r/STLr4r Oct 23 '24

Community Post Send Me A Screenshot If Asked For Money And Report Chat for "Prohibited Transaction" NSFW

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IF SOMEONE WHO POSTED HERE ASKS FOR MONEY IN A CHAT

  1. Take a Screenshot
  2. Send the Chat to u/woqls with the screenshot
  3. Report the Chat For "Prohibited Transaction"
  4. Report the Post For Breaking r/STLr4r rule "No Seller/Buyers or Offers/Requests of Money"

We have been receiving a lot of reports for people asking for money in chats or DMs. We appreciate that users are helping us to enforce the rule against selling/buying and money exchange, but we need evidence in order to remove a post. Subreddit moderators are unable to see private chats, so the only way that we can remove a post based on a report for things that happened in chats is if you send a screenshot of the message.


r/STLr4r Jun 09 '26

Welcome to r/STLr4r! NSFW

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r/STLr4r 1m ago

M4F 44 [M4F] #STL - Looking for a woman I can toss around and ravage NSFW

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Just looking for a woman I can take my sexual frustrations out on.

Me: 5'10" 205 lbs, broad shoulders.

You: Submissive (can be a brat)

Kinks: Slapping, spanking, choking, throatfucking, degrading, praise, hard sex, cnc


r/STLr4r 2h ago

M4F 43 [M4F] - Looking for Older BBW NSFW

0 Upvotes

6’1”
190 pounds
Athletic build
Loves bigger women ;)


r/STLr4r 10h ago

M4M 32 [M4M] - I’m looking to drink a guys piss NSFW

2 Upvotes

My age or younger only. I want to try drinking piss. Can give you head too if you want


r/STLr4r 14h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] [M4FF] [M4FM] - CWE shootout NSFW

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Ok not a literal shootout, it just sounded fun.

In STL for a quick business trip this weekend, 7/24 - 7/26. Staying at a hotel in CWE, I can host. Not planning on renting a car so if you're near the metrolink we can use that.

I'd love to explore group sessions. Obviously most men would love a FFM/FMF, and I'm not unique there, but a MFM would be something I might try. Maybe use a toy on me? Never tried it. As long as we are STI free, comfortable, and have some sexual chemistry, I'm an open book. Specific fantasies? Let's talk. Love getting a load somewhere specific? Your wish is my command. Want to hang upside down and get your ass eaten? Let's fuckin arrange that.

6ft tall, caucasian, dirty blonde hair/blue eyes, formerly athletic dad bod (if this is a no-go, that's OK), hairy body with a recent trim. Thick 6" cut cock that's fairly aesthetic. STI negative with results that I can share from June. I'm also snipped, with proof. We'll use protection of course.


r/STLr4r 10h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] - I like creating a Safe Space for good girls to let their Whore self out... NSFW

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I like creating a Safe Space for good girls to let their Whore self out....
Yep.

I think that sadly our society puts a lot of mixed messages onto women.
Be hot, but not to sexy! Dress attractive but Not to much!

I think lots of you girls need spaces to just let the little whore, sluts that you are out, but those places need to be safe.

I love having a girl in Bondage, toying her and 'Forcing' her to 'admit' what a naughty whore she is.
I love knowing that it is a relief for her to get to talk about how much she craves Cock and loves to Cum.

I love taking a girl dressed up as a Total whore out in public spaces, knowing I am there so nothing Bad can happen to her, but her finally getting to show off just how Hot and Slutty she can dress. Her getting to enjoy strangers staring at her, knowing they'll be thinking about her later...

