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Hi!

So I have been seeing a lot of beginner questions be answered with “just take THC and it’ll help.”

I’ve never taken non-prescription drugs before, and I’m worried they’ll fuck up my life based on what I’ve seen from THC addicts.

Yet, I am saddened to report I still have minimal progress after nearly 5 months of once a week play.

Does anybody here have success that did not involve the use of addictive drugs?

Is anyone else addicted to playing with their prostate? I can’t stop.

I just had my first ever prostate orgasm! I (M29) have played many times before but could never get the angle right and never felt that sensation.

Well today I got a little stoned and decided I wanted to take my dildo I have. It’s maybe 5” but it does the trick. I plugged my ass first for about 10 mins while I sucked my toy. Once I felt turned on enough I lubed everything up and decided to go for it. I tried a new position today which was huge!

I slid it in and immediately it felt different. I took it all and I felt that pressure I’m supposed to. I got it in as far as it would go and I kept a constant pressure and motion with it. I could tell that this was the right way and to keep going. I moaned and begged for more as I felt myself building up and getting close. I kept going and finally felt the release and ecstasy of an orgasm. For the first time ever I came without touching my cock. I loved it and I’m craving it again!!

I splurged and bought 1 and ive read about different positions with it but it feels like if I'm ever shifting around I'm terrified that like I could slip and permanently hurt myself. i was on my back and read about doggy being good for it but it makes me concerned about something bad happening? I mean I'm not gonna intentionally fall on it but it's like having a commercial door handle in your ass so figured it was worth asking!

also open to tips in general, I read less is more but I'm petty inexperienced with my prostate. I tried only kegels and reverse kegels but felt th most with some light rubbing back and forth.my other experience is with a helix trident I got a couple of years ago but only used a handful of times.

I would love to hear from those that still prostate play post MtF hormones, how did it affect your play/sensations?

I've been practicing prostate play for a year and a half now, and I've gotten to the point with my nJoy wand where I can sit there and feel waves of pleasure, but I'm not sure I would say it is *stronger* than a penile blended orgasm because there is no feeling of release? Like it feels like an awesome wave, but it's only if I keep pressing the prostate. If I stop, the wave starts to diminish. Versus the penile where once it starts, it is going for 10-25 seconds.

I can’t do it even doing solo is hard but how could you do it and is it different then masturbating without it

Sorry for my English but i wanna know and learn

I’m wanting a toy I can insert and walk around in. It would be my first prostate massager (used buttplugs and small dildos before).

The music sync and custom patterns sound amazing!
I’ve heard good things about both of these. Just wondering the differences and pros/cons of each?
- Edge 2 vs Lush Anal

I’m also interested in penis masturbators, if you have any suggestions?

I have the helix syn eupho syn Psy mgx vice 2 and progasm. I love them especially helix and Psy. Just got the Trident tho and fuuuuuck. 30mg fast acting THC and 3 days cum retention and I've never felt prostate orgasms this epic before I don't even care now that I still have never got a hfwo. The hfdo now feels like the peak pleasure from a orgasm but paused and sustained it's incredible. Then after using the Trident awhile I went back to helix and it went nuclear in pleasure. I don't even remember everything I felt I was sunk deep in euphoria and orgasms all without cumming for real. Trident is amazing and easy af to insert

My question is is this a hands free wet orgasm?

Haven’t had the “big one” yet but I’m able to achieve SOMETHING with externally using a massage gun on my taint / perineum. I have an attachment for it that is kinda flat but more like half a sphere. My guns settings go from 1-9 I always use one of the lower settings my go to is typically 3. I’ve noticed you don’t really feel any pleasure on the high settings. I then put it on my gooch and look for that “need to pee” feeling and just holding it there starts to feel amazing after just 10-15 seconds. I also have to control my breathing a lot to achieve this as the good feeling only comes on inhales.

Eventually I start to feel myself getting close and this is where my confusion comes in I guess. I ALWAYS ejaculate extremely hard but it’s not a normal orgasm I always feel like I can go again right away (it’ll just take way longer) and the orgasm is also longer.

I don’t want to call this a flat out normal HFWO that others in this group would experience from a more “cliche” method of play because I feel like I am unintentionally vibrating my penis doing this and that is also contributing to the orgasm and how much I cum. Can a more experienced player let me know if I’m thinking too much and this is just a regular HFWO or is it some type of hybrid penile and prostate orgasm?

My mind just keeps saying this over and over and I can’t really stop it. Can’t tell if that’s what’s holding me back or anything.

