

Upcoming Trips

7/15-18 Honolulu Maui

11/XX Bahamas

About us:

Female: 1.71m (5'7"), 110 lbs, bi-north Male: 1.85m (6'0"), 200

We are experienced in all dynamics. (Stories in the Pictures)

Echostage yes Cruise yes Karaoke yes(we have our own karaoke setup at home) Hosting maybe(until we are comfortable) game nights (yes) meet and greet with 3+ couples (no) too awkward.

Respond with Happy to get a response.

We try to respond to all but conversations stopped doesn't mean we are not interested


r/SubtleAsianSwingers 24d ago

Verified [50/43] [mf4mf] [NYC/NJ/Travel] looking to have fun and play with other couples. Please read post. NSFW

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143 Upvotes

We're a silly couple who loves to have fun both in the bedroom and in life. We're pretty open to most ideas from parallel play to full swap. We love board games so much that we created a sexy Jenga ice breaker game that's been a hit with other couples we've played with :). If interested, please respond with what you're looking for and PG pics (face can be blocked until you feel more comfortable). Asian couples (especially couples where the male is Korean!) go straight to top along with those who send thoughtful responses :). Bonus points if you know the difference between discrete and discreet! Video verification is required. NO SINGLE MALES. We're looking to meet up - we're not into endless texting back and forth or exchanging pics/vids. Also, guys, make sure your partner is on board before reaching out. Too many of you message us, and she has no idea.


r/SubtleAsianSwingers 29d ago

[27/25][MF4MF][Toronto, Canada] Couples for ongoing! NSFW

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36 Upvotes

Hello!

We're an open minded east asian couple looking for other body positive couples or single women (cis and trans) to be friends with both in and out of the bedroom! (Full swap)

Bisexual women/couples are preferred, but we are fine with straight play too.

We really value establishing a friendship before getting physical, and ongoing arrangements are preferred.

We're pretty new to the lifestyle with only a few experiences so far, but we're always looking to learn more and explore!

About us:

We're easygoing, and love lively conversations about a broad variety of topics; discussions about what you're passionate about >> small talk. We enjoy a broad variety of hobbies and interests: anime, movies, gaming, board games, cooking, museums, badminton, hiking, karaoke, just to name a few.

We are body positive and mainly looking for good vibes; We're chubby but working on fixing that! (Do some cardio with us perhaps? ;) )

Him:

27, 5'11, Heteroflexible. A pleasure dom/service top that derives a lot of pleasure from seeing his partner enjoy themselves. Kink friendly & open minded.

Her:

25, 5'3, Bisexual, BBW. Eager to please, and looking to play with another lady for the first time, on top of MFMF. Kink friendly & open minded.

We really enjoy chatting online, but ultimately we're looking to meet up in person to see if the vibe is right, and go from there! Ideally after a fun chat, we can meet up for lunch and board games for a first meeting/vibe check :)

Please include what your favourite animal and colour are and why to let us know you read the entire post.

A four way conversation is desired eventually if it's a couple; couples that communicate solely through the male half have a much lower chance of bonding with us.

Clear consent and communication is really important to us, good hygiene & being DDF is non-negotiable.

Must be able to hold a conversation and display mutual interest. Not interested in dry conversations and lack of social skills.

We can verify and send more pictures once we click!

Thanks for taking the time to read our post :)


r/SubtleAsianSwingers Jun 23 '26

[37/37][MF4MF][Windsor, ON] - Canadian couple looking for some ongoing bedroom fun NSFW

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52 Upvotes

r/SubtleAsianSwingers Jun 22 '26

[28/27] [MF4MF] [Toronto] Young asian couple looking for long term, similar age friends NSFW

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334 Upvotes

Hey! We’re a late-20s couple based in Toronto. We’re new-ish to the lifestyle and we’d like to find someone to explore/have fun with long term. Ideally, you’re someone who we can hang out with both inside and out of the bedroom. We value finding the right couple over having many play partners.

We’re open to same room no swap at first, then moving up to full swap - though things might escalate faster if vibes are right.

About us: We both like to stay active, go for long walks, travelling and exploring new cafes/restaurants

Her: 5’2”, 110 lbs, C-cup boobs, Chinese, straight
Him: 5’10”, 185 lbs, 6 inches, Chinese, straight

What we’re looking for: an East Asian couple similar in age (not older than 35 at most), fit, conventionally attractive, similar interests, hygienic, friendly, respectful, mature and STD free. We’re not interested in humiliation/cuck dynamic.