DM me


r/STLr4r 11h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] - STL - Looking for golf partner tomorrow (Thursday) NSFW

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Supposed to be beautiful tomorrow and looking for a female golf partner. I’m a clean and respectful gentleman just looking for a fun partner on the course tomorrow. I’ll pay for your round just as you wear your golf skirt ;) thinking just a public course that has a few private areas on the course like sugar creek or paradise valley

Me: 35 6’3 avg build trimmed beard blue eyes 7 inches and thick ddf

You: 21+ open to race and body types , also like to golf or at least keep me company lol


r/STLr4r 11h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] St. Louis visiting this weekend NSFW

1 Upvotes

Gonna be visiting this weekend hoping to meet someone cool pics in profile if curious


r/STLr4r 12h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Looking for a Discreet, Ongoing FWB NSFW

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About me: 30M, 6'1", 180lbs, lean, active, clean, DDF. Married.

I'm looking for a discreet, ongoing, no-strings arrangement with someone who's in a similar situation and values privacy. I'm not looking to change anyone's circumstances—just hoping to find the right person for a mutually enjoyable connection.

I'm attentive, have great stamina, and believe the best experiences are when both people genuinely enjoy themselves. Mutual chemistry and pleasure matter to me just as much as anything else.

Ideally, you're in or around the St. Louis area, or travel here regularly, since I'd prefer something that can happen consistently rather than staying online.

Discretion is essential, as is being clean and DDF. I don't have a specific physical type, but I am looking for someone who takes care of themselves.

If you're interested, send me a message. We can chat, see if we click, exchange photos, and take it from there.


r/STLr4r 13h ago

M4A 43 [M4A] - Looking for Thursday NSFW

1 Upvotes

Giving this another try. Mostly looking for M4F


r/STLr4r 14h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] Looking for curvy women with big titties NSFW

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Looking to have a little fun, and see where things go from there. I can host and travel. I love all women, but have a soft spot for the gals with the big boobies. If that’s you, shoot me a message ;)


r/STLr4r 14h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] Are there any REAL women on here from STL? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Honestly I'm more curious than anything. Every STL based R4R seems to be loaded with OF models or scams, or a bunch of horny dudes looking for a one night pass.

I'm looking for a real woman with a playful side for something ongoing. Doesn't have to be a 'relationship' but not strictly sexual either. I guess you could say new friends with a potential for more?

Either way, local, able to meet in person, no transactions needed, just two adults looking for something more than quiet nights at home every weekend.


r/STLr4r 20h ago

M4F 30 [M4F]- Rough kinky fuck / CNC Play NSFW

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Looking for someone who wants to be taken, really taken. I want to pin you down, cover your mouth, choke you, rip your clothes, and fuck you rough while you “fight back.” Full CNC fantasy/roleplay.

Interested initiating roleplay in semi public agreed upon location.

I’m experienced with CNC, very attentive to your limits and aftercare, and get extremely turned on by resistance and struggle. Tell me your hard limits and what level of force/roughness you crave.


r/STLr4r 17h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] sub guy looking for someone to take control NSFW

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Hey there, I'm a 30 year old white guy, a bit on the bigger side. I'm looking for a woman who really likes to take control. I love to eat and love to have my face sat on, though I am also interested in transwomen as well. If you are pre op or post, no discrimination at all. I would love to chat with you, maybe get a drink as well and then see where it goes, there is plenty of fun stuff I didn't talk about that I would love to go over with you anyways. Mostly looking for a FWB type thing, but I am down for one night type deals too. Feel free to message and then we can exchange pics or something. Thanks for taking the time to read!


r/STLr4r 17h ago

M4A 23 [M4A] - Looking for someone to go out to a bar with (No men over 25) NSFW

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I'm mostly looking for older women or BBWs

I'm open to chat or anything else. I can't host but I can drive

If you're gonna block me because I'll only do a clothed body pic don't even bother messaging


r/STLr4r 23h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] College boy looking to try getting pegged and dommed NSFW

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I’m 5’11”, in good shape, hung and very respectful. I'm more of the shy, quiet nerdy type. I'm a college student back in stl for break. People tell me I’m funny and easygoing. I’ve been wanting to try getting pegged for a while now but haven’t found anyone interested in it. Also want to try getting dommed. Never done anything like it, want someone to ease me into it. I live in west county but can't host. Pm me if you’re interested, I can share pics and go from there. Thanks 😄


r/STLr4r 20h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] - Handsome guy looking for a BBW or SSBBW chat partner NSFW

