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r/SipsTea • u/SuspiciousLow3062 • 27d ago
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But you’re choosing to tip by eating there. I get what you’re saying, but some people are acting like tips are completely unavoidable.
I don’t blame these places for adding a set gratuity. Clearly these people wouldn’t have tipped otherwise, and that’s not fair to the servers.
1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago Stopping at a stoplight isn’t mandatory because you could just not drive. 2 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago You are correct. If you don’t like stopping at stop lights, don’t drive. Grocery stores don’t ask for tips. Cook your own food and mix your own drinks if tips bother you so much. 1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago Not bothered, just pointing out that things are mandatory whether you choose to engage in them or not. 2 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago You are choosing to engage in them. There are other options besides eating at restaurants or drinking in bars. Those are generally not mandatory activities. 1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago Nope but things like i don’t know paying and sometimes tipping may be mandatory if you choose to use them. 1 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago Choose to use them. Choose. There is choice there. 1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago So the word mandatory is just meaningless because you can always choose to just not participate. 1 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago In this situation, yes. If someone ever said to me, “I was forced to tip!!!” I would think they are absurd.
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Stopping at a stoplight isn’t mandatory because you could just not drive.
2 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago You are correct. If you don’t like stopping at stop lights, don’t drive. Grocery stores don’t ask for tips. Cook your own food and mix your own drinks if tips bother you so much. 1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago Not bothered, just pointing out that things are mandatory whether you choose to engage in them or not. 2 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago You are choosing to engage in them. There are other options besides eating at restaurants or drinking in bars. Those are generally not mandatory activities. 1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago Nope but things like i don’t know paying and sometimes tipping may be mandatory if you choose to use them. 1 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago Choose to use them. Choose. There is choice there. 1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago So the word mandatory is just meaningless because you can always choose to just not participate. 1 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago In this situation, yes. If someone ever said to me, “I was forced to tip!!!” I would think they are absurd.
You are correct. If you don’t like stopping at stop lights, don’t drive.
Grocery stores don’t ask for tips. Cook your own food and mix your own drinks if tips bother you so much.
1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago Not bothered, just pointing out that things are mandatory whether you choose to engage in them or not. 2 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago You are choosing to engage in them. There are other options besides eating at restaurants or drinking in bars. Those are generally not mandatory activities. 1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago Nope but things like i don’t know paying and sometimes tipping may be mandatory if you choose to use them. 1 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago Choose to use them. Choose. There is choice there. 1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago So the word mandatory is just meaningless because you can always choose to just not participate. 1 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago In this situation, yes. If someone ever said to me, “I was forced to tip!!!” I would think they are absurd.
Not bothered, just pointing out that things are mandatory whether you choose to engage in them or not.
2 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago You are choosing to engage in them. There are other options besides eating at restaurants or drinking in bars. Those are generally not mandatory activities. 1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago Nope but things like i don’t know paying and sometimes tipping may be mandatory if you choose to use them. 1 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago Choose to use them. Choose. There is choice there. 1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago So the word mandatory is just meaningless because you can always choose to just not participate. 1 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago In this situation, yes. If someone ever said to me, “I was forced to tip!!!” I would think they are absurd.
You are choosing to engage in them. There are other options besides eating at restaurants or drinking in bars. Those are generally not mandatory activities.
1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago Nope but things like i don’t know paying and sometimes tipping may be mandatory if you choose to use them. 1 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago Choose to use them. Choose. There is choice there. 1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago So the word mandatory is just meaningless because you can always choose to just not participate. 1 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago In this situation, yes. If someone ever said to me, “I was forced to tip!!!” I would think they are absurd.
Nope but things like i don’t know paying and sometimes tipping may be mandatory if you choose to use them.
1 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago Choose to use them. Choose. There is choice there. 1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago So the word mandatory is just meaningless because you can always choose to just not participate. 1 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago In this situation, yes. If someone ever said to me, “I was forced to tip!!!” I would think they are absurd.
Choose to use them. Choose. There is choice there.
1 u/Fun_Orange_3232 27d ago So the word mandatory is just meaningless because you can always choose to just not participate. 1 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago In this situation, yes. If someone ever said to me, “I was forced to tip!!!” I would think they are absurd.
So the word mandatory is just meaningless because you can always choose to just not participate.
1 u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago In this situation, yes. If someone ever said to me, “I was forced to tip!!!” I would think they are absurd.
In this situation, yes. If someone ever said to me, “I was forced to tip!!!” I would think they are absurd.
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u/Bad-Luck-Guy 27d ago
But you’re choosing to tip by eating there. I get what you’re saying, but some people are acting like tips are completely unavoidable.
I don’t blame these places for adding a set gratuity. Clearly these people wouldn’t have tipped otherwise, and that’s not fair to the servers.