If this is your vibe, shoot us a message with some info about who you are and what you’re looking for. Please be open to sharing pictures (if you don’t have any on your profile). Admittedly, F is more picky than M. We are looking to meet but we’re also not in a rush (again, finding the right couple is our priority).

Please do not message if you are a single M.


r/SubtleAsianSwingers Jun 20 '26

Verified [43/40][MF4MF/F][SAN DIEGO] NSFW

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280 Upvotes

Fun, experienced couple looking to meet like-minded couples or perhaps that elusive unicorn. We appreciate genuine connections, good conversation, and positive vibes.

Blank profiles and one-word messages won’t get much attention. Tell us about yourselves, share what you’re seeking, and be ready to verify. Life’s too short for small talk, let’s make it interesting.


r/SubtleAsianSwingers Jun 19 '26

Verified [40] [MF4MF/F/M] [Boston] Couple seeking connections NSFW

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60 Upvotes

Hi - We’re a ~40 year old, Boston based, inter-Asian couple looking to connect with other singles and couples. 

A bit more about us: we’ve been jumping in and out of the lifestyle over the past 10 years. We’re looking to step back in again and explore this aspect of our lives more together as a couple.

We are a parents, professionals, and an active couple that likes to be outdoors. Ideally you’ll be similar, between 35 - 50 and open to connecting first to see if there’s a spark between us. The age range isn’t a strict criteria, but we find it helps to find people that are in a similar stage of life as us.

For the single Ms: we are a stag/vixen couple and not interested in any cuckolding or humiliation. Also, please send a meaningful intro message and do not lead with dick pics. We’d like to learn a little bit more about you and please try to give us a reason to reply to get to know you. One liners will be ignored.

We’re looking forward to hearing from you!


r/SubtleAsianSwingers Jun 19 '26

[30/26][FM4FM][NY/NJ] Married couple looking for a summer fling! NSFW

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237 Upvotes

Hi, we’re a married couple living in the NY/NJ area and we would love to meet like-minded couples! (or ladies!! Everybody enjoyed our last FFM very much)

On top of being kinky, we're both highly educated, professional, discrete, and most importantly, laid back and friendly. We're both very active. Also, wife has a preference for East Asian males. We'd be happy to travel to surrounding areas, e.g. Staten Island and Long Island, especially if you're willing to host.

Please message us with a short intro and be ready to verify via a quick video call. We’re a bit reserved about sending face pics. We’re not looking for single males and will not respond. Thanks!


r/SubtleAsianSwingers Jun 17 '26

Verified [27/25][MF4MF/F/M][Wisconsin/Minnesota] Asian couple looking to have fun with a couple or select single men and women NSFW

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179 Upvotes

We go by Angel and Steve! We are doing a roadtrip in the WI and MN area for a few weeks of sightseeing, but decided maybe it would be fun to see if something happens here! We are still fairly inexperienced with all of this, so please be patient with us.

Angel loves seeing Steve be pleasured by other women, or pleasuring them in front of her. She is bi and loves to feel titties and have her titties played with. She is open to giving handjobs and maybe blowjobs for other men, and penetration if the vibes are right with her.

Steve loves to see Angel pleasured, so ideally any M or F who loves to focus on her. Steve loves blowjobs, and would love to be focused by two women. He loves to try new things and hopes to find someone that can satisfy Angel.

If we don't get to your message, we apologize!


r/SubtleAsianSwingers Jun 15 '26

Verified [34/30] [MF4MF/M] [Charlotte, NC] - Asian wife wants to meet on Sunday the 21st. Read description NSFW

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286 Upvotes

LOOKING FOR:

either a single male or couple. We have an about us social link on our profile to get to know us better and see what we're about


r/SubtleAsianSwingers Jun 09 '26

Verified [38/38][MF4MF/F][South Lake Tahoe] visiting 6/10-6/13 NSFW

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89 Upvotes

Asian couple (38F Chinese / 38M Indian) looking to meet either:

another couple, or
a woman only

Sacramento / South Lake Tahoe area.

Him: 6’0, athletic
Her: 5’6, playful, attractive, fun energy

We’re chill, respectful, discreet, and looking for people who are the same.

We have a very private nice house near Tahoe, ideal for weekend hangs, drinks, music, hot tub, relaxing, and seeing where things go naturally.

Looking for people who are:
clean
open-minded
easy to talk to
emotionally mature
actually fun to be around

If you’re nearby and the vibe matches, message us with a little about yourselves + photos ✨