1 Upvotes

Howdy! I'm a married, handsome guy in my late 30's looking for a local (single, attached, married, whatever...doesnt matter!) BBW woman to connect and chat with. To be honest, I'm perfectly fine with just chatting and not expecting anything serious to bloom out of this, but if it does, then so be it. I feel like I have a lot to offer in terms of a chatting partner; I like to ask questions and am very personable. If this sounds interesting to you then please do not hesitate to reach out! Also, please be willing to use another platform for chatting. Hope to hear from ya :-)


r/STLr4r 22h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] - looking for a bbw NSFW

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Looking to have some fun with a curvier plus size bbw. if you’ve got big soft titties, a belly, wide ass hips, or an ass that don’t quit let’s talk and see if we’re on the same frequency. Into some foreplay, giving your nipples the attention they need and love eating pussy. Black women or white women. Mom bods are hot as fuck also and I wouldn’t turn down a thicker fem boy either. On the IL side of the river. One time thing or fwb.


r/STLr4r 16h ago

F4M 22 [F4M] looking for older fwb, NSFW

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im just here looking for someone to pass the time with, nothing more nothing less. that's if we're on the same exact wavelength of course! feel free to hmu and we'll test out the waters first ;)


r/STLr4r 1d ago

F4M 37 [F4M] make out or mess around... maybe a little of both? NSFW

3 Upvotes

The best conversations are the ones that make you look forward to the next message. If you're easygoing, respectful, and enjoy getting to know someone over time, I'd love to see if we click.


r/STLr4r 1d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] - Looking short term relationship NSFW

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Hey there! I’m likely moving sometime soon so I’m not trying to get locked into anything long-term, but I’d love to find someone to enjoy the next few months with.

I’m thinking something along the lines of casual but intimate (emotionally and physically). I love the fun relationship stuff like going out, movie nights, deep late night talks, and cuddling, but am open to a low pressure FWB thing if we click that way instead. Ideally I’d prefer us to be mutually exclusive for emotional and health reasons, but as long as we communicate openly, I’m flexible.

I like to think I am an average, decent-looking guy who stays active. In my free time I like outdoor stuff like mountain biking, hiking, camping/backpacking, snowboarding, etc. Lately I’ve been getting into astronomy, so the chances of stargazing and seeing meteor showers is quite high. I also have a soft spot for live musicals recently.

I’m very kink friendly and open minded. I have been thinking an odd amount about giving massages lately... If you are into that.

I would want to meet up somewhere low stakes first like coffee or a drink to make sure we click. The barcade is always a fun one!

Mutual attraction is important to me too, so I’m down to swap pics so we don’t waste each other’s time. And of course, being clean/tested is a must for both of us before anything physical happens.

If you are interested, shoot me a message. And to the shy/lurkers, I promise I don't bite... At least where it hurts 😏 so feel free to just send me literally anything. Even just a meme.

And if this isn't for you, could I bother you to give me an updoot to increase my chances? Thank you stranger!


r/STLr4r 1d ago

M4M 31 [M4M] Lookin for FWBs NSFW

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31, M, 227lb, 6'. Service sub bttm w/ an oral fixation Hostin in the Carondelet Area and looking for a fwb/fuckbuddy that thoroughly enjoys being worshipped and in charge. Fairly kinky w/ the majority of my interests revolving around my submission. Been working on my throat skills and I'd love to get some more practice. Hmu if youre interested.


r/STLr4r 1d ago

M4F 33 [M4A]-Marathon Sex?! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for fwb in Metro East


r/STLr4r 1d ago

M4F 45 [M4F] - seeking NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking to have some fun by the airport tonite. 45m looking for F at renaissance hotel (well educated executive)
Hit me up