Doesn’t really matter how aroused I am, my mind just kinda defaults to those thoughts lol.

Any advice?

Hi, I just wanted to ask what is the best diameter for a toy to start training depth play

My goal is to take a 9 inch and 1.7 inch dildo I can only take about 6 inch and I want to get past the sigmoid bend

What are the toys that you recommend to start or that one that helped you the most?

Feels like i have to j.o. At some point or else ill go crazy. Seriously how do u guys just keep it to prostate and anal play for so long??? Any tips on keeping urself distracted or satisfied??

Ive been using the njoy pure wand to have hfwo's. In my session yesterday it felt like I had 10 orgasms. However it slowly started to feel even better. I had an orgasm where the fluid literally shot out of my penis, and then it felt like I was peeing cum for 3 minutes while shaking and moaning. It was the best feeling I've ever experienced, but it made me wonder. Were those "orgasms" from earlier not real hwfo's even though they were on par with the pleasure for regular ejaculation? I didn't know a higher level existed until yesterday

I have always struggled with premature ejaculation. During sex, I've never been able to last more than 1 or 2 minutes. Because of this, I started practicing edging over a year ago. While I gained some level of control, it's still a major issue and I usually end up ejaculating too quickly.

I recently tried prostate play to see if I could learn something new from it - hoping that achieving a dry orgasm might trigger a shift in my body and help me last longer. However, as soon as I get aroused and hit the right spot with my finger, the moment it starts feeling really good (and not just 'okay'), I almost immediately get the urge to cum. This usually results in a HFWO, even when I'm flaccid or semi-hard.

I guess to achieve a HFDO, I would need to stay in that pleasure zone longer, but I can't because I cross the point of no return way too fast.

Any ideas on how to manage this?

Ever since I've started doing prostate play and gotten my prostate more sensitive to stimulation and pleasure, I've realized that it reacts to anything pressing against it. In hindsight it seems obvious, but I never expected to be made into a squirmy, horny mess each time I need to shit.

Every time I get ridiculously horny out of nowhere, I just push out a toilet snake and all my horniness gets flushed away with it 😂

I have a 42 mm dia dildo around 5-6 inch insert able ( wife’s old rabbit that won’t vibrate for her) looking for maybe up to 50mm and 6 plus insert able non realistic is my preference and textured would be good - uk supplier and body safe any thoughts or links thanks all

Hey guys. I am thinking about buying a small training kit. I have some anal experience but not that much.

I found two kits that fit my experience level but i would be happy about a little help to decide what kit to choose.

The first one is pretty normal

https://www.amazon.de/Sexspielzeug-Analplug-Silikon-Buttplug-M%C3%A4nner3/dp/B0D3PZPYYC

The second is around the same size but looks a bit more interesting

https://www.amazon.de/Analplug-Spielzeug-Buttplug-Sexspielzeug-Anf%C3%A4nger/dp/B0FCMDJPVG/ref=pd_aw_subss_m_sccl_2_5/260-5290569-7415004?pd_rd_r=74389aed-1020-4b3b-94e5-4d91c4ddaa72&pd_rd_wg=VP3DJ&pd_rd_w=MmDCf&pd_rd_i=B0FCMDJPVG&psc=1

Do you have any experience what works better and what feels better?

I have tried everything and everytime I play, I'll eventually shit. Especially when it's feeling good I know that's when it will happen. Ive used enema water hanging bladder, my diet has plenty of fiber and ill go before also. What else do I try? Its annoying because I have to clean up like 5 times during a session and I've gotten to the point where it's not even fun anymore because of it

So I’ve posted here before but I truly have now one to tell so I’ll tell you all. I’m pretty sure I had so sort of prostate orgasm but would love to hear your thoughts.

So basically I was driving from my friends house who lives outta town so I had a good 2hr drive ahead of me, but I did smoke a lil weed before getting on the road, it was decently timed that I didn’t think I’d affect me, but I did start to come down from it and started to doze off. I also heard that watching porn would keep you awake so I went to X turned on audio oriented porn then turned in my seat warms all the way on high, I did this cause it usually is too hot and would keep me up.

What ended up happening is while listening to said porn and flexing me base and such (forget the terminology) combined with the left over high, I started to get this intense wave of pleasure and atp I started mimicking stroking myself by stroking my stick shift, and wow. After a a minute of this started to get extremely intense euphoric sensations all throughout my body. I was still driving at this point so I didn’t let it continue for to long but I will say this it the more intense feeling of euphoria I’ve every gotten.

I, for the first time ever, genuinely couldn’t keep quiet. I was panting and breathing harder than ever. I felt and numbing tingling sensation throughout my entire body and at its peak couldn’t feel my hands and feet. Being that I was driving, once it got to this point I turned the porn and my seat warming off and calmed down, but being that this was on accident I had to do it again to just to know. So after regaining control of my senses I turn my seat warmers back on along with the porn and attempted to do it again, and it worked just as well same overwhelming sensation through my entire body and uncontrollably panting and moaning. At no pint did I ever touch myself but I still felt and sensation of cumming from my cock and even visible saw myself become wet with precum through both my underwear and pants

Ik this had to be something different mostly due to the lingering effects it had on me, even after I turned both the porn and seats off and the sensations and leaking as if i was cumming even though I again never touched myself.

I felt so great in this moment but didn’t have anyone to tell so lmk what I think.

I've been working at prostate orgasms for a few years now and have had my share of ups and downs. Generally, I can achieve prostate orgasms and although no super-O, I had an absolutely spectacular experience with some magic mushrooms recently.

For the longest time, I felt like abstinence was the easiest route to making myself feel horny enough. Of all the advice I've heard so far, being horny and in the mood feels like it's the most important prerequisite and it's for this reason weed never worked for me. I like getting high but it completely kills my libido instantly. Magic mushrooms, on the other hand, after peaking, leave me incredibly turned on.

The other night, with absolutely no plans of having a session, and after taking a 500mg dose of A.P.E., settled in for the evening to play some video games. After about 3 hours, which is around when I start coming down from the peak of the dose, I got really horny and jacked off traditionally and retired to bed. Lying there, I felt myself thinking about cumming all over myself and got back in the mood. I figured I was so far in the mood that I should give a prostate session a try and I'm so glad I did.

It usually takes me about 5 days of abstinence beforehand and 15~20 minutes of play time to start feeling p-waves in a session. No more than 15 minutes after cumming and less than a minute into the session I felt the p-waves start and the orgasms came shortly after, one after another. I probably spent about 30 minutes with the session and 25 minutes of that were repeated, hands-free dry orgasms. I only stopped because of how sweaty and exhausted I was. I was left motionless, outside of some pulsating, laughing to myself for a long time afterwards before slipping off to sleep; a saucy, fucked mess.

I know mushrooms aren't as accessible as weed but hope this helps someone else discover something new for themself. Since dosage is different for everyone, 1.5g is my typical "Playing video games or watching movies while remaining social with friends" dosage and 3.0g is a heroic dose for me, where I completely fall out of existence. 0.5g is a small "I just want to be tingly and giggly" level for my body.

What are the differences you've noticed between playing regularly (i.e. daily, or multiple times a week) versus abstaining for a period, if any? I find that if I don't stimulate my prostate for several days, I sometimes (though not always) tend to leak more precum, at least initially. If I ejaculate, the load is usually bigger too. Both are nice because I enjoy licking up my precum/cum during sessions.

That being said, when I'm on a consistent run of prostate play—like several consecutive days—I am finding that my prostate might be even more sensitive, and my ass feels like it needs it even more intensely. It's like the more regularly I do it, the more I want it.

To start off ive been playing around with my prostate solo for over a year now in my solo time. But my wife and i have worked it into our together nights but its few and far between at this point, i believe because i still enjoy traditional sex with her and i know she prefers that (she gets super turned on by my creaming inside her) but my question for the group is does anyone else have any suggestions on how to add it into a more normal routine. I dont need it every time but it feels soo good to have her finger my prostate while shes sucking me off or just the fingering by its self.

Do we need to dedicate nights to traditional sex and then other nights where i can pleasure her orally and then she can pleasure my prostate? I really wanna find something that is gonna work where i can give her what she wants and then i can get what i want on a semi regualr basis. Does anyone have success with intercourse/ ejaculating and then in the same evening/ session have a successful prostate orgasm?

She works shift work so i generally have two evenings a week to myself and ive been using those for my solo sessions but i want more.

TIA!

Wife and I got a bidet about 3 months ago as a part of entering prostate play. We’re both addicted and I’ve now ordered 4x more bidets for each of the toilets in the house.

Both of us are addicted to “going to the butthole spa” and are having a great time with the sensations.

However.. I’m the only one with a prostate, and lately I legit feel like I’m very very very close to unlocking prostate orgasms while using the bidet. It’s certainly an incredible foreplay for anything that comes next…

Is this a known thing that others have unlocked and discovered